My wife works until 4 a.m. on New Year's Eve. Would you be upset if she went out afterwards with co-workers?

frank	If you have to ask strangers you must be. Either get a babysitter and go or get a date

Beach Girl	I, personally wouldn't be upset a bit....but I think you would be or you wouldn't have asked this question. Tell your wife that you want to be THE FIRST PERSON to kiss her in 2008 and she needs to come on home....it will be worth it! :)

Can I forgive him for hurting me	I would be PO

SeÃ¡n	Same as me, 9pm - 4am. Nightclub work =(

â€ Evonneâ€	I sure would to the fifth power. If she is okay with you going out with your buddies on New Year's Eve, then you have a bigger problem. If they truly love you, they will NOT to that to you. Find out what's going on. It's one thing if they pull that on any other day, but New Year's Eve... -C'mon... You are suppose to spend it with the love in your life. Single people spend it with friends/other dates. There is something fishy about that.

Leannamick	yeah id be alittle annoyed

MyMxboys is an old bag too	Yeah, that's not really fair. Does she do that alot?

jenjennic	most defintely

anacaona	It all depends on your personal values; both yours and hers. Do both of you or maybe both believe you should welcome the new year together? Because even if you did you wouldn't be able to because she has to work. So neither of you will be together even if you both wanted to. At least you were able to spend it with your children whereas she had to spend it working with people she isn't related to. I suppose if you are sleeping by the time she gets out then why not go out and at least try and enjoy time after work since she couldn't do it at all? Might as well... But like I mentioned before, it is a matter subjective to each relationship. Are you posting this specific question because you feel upset?

Incredible	yeah i would, thats not fair at all

P3RF3CTLY FLAW3D	yes...i would because Ur suppose to spend the new years with ur family

New Running Shoes	I'm a little confused as to what exactly there is to do at 4 in the morning besides drive on the interstate with lots of drunk people. I'd be upset.

hearts99992000	No, She wants to go out after new years and have a good time. Have some trust in her, she hasn't done anything to make you think she'd be unfaithful.

The_Informer	NO! but I would make sure that we would celebrate tomorrow night as a family

free_angel	It depends on where they're going and what they plan on doing.

*Â¸.â€¢Â´`â™¥ Kinza!*	darling dont get upset. shes allowed to have fun! just ask her to celebrate with you when she comes back! and its just new years. another day in this world!

Mac S	Upset? No. Get a babysitter. Meet up w/ her and her friends from work. She's your wife for Christ's sake! Take a nap now, with the youngsters so you're rested up. And take a cab. Happy New Year!

Tina T	Well, it depends...are you doing anything tonight while she is out working? If you are home with the kids all night, then yes, I would be upset, but if you are doing something without the kids then I would not be upset...let her celebrate too.

jd	Is her co worker a male, then yes.

jdemarcy	Well depends do you go out sometimes and she stays home with the kids?? If not then i'd say yeah i'd be upset and go out this weekend while she babysits them..

Noone i	Tell her to get her BUTT home and be a loving mother instead of sitting in some bar getting drunk. She is basically telling you point blank that: 1) you are merely a baby sitter to her 2) she is going to drink and cheat 3) your marriage is almost over you dont have to tolerate her going out while you babysit, show up where shes at and make sure you keep a CLOSE eye on her every move tonite. Something is going on that you need to know about.

Daydreamer	I will.

Harry O	No, your evening is already screwed. Let her have a good time.

justcurious	yes i would be upset

Tired Old Man	If it was MY wife i would be. It would have to be a private party as no bars would be open& would just be asking for trouble!

JCA	No. If the tables were reversed, would "she" be upset if you went out with your buddies? I'd say NOT. So sounds to me like she's the one bringing home the bacon. That means she get "time to go with her buddies". You sound like your a stay at home dad so Stay Home And Take Care Of The Babies.

threegooofs	No, Dont be a controlling ******. You have no reason to want to have her home other than that you arent there, and have no plans to do it. Did you want to hang out with her at 4AM?

Mandibulin	Yes, i'd be bothered.

snowangels	yeahh... how inconsiderate of her. she should at least invite you along