My wife is seriously thinking about divorce.?

Jamika	I know this is very hard I've been dealing with the same problem only visa versa, its just going to have to come to the point either you ask her to do councling or try to make yourself happy. Sitting back watching her hang out with the other guys isn't going to help you, it will eat and tear you up. I agree with getting out and starting a new. Sometimes it takes leaving to have the person you love realize what they have lost. That is what it took for me.

Family Law Made Easy	It has to be worth considering marriage guidance/counselling. You both still love each other so with some expert help there should be hope of resolving your wife's feelings.

Gena	For starters your wife hanging out with a bunch of guys without you is not a good sign. And she has been doing this for a while, there is an incredibly big chance that she is cheating on you. However judging from this I believe there is a problem that lies within your character. I used to have this very problem in relationships myself and it was painful. But I've turned that around so hear me out.This may sound harsh, however this is the only thing that can save you at this point... Getting and keeping a womans attention is constant work on a mans behalf, we have to keep the attraction there. You seem like you did not have a problem with this when you first met her, but as the years went by you became more ATTACHED and more PU$Y WIPED. Thus your wife has said there is something different now, something that isn't there anymore. ATTRACTION. Thus you begin to be even more desperate and nervous and giving up even more control to your wife begging her, telling her you love her. Which as you saw in the past half year only makes it worse. You have to get rid of that shy part in you, it will not get you anywhere. It's just a barrier you have to overcome as a man. You need to build up a character of confidence and act on it as a man. This is the reason your wife is hanging out with a bunch of guys and not you, she no longer sees you as the MAN you used to be. She now sees you as a COMPANION or a FRIEND. If I were you I'd act on my advise as soon as possible, only you can help yourself.

pictureshygirl	It does not make sense that you felt extremely happy in your marriage and she on the other hand is not. You missed something and it may be you desire to remain in denial. But the fact is, no woman wants a divorce for no reason at all. And her excuse that she felt you had to settle for her sounds ridiculous; It is obvious you both on not on the same page on things and the relationship lacks communication. She needs to make it clear why it is she enjoys hanging out with other males instead of you, her husband. While we all can enjoy the company of others to say she enjoys their company before you is down right cruel. My guess is that she is harboring some anger and resentment and you have no clue why. Some women expect a man to be a mind reader. Sit her down and have a serious talk with her, there is something she is not telling you and there are many things you are not listening to. TALK and see if she is willing for marital counseling to at least help to get to the reasons why she is so unhappy to the point she wants a divorce. Good luck to you!

Midnite	Hmm. Its the classic "Its not you... its me" tactic. She is trying to make you feel good about her wanting to be free to see other people because "you deserve better". You know what? She is right! She is not good enough for you. She probably has a new flame or at least has her eye on one. You don't deserve her doing that to you. You can try therapy or counseling. Might work but it probably will just be a delay in her plans or frustrate her depending on how determined she is to break up the marriage. Remember you cannot make someone love you. If that's so, then count this as one of life lessons. Learn from it and you will be a better person. P.S. It is NOT your fault. Get out and enjoy life yourself. You will find love in due time.

Brianna	RUN, do NOT walk, to the nearest marriage counselors! Explain you hit emergency levels! Ask for twice a week to start with. There is nothing you can do by yourself to fix this issue, relate that you tried for 6 full months and it's worse now than what it was. Marriage counseling will help. Call one right this minute! Stop reading answers and hit the phone book, look online to see if any are talked about in your area that are supposed to be good. Make an appointment for as early as possible!

Fifi	I think there's nothing your gonna do to change what she thinks , she is already made up her mind and she doesn't want a married life anymore she wants to be single and layout . Am sorry to say this but she doesn't love u anymore she doesn't feel the some way she used to do . You can try and talk to her ask he if there's anything she wants u to change. You can also try consoling and see whether things can work out. She is not sure anymore and that hurts so much cos you love her and u gonna be hurt like hell. But if she doesn't want anything to do with u anymore or spend time with u , u will have to let her go.

Brittany Parrella	Is she cheating?

Lovly	Its a pity that you love her and she doesnt feel it anymore. The fact that she is hanging out with male friends regularly maybe contributing to your situation. What time does she focus on you. she is investing her time there and reaping some attention. If she can create some distance with her male friends you have chance of improving your relationship. as others suggest seek help.

stephanie_6234	She is hanging out with a group of male friends???? um.....something is so not right with that. I say, find your own set of female friends to hang out with...see how she likes that.

Farewell	I'm sorry to hear that, you must be heart broken. I hate to say this, but do you think she is having an affair or is attracted to someone else? When I say affair this can be an emotional affair - not just physical. Are you able to talk to one another and express your deepest most darkest secrets? If you aren't then you just may not be emotionally compatible. This may be the best thing for you and it's better to know now rather then later when children are involved. What ever happens I wish you the best of luck.

bobby769	She has a group of male friends she hangs out with? Dude something does not sound right about that.

Kurt Biewald	nothing you can do then it has to be a two way thing, with both partners liking at least most of the relationship most of the time, or its probably gonna end. and if you sit there begging like a dog, its not gonna help anything.

Provider Class Member	Get a lawyer, Hide money, Get the kids and move out....even if it is in the middle of the night. Get clear of her. Even from the things you do see what haven't you seen is more important.

Poppy	Turn out the lights, the party's over... sorry!

sprasa03	ask her to participate with you in couples counseling before you divorce. Then YOU find a counselor.