Oh NO!! She's Called off the Wedding.?

jodie	Your problem is not the cubic zirconium. First if you misrepresented the stone she has got you for lying which is the first step to breaking down communication and lack of trust. Secondly, why is it so hard to explain to someone that this is what you wanted to give her...an engagement ring does not have to be a diamond.

hesterthehester	Did you tell her )or lead her to beleive) it was a diamond? If so, your a liar, and you deserve what you get.. Now your going ot have to get a diamond 1.5x 2x as big.. Get ready to shell out the bucks. -HtJ

â˜†Lindsey & Jacksonâ˜†	That's your own fault. You shouldn't have done that. That's embarrasing for her and everyone she showed it to. How do you think she feels? She's probably been showing it off to people and here it is fake! You deserve to be dumped. You lied to her. You need to do something REAL nice for her now.

Merry christmas	well gosh if she wont marry you because of some ring then she doesn't deserve you. My fist wedding ring was a cubic zirconia. And i loved it. I love my husband. Don't try to get her back she's stupid!! SHE CALLED OFF YOUR WEDDING BECAUSE OF SOME RING!!

NoWonder	I don't even know what to say. If you love her... tell her you're sorry, and if it's that important to her to have a real diamond tell her you'll get it as soon as you can. If that's not good enough, she's too materialistic to bother with her. But if that's the case you would have known that already and shame on you for getting cubic zirconia!

getrd2go	Geeze...first off did you ever tell her it was a diamond? If not, it's not like you lied to her, and if the material objects are that important to her....are you sure you want her back? I mean I would hope she was marrying you because she loved you not because she loved the rock on her finger!! NOW: if you did lie to her and tell her it was a diamond when you knew it wasn't then you have some major butt kissing to do . Because she is probably more upset that you lied to her than the fact the ring is a fake.

"EL SANCHO"	SAY YOU DIDNT KNOW!!! GET HER A REAL DIAMOND! FAST! if all else fails, then she is a money hungry ****** to begin with anyway. I suggest a mail order bride from Russia. They are used to the poor life. or even find yourself a mexican woman that wants her papers. You can find some REALLY hot ones that will even PAY you to marry them (around 3-6 grand). Make sure you work in some nookie and dinner every so often into the deal.

Velken	Why lie about something so trivial? Why not just get her a smaller real diamond ring? Lying of any kind is not a good way to being a marriage. Maybe that was all she needed to get second thoughts. Did you try to lie your way out of it when she confronted you, or did you immediately admit it? You need to find out why she is so upset. Then you'll know if she's worth trying to keep.

CherrySplendor	She sounds like a gold digger. That means she doesnt love you really. She is in love with the idea of getting married. Not you. If the woman really loves you, then it wouldnt matter if she had on a wooden ring, as long as she has you is all that matters. Let her go.

asmoothrider	Let her go the money grabbing ******. Dont she know how much they cost and how much she is worth,ideas above her station if you ask me.

BonesofaTeacher	If you lied to her about the ring you have a real issue. Why did you lie? Why would you lie about something like that? Why should she trust you? You need to explain the truth to her why you did that and try to get forgiven. If you tried to pass a zirconia ring off as a diamond. You deceived her on purpose.

God is the answer!	dump her b/c she doesn't really love u if she wants to leave u 4 a ring! She's shallow!

sexy bunni 69	well if she loved u it shouldnt matter to her ..

mysticfairy74	If she is going to be superficial about the ring...then what else is she going to be superficial about?....I dont think it matters if the ring is Cubic or Diamond myself...it is all about the love I feel for that person...sounds to me like she is more Materialistic then she is in love...sorry...

micky73194	FOR GET HER! U DONT NEED NEONE THAT IS AS GREDY AS HER!

whoanelly00	if she cares that much about a material possesion....you guys are going to have a long and very expensive marriage........just tell her you were saving up for a nicer one to suprise her with at the wedding.

Nina_Bruja-des	if shes willing to call off the wedding for a reason like a fake diamond id say let her shes materialistic

dani_kin	Well is she mad because of the ring or because you lied about it? If she is mad and wants a real diamond, then dump her, you don't need to marry a materialistic nut. If she is mad that you lied, then try begging, pleeding, counseling and above all, respect her decision, whatever it may be.

rbrow112	Why didn't you buy her a diamond if you really love her? If it is because money is scarce, just tell her. Just talk to her about the whole thing.

Jet	Let her go and count your blessings!

â™¥ Jen â™¥	Dump her. If she's too much into material things. You'll be broke in no time. lol

KITZYA R	She is just being over-dramatic.

?	You lied to her...that's kind of a big deal. You're gonna have to make it up to her big time!

jshepard17	You shouldn't have lied to her. Why didn't you tell her that it was a temporary ring until you could afford a really nice one. You blew it.

aaaaa	why weren't you honest with her? if she's gonna call off the wedding is it because she found out that it wasn't real diamonds or is it because you lied to her?

Jennifer	How superficial! I think you should dump the greedy bit*h!

sunshine_01	i never heard of a ring like that before. but maybe you should just try talking to her. obvisiously you still love her. you'll think of something.

tay	like OMG