My wife is gaining weight.?

mpjs4	what does it matter if you love your wife then her weight should not matter

nunuboi	I say you guys should do a fitness program together. So, that way you could spend some time w/ the person you love and you both can lose some weight. I hope this helps!

Michelle N	You should start exercising together, just start taking walks in the morning before work or after work. Start working together to eat less, dont buy snacks instead buy fruit and eat fruit when you feel the need or want to snack, I know its very very hard! Just start little changes and work them into your lifestyle, take adventerous weekends, hiking,swimming,biking. Good Luck!!

Tinkerbell	If it is an issue for the both of you suggest working out together and making changes together! Dont criticize her, help her and yourself.

sexychocolatecity21	I agree w/Lisa. exercise and change your eating habits.

Merinda D	start eating healthier foods.. and maybe suggest working out together- you could suggest this by saying it'll be a different way the two of you can spend time together and still be healthy.

starlette321	well...ask her if she wants to walk the dog with you..or walk around the block with you..or join a gym with you. you may have to engage so she doesnt feel hurt. if you need to get in shape too just tell her that you want a partner and it cant hurt.

mr.prince	Tell her to drop the fork. Just work for it and keep pushing for her to get a healthy life style you should really need to work

Jaffacakes	Suggest to your wife that you think you need to lose weight, and ask her if she'll help you by only buying healthy foods. That way she'll feel good and she'll lose weight at the same time. You could also suggest going for evening walks together.

Annie...?	You sound like you are mentally retarded. Why don't you go read a book, or better yet a dieting book. There you go. Now you can have a brain and be thin.

Little Light	join a gym together that has a pool too. go walking or jogging together in the morning, kick boxing classes? maybe yoga. change the foods you buy

Texas Cowboy	Walk together at night or in the morning. Take up a sport. Quit drinking alcohol but NEVER tell a woman she's gained weight!

Crystal LeeAnn	You should love her no matter if she gains weight or not. Love is on the inside, not the outside. This issue is a sore spot to me since I gained weight due to medications. My ex told me he was embarrassed to be seen with me in public. I did not gain that much either. We divorced over many issues and he has remarried. Before he married her, he told her that if she gained 5 pounds, he would get rid of her. Please don't be shallow like him. Love your wife no matter what.

I love my wife and kids	unlikely for you to have a wife in high school

Matty M	buy a WII fit its fun, and you lose weight with out knowing it

connie_J	Why dont you both take up a dance class or go to spin classes together...at least they are both reasonably fun things to do together. You could book the dance classes as a gift for her just pick a style you think she would like. Then the weight issue doesnt even have to be mentioned

monicah	yoga!

Complete @rsehole	Tell her you're not comfortable with your weight at the mo and would like to do something about it. Ask her if she would support you with your weight problem. Easy. Make her think it's you and join a gym.

Siver C	any chance she's pregnant?

Lena K	You married her for better or worst so get your jogging shoes on and help her. Id go and see if there are some pills to stop you from being such an *** hole also.

Don'tKnowMuchMyself	go on walks or runs together. join a gym together.. there are many ways to "hang out" however work out at the same time! and next time dont tell her shes gaining weight.. it just hrts to hear it from your husband.. even if we dont make it obvious. you dont want to make her self conscious aroundyou!

Prià¸£ciâ„“â„“Î± âœŸ	Hmm.. why don't you tell her you want to go on a diet and you want her support, so could you please do it together? Remember, since it is your idea you will have to be willing to contribute a lot of effort, like cooking healthy meals for the two of you, ask her to go on walks, etc.

babygirl	easy...join a gym together and have fun!

Lisa	Just eat healthy and exercise. It will be easier if you do it together.