My wife wants to leave me after being married for 3 months.?

peggin_beast	I'm sorry for your pain! She should of thought about it before the wedding, but it seems she didn't. Let her go. You will find love again. Many times!! Don't break your heart any longer by trying to get her to stay. It won't be worth it, but just more pain. She's being truthful, so you should at least show her a bit of respect for doing that.

unpublished critic	ahhhhYes and yet another case, of why you should not get married young. Not much you can do if she is done, she is done, it takes 2 to make it work, not one . And you should be a shining example to all the others out there under 25 who think they are with "their one and only" and should get married. Intelligence really is wasted in youth

pixiegirlc	She obviously should have never gotten married. My best freinds brother just went through the same thing a couple of months ago. Now after telling him a feew months ago that she wanted to get a divorce, now she is telling him that she might want to work things out. She needs to grow up and learn to figure out exactly what she wants before she makes any lifelong choices. I cant begin to tell you what to do...all I can tell you is good luck and I hope that she comes around. Best wishes!

m_c_m_a_n	Your wife sounds like a shallow, selfish waste of time. Maybe she could have thought of this before she said yes. Dump her and tell her to go have a ball. Chances are she is cheating on you anyway. This just reinforces my theory that most people under the age of 35 don't have any idea of what love really is or means.

pufferoo	Give her the opportunity to experience divorce.

kathy h	Sounds to me like she is trying to let you down easy, there is probebly more to the story than that. But I think she should have thought the situation through before she said I do. And I wonder what the other stuff is ? another Man? If she is this immature you are probebly better off leting her go

sarah W	I guess it can happen I'm 23 and I've been married for a year there are rough times I mean when your in your twenties its a really big transitioning time into becoming an "real" adult. My husband works with me on it because our family is so important to us but a lot of people can't do the responsiblity in this more me generational thinking

blazek35	Try to go and get some counseling. Hopefully that will help. Sorry to hear that. Geting married at 23 is alittle too early.

Amy F	Thats selfish of her, she should of figured it out before she got married, if you want to stay with her, then just talk to her, tell her to re think what she is doing. But in the end, if she wants to leave then you cant really stop her. You could try couples counseling, sometimes those things help, tell her you wont give her a divorce until y'all at least tried it.

KitKat	She should've thought about that before she got married. Now it's going to be an expensive mess to get out of. I swear, when I got married to my 1st husband, we went to the courthouse and paid $20 to get married. 7 years later, it cost $1500 to get out of. You could possibly get it anulled, I'd talk to an attorney about that. Next time, learn from this mistake and date longer than 2 years before you get married. My fiance and I were together for almost 6 years before he proposed.

K_LOVE	Well she do have a point getting married in your 20's with out enjoying life, but you have to open your eyes and make it happen as not to think if you was married, what i mean is that give her the down time.. when it is ladies night let her have her fun..she knows what is right from wrong.. maybe she wants to try things that you are not into.. Talk sit down and open the doors to conversations.

Loo M	If you don't have any children then you are lucky. I would just let her go, afterall there isn't much that you can do to change her mind. I know that it is hard, but it is better to do this now than later.

enriquelomasa	What a poor deal. She VOWED to stay with you. Ask her what it would take to make her happy and still be married. She may just want to go live alone, travel, etc. If you can comply and stay married. Do it. Work with her. Show her what it means to be considerate person who sticks to their vows.

dt	Yall need to sit down before a counselor and have a long serious talk. What does she want to do exactly? Why can't yall do it now? Do you have kids? If not then why does she feel that you're holding her back? She seems immature but i don't think that yall should get a divorce. Marriage is a huge adjustment and it takes compromise from both parties to make it work. I don't think you should get a divorce unless your spouse is repeatedly cheating on you.

156to you 765897 hy67890	she should of thought of that before she got married, move on

larry j	It's a cop out. Shes probably already experiencing it now,& you don't know. Show her the door.

mix baez	How harsh! She should of thought that before she got married.

Hannah G	Awww, I'm sorry. Maybe you should try counseling or tell her that she can still experience things while you two are together.

T	She's a hoe...she probably seeing some1 else. Let her go

starry-eyed	wow... so sorry to hear that! get away from her while you have the chance. she's way too immature and will only really hurt you!

Wolfie	Get a prenuptial next time. ITS THE DEVIL!!!

Jack J	let her go dude, she's a loser, you'll be better off in the long run without her

Lollipop	classic! its the jitters!! this is sooooo common. and understandable too. have you tried the tactic of 'honey, i understand how you're feeling. i'm in the for the long-haul, thats why i married you, i hope you feel the same' that kinda thing? sounds lame to read it but it might help open her up to explain a bit more about why she's having the jitters. good luck hun

JoeJonasFan	odds are she's met someone and finds herself attracted to him. I could be wrong but that's generally what "I haven't experienced things" mean. Sorry you have to go through this.

kMaz	try couples therepy

Amanda	Well you are going to have to let her be. I know that sounds harsh, but everyone needs to be happy.

Hi its me again	well you really can't stop her if she goes but I wouldn't take her back if she does go..

ronnieD	What a ******! She should've thought about that before getting married. It's obvious that she got caught up in the planning and celebration, cause it was all about her probably, that she neglected to realize what kind of commitment she was making.

Nikki	Wow, that is terrible. She should have thought about those things BEFORE she got married. I am very sorry to hear that.

....	I'd agree with her. You should feel thankful she is being truthful. See if you can get in annulled.