My wife and i are not talking?

Zam Zam	Ignore & forget the episode & behave like a normal husband as you were earlier.

vampizes	its not over until the fat lady sings Im sure it wasnt as bad as u think now. u have to sit down and discuss it without changing the subject. stick to the problem

Maroshe	If u didn't do anything wrong so don't apologize.Beleive me women think they are always right no matter what u think.Especially if she is a Leo.

tUcKeR	just say too her. Lets make friends!! you dont need too even add the sorry. If she refuses then tell her too brush her peggs.

Will S	I end up givng in to my wife on a lot of things. I look at how much she does for me and figure, what the heck, I am doing pretty good.

nomokomoyo	u have to stand if u know ur right, respect ur self,so others may respect u, and add a little PRIDE..it's no good always to apologize and accept the faults of others,u only make them proud ppl.and belittle u...learn that LIFE,shld.be a give and take relation...

MinxMaggot	I think you should speak up, because even though you want to seem the most manly and such, you seem to be the one thats most concerned, so do something about it!

DesertHoney	Apologize, eventhough you're in the right. After you've apologized, and some time has passed by, explain to her your feelings and how you think it's unfair. Talk nicely and make sure it doesnt go into a fight.

UrbanDenim	Just appolagise its the best you can do. Then once your both talking again. Explain that you were right in an adult way.

HwaIRangIDo	Don't apologize this time, that is what she is waiting for. This is just a game over power. If you want her to come around to you, act like you don't care one bit, find a new hobby and she will be eaten up by it.

Plum	The longer this continues the worse it's going to get. What's worth more to you at this point being right or making up. I agree with the not going to bed without making up, so it's long over due.

prophwarrior	Both of you you need to ask and answer these 2 questions...... First ..ask yourself this: "Is this really the Hill I want to die on?".... Second...."Is my PRIDE greater then the LOVE I have for my Spouse?" Remember my friends that how you both handle this will determine the outcome of how you BOTH will perceive your marriage

Army mom	If you love her and want it to work out, then be the bigger man and just give in. Even though you know you are in the right, but ego plays a big part in situations like this. Women are stubborn, you ought to know that by now...LOL.... I hope things work out for you two. Best wishes

AnaBabyBunny	Suddenly hug her and kiss her, say you are sorry and go from there. Sometimes we need to be humble like that. Even if you are right, she will never see it that way. Find a way to make her do things your way without hurting each others feelings. In the end if you keep this up, divorce will be an option. And I know you don't want that. Just Kiss and Make Up! =>_<=

28 Weeks Later	without knowing more details i cant say who is wright and who is wrong but u need to sit down and talk like adults. every relationship or marrage will have fights/disagreements its natural the important thing is to be able to get past them and carry on with your relationship. good luck man

Sara Jean	it shouldn't matter who is right and who is wrong in a fight if your sorry about the way the argument ended and how upset your guys both got that's all that should matter. too many marriages are ended bc no one can figure out who is right and who is wrong but it really doesn't matter as long as you are together to fight another day

Mr.Kick	Whats the argument, that could help my opinion on who is really right. Anyways just agree to disagree and forget it ever happened. Stick to your guns though if she made you angry. You can;t always be the one kissing behind. Don't be mean to her but at the same time if the subject comes up don't give in.

misho	It doesn,t matter who will apologize because if she was wrong and you apologize she will do it another time and the same if she apologize so if you love each other tell her that you want to talk with her and set alone somewhere and explain to her what do you want and tell her why do you think that she was wrong

Zubair B	If what your saying is true then your doing the right thing i was in a relationship like that where i apologized for everything even if i was right and so much built up inside of me i blew up on day its not good to keep it inside if possible talk to her about it i mean your marriage is more important then your pride but don't just cave in talk to her about it

Judy	Oh my goodness..The more times you give in to her when you know for sure you are absolutely right..the longer it will take for her to Respond. For example, if after a week now? You finally give in to her then next time it will be 2 weeks..and so on..heres what you need to do.. 1. walk around the house whistling the theme from mission impossible while coming from outside waxing your car..Or similar scenarios..just pretend like you all were married yesterday and she is not even in the house...whatever you do...DO NOT GIVE IN..as this will only make matters thicker the next time you are right.. good luck..hope this helps..(she must be a taurus..lol)

Bev M	Just imagine how you or she would feel if one of you got killed in a car accident or something. You [or she] would never forgive yourself for not saying sorry and I love you. Life is too short to be carrying on like this. You've got to make some sort of arrangement so this doesn't happen again. You [or she] can say well, I don't agree but we will have to agree to disagree. Live and let live matey or you will just be digging a hole for yourself. Trust me, I know.

Inquisitor	The fact that you say you are arguing with your wife is a problem. Argument implies that there is a fight. You need to have a rational, reasonable, logical discussion. You need to get control of your emotions. It sounds like your wife is acting like a kid, but even worse, so are you. Someone has to be the adult. Validate her feelings. Acknowledge her concerns. See it from her perspective. It sounds like you are unwilling to go along with her. Read some relationship books.

Rick31	Almost all of arguments in my marriage have been caused by both of us.I never keep score. If I were you I would tell your wife you want to talk and then you listen to her without interrupting and then you should talk without being interrupted. Then you should make up. Without knowing exactly what the silence is about, it is hard to make any other suggestion. My wife and I made a pact to never go to bed mad at each other and have talked way past our bedtime. We both know that neither of us is 100% right or wrong.

omgithinkiknow	be the bigger person, make up with her, each moment mad is a moment you can spend without being happy; remember how she made you feel in the beginning~ pass this feeling along, she deserves it. Who can remain mad when your kissing, go now and do that and invite passion and joy into your life. Be happy, you could be by yourself, treat each moment as a gift, it could all go away in the blink of an eye.

Nikke	If you ever want her to talk to you again, you have to say you are sorry, but if you do that, never ever, even casually admit you said you were sorry just to end the fight. We like to think we won the argument and if you ever confess that you say sorry so that she will shut up or just to end the fight, she will never believe you when you say you are sorry again. Women can go on for months giving you the cold shoulder. I know.

â™¥nayaâ™¥	i think you should go to her and talk it out. show her that you a re the bigger person, and in the mist of things let her know how you feel about everything. You should be able to talk things out as civilized adults. Whatever it was over calmly explain what point you were making and keep calm at all times, because if you don't things will get worse. Show her that you to should be able to work out your differences without arguing.

Kevin Kal	I will not say apologize for her neither admit you are wrong when u're not, but i believe you have to make everything clear for her, tell her that u always apologize even when u're wrong as that's not right. both of you love each others and you married upon understand and well-communication between you. so try to invite her for a dinner and explain what's been wrong and how to make is right and even better.

Tira B	Hello, If I were you I would apologize and then have a talk with your wife. Tell her how you feel about having to say I'm sorry all the time even when you have done nothing wrong. You just have to break this silence now, say I am sorry and once everything is OK (after a few days) talk to her about it.

Giannaâ™¥	The solution to this is that you both have to communicate, do not say you are wrong even when you know you are not wrong, just to make her happy, and she should not feel like she has to do that to you. You both have to sit down and communicate and talk, do not say sorry just to "get it over with", and "move on", you have to sit down, lay it all out on the table, and just communicate about how you feel. If you guys can't sit down face to face, I would say counseling would be next. If you can't be in the same room with each-other and argue, I think it is time someone else gets in there and acts as the moderator.