My wife left me one year ago,i still love her and i cannot have another relationship with other woman,advise?

thatonegirl	Get over it. She is not coming back so why make yourself suffer? Maybe you should try just being single for now enjoy the freedom and experience!

IT'S JUST ME !	you have to get on with your life dude ...where is your pride .....she doesn't love or want you anymore ! Live your life and forget her.

reallyprettythickgirl	Awwww. I'm so sad for you.You'll get over it eventually. I was like that when me and my ex-fiance broke up and even if i was in a relationship, whenever he told me he was coming back, i would break up with whoever i was with for him. It's going to be hard but you have to try to let go. I still love my ex after 3 years and I always will.i even told his wife that but i'm not in love with him anymore (i'm getting married 5/11/08). It will be hard but you can do it. Best wishes to you.

darkbunny15	I think that if she left you then you have the right to date other people. But if you still like her then you should go and look for her and ask her why she left you. But I think that if someone leaves you then you can date other people.

sparetom	Some people think it takes as long to get over someone as you were togetrher. That may be true. Don't rush it. try to socialize like going to parties, join an acting class - it's a great ice breaker. Creative writing classes are good too! Stan up social occasions are the best way to meet new people and you are bound to come across someone that likes you enough to talk to and maybe more. You need volume at this point. Enjoy your freedom, take a deep breath. Before you know it you'll be tied up again.

duster	You still feel faith full towards your ex wife enough, to not want any other woman in your life at this point. One day in the future, that will change.

veronica c	The loss of a spouse is comparable to the grief of someone dying. Its going to take a long time to get over her.....so in the meen time spend some time on you!

jane_queen_of_jungle	omg please take ur time dont just into another relationship its only been a year that well for me isn't long enough besides the next woman ur going to go out with will be judged by u and compared to ur ex wife i know u may not think that will happen but it will its natural i have been with my g/f now for 5 yrs and still compare her to my ex husband and i haven't been with him for 8 yrs sometimes its just hard to get someone out of ur system specially during the holidays. good luck and have a great christmas

pshdsa	Of course not. You are not over your relationship with your wife. It will take time to heal. I think you are still holding onto the idea that she will come back. What would you do? Take her back so she could break your heart again? Just get on with life. Work, exercise and live. Millions of people before you and with you have and are going through the same thing. If they can make it, and they do, then you can too.

kitty	You are still grieving now. Dont worry about other women at this point in time. You have to get on the road to recovery for yourself first. Takes time and you will find another woman when that time comes.Its hard to quit loving someone but it takes loving to go on with yourself.

Zig Zag	No sense dwelling on it at this point after all it's been a year. Get out there and find yourself a female friend to start with. A friendship can turn into something more...if your lucky.

stella	It is hard when you have been so connected with one person and you suddenly don't have them anymore. However, if you are feeling lonely, just slowly start dating again. There is more than one match for each person in the world, and if you really are looking for love you will find it. Getting over your past marriage will be difficult, but love will come to you. Give it time.

Tellie	Walk throungh your void do not dance around it! Have Faith ! Of course let her know how you feel! SEnd her flowers once a month ! Do not even put your name on them. Not necessary ! REal love doesn't come with wanting something in return.

MOM OF ONE	well what did she leave you for? Drugs, drinking, abuse? what did you do? Or didn't do? I mean come on there is a reason she left. If she left a year ago she will not return most likely to you dude. sorry! Sounds like you need to do some soul searching/inventory on yourself. Maybe a counselor to help you. Good luck!

Max.F	Get over with it since your wife has left you.

Niko	Find something else to do besides dwell on the past. Concentrate on work or go out w/ the guys and have fun. Don't try too hard to make yourself jump into a new relationship. If it's meant to be - it'll happen on it's own. There's more to life then relationships. You have to let yourself heal.

Special K	I feel your pain, but the only thing I can say to you is that time will be your friend. When you love someone and things don't work out, it takes time to heal the wounds. You will find love again, it takes getting completely over what once was, and having the will to move on, it will happen.

Dio	over 6 billion people on earth. Theres no such thing as a soul mate. I feel for ya buddy but you gotta keep yourself busy, get liking yourself and your attract better people that way.

Karen Y	Im sorry, but you need to move on as she did. You dont deserve to be in pain the rest of your life. Get rid of what belongs to her and find your own peace of mind. You will never find a woman like your wife..., but you could find one even better! Just give yourself that opportunity!

Gloâ˜…	Get some counseling so you can get to the root of the issue here. If the relationship is over and she has moved on, you really don't have a choice. Come to grips with reality. And then begin to build your self esteem. One must love them self before you can expect someone else to love you. If you don't see anything within yourself that is worthy, no one else will see it either. Good luck and God bless****

-â™¥invisable ninja-â™¥-	Leave her alone! well in a nice wayyyyy um. other then that just find someone else

The girl next door	I'm sooo sorry to hear that. Maybe it's not time for you to start being in a relationship right now. You will know when you are ready. So just keep doing what you've been doing.

wildirishrose19522000	it takes time for the wounds to heal just have a good time and make some friends to have fun with and you will fnd another one

Tapestry6	Yes you can have another relationship if you open up your heart. You can love a lot of people but you chose to close your heart. Advice.. do some volunteer work and learn to love other people again.

Diane A	If you can answer this then you are ready to move on: Why did she leave you? What was your part of the relationship failure?

Elle	Try to get over it. She left you because she didn't want to be in the relationship, she probably won't come back to you.

Miss~America	i think that u should try 2 move on and u may find someone better

Michael R	You have to force yourself to start dating again. The only chance you have is to meet someone new and exiting - that'd happen sooner or later - I've been there.

should be working	this too shall pass. get back out there!!!!!!!!!