Okay so I went home on my lunch break to do some light cleaning and start dinner?

Lala	Tell him, "I WORK TOO!" its only fair to help out around the house since we both work unless you think i should leave my job and only clean and cook around the house.

Myles S	Hi dear. I'm sorry I'm such a complainer. It's just that's the way I'm wired and no amount of medication is going to change me. Can you ever forgive me? ....and can I get you beer?

Valerie X Account #17 MEAN GIRL	Just thinking of your husband in that wig and you looking all cute in your costume......come on now, show your man the love......hehehe!

Captain	Actions speak louder than words. Come home w/ a chore list. If he doesn't agree to it, then stop doing nice things for him. No more cooking dinner, eat before you get home and let him figure out what to do. No more laundry for him, if he doesn't get his chores done. Things like that. You may have to live in a mess for awhile, but he'll get the point. When both are working, duties at home should be divided.

Tainted Heart	Don't say anything because it will more then likely go in one ear and out the other. You have to give him a dose of tough love which means go on strike. Cook only for yourself & clean only what you mess up. Eventually he will get the hint. Even if he didn't clean during the week he could definitely lift a finger on the weekend. Why should you have to do all the chores when he helps eat and dirty **** up.

DILLON	Get naked and take your anger out on each other all over the house.

FF'n Momma	Take the Valium, love the Hairy Santa, make yourself some dinner, come get a couple drinks with Me and Val and tell him to take care of himself for the night! â™¥â™¥ LMAO - VAL....I'll be ready to party it up girl!!! We'll have a celebration....Everyone will have to use "Val" in their questions all day long or they get reported!!! LOL! We can act like (the psycho of which we do not speak of) and report everyone all day!

Sherry F	Take a Valium and calm down is all you can do, or leaves him but i don't think you really want to do that. Face it he is a man and men hate house work. Does he do the out door chores like cutting the grass talking care of your vehicles?

Angel<3	Haha i'd be pissed. I'd probably come back with something like "Yeah well, I work alot more hours than you and I'm never home, so I mean if you could at least do one or 2 things instead of sit on your lazy @ss all the time the effort would be greatly appreciated. Sorry I'm the only one who doesn't want to live in a filthy fu**ing house." ;] haha

gypsy g	Ask, "Hey, whats for dinner?" and grab a beer out of fridge and plop down on the couch. And when he doesn't cook, get up and go buy yourself something. It doesn't matter who works what, how or when...when it comes to both having to work, then both are responsible for the household chores.

Onetoplay	How about "Get off your lazy a*s". That may work.

Ready for Summer	Rather than going home and starting a war maybe talk to him about expectations in the house and that housework/ chores should be everyone in the family contributing not just 1 person regardless of who the person with more time is. If everyone pitched in things would be as crazy to keep up with and you wouldn't have to come home on lunch break to do dishes.

redhead27	Just tell him... fine, honey... my job might be less physically strenuous than yours but it requires more hours. And since I don't have as much time at home I will not be able to do your laundry, clean your dishes, or cook you a meal, etc. So from now on you need to do your own laundry, cook, clean because I am at work more hours than you.

im frowning upside down :)	i dont agree with you 100% sorry, but his job his more tiring apparently, but you work longer. that balnces out i guess, but he's a guy, guys dont clea no matter what sooooo i dont think its eva gonna happen, arguing about it would only make it more annoying for the both of you. or dont cok anymore, and tell him you'll start cooking again when he starts to do some other chores, laundry, or dusting maybe. not having good meals, will kill him, he'll do some work! :D lol

Robert	Tell him you are going to have relations with the Hairy Santa. <------Hairy Santa!

alwayswvgirl	Happy 2 said it right!!

Poppy	I think you just said it yourself. You work 50 and he works 40. Seems to me he owes you 10. If he's not man enough to do his physical job maybe he can get a receptionists position somewhere.

getyourleash	You need to talk to him calmly, without pointing the finger. Sit him down and let him know that you would like more help around the house. Tell him that you understand his job is strenuous, but you contribute as much as he does and need the extra help.

Lovely lady	Tell him that when he starts helping out, you will start putting out!! LOL

L_C	Advice> Hire a maid and go out to eat untill he starts helping out.

Lucy Blue	I think who ever spends the most time at home should do the most chores. You could make an assignment sheet for common chores and agree that you will each pick up after yourself. If it's too much to keep up with you might consider hiring some outside help to come in and help with heavier cleaning on a regular basis.

Happy-2	I don't think you should say anything. I think you should stop cleaning, and make dinner only for yourself. If he wants to eat, he can get his lazy tail up and make himself something.

Chachi	Some men will never get it. I say start cooking for one until he does.

Jason O	Ok here goes. Honey you were right. What? That's not what you were wanting to see? For all you thumbs down people it was a joke so pull the stick out of your butts.

â™«Sailing Awayâ™«	You work just as hard as he does. He needs to step up and quit being so lazy around the house. Step up to him and tell him you are not his Mama.