QUESTION ABOUT FAITHFULNESS...(serious answers, please)?

windmill ever	if your not married...well the chances are good that she will stray. A lot of women hate to be lonely, and are easy to fall into temptation. It really just depends on her and how much she loves you though.

K M	Honestly it depends on your relationship. Women and Men in a committed, honest, loving relationship can endure a brief seperation like a year or less easily. It happens all the time. Men join the military and do basic training or get stationed in Iraq for 18 months. Husbands accept contract positions overseas with limited home contact and wives are faithful. To answer this question, how long have you been together? Do you really love and trust each other? Is this a soul mate relationship? If you have only been casually dating a few months, it is likely she will move on. If you have been together a long time, she could wait. The other question is why are you going to jail? I don't need the answer but is it something she empathizes with you about or is she angry with you for your mistake? How she feels about your actual sentence may also play a part in her supportive role during the time served.

cocoa	Honestly, from my point of view is that if its only been a year, it may not last. If you have invested year and years into a relationship, the chances are likely that she would stay faithful, or if you are married and have kids together. I have seen a few relationships where the girl acts like she is being faithful but lives the life of a party girl who goes out with different guys each week. I cant say that your girlfriend will do this but you really should know what kind of person she is. Think of how you met her. Was it out in a club? Was she a party girl before you met her? If she is not that type of person, you 2 might have a chance. This is just my opinion, hope this helps.

Lucy	You've been together for a year. It's prime lovey dovey stage- she'll stay faithful. If you were together longer, she'd probably stray.

ajdkajnsdkjasnkdnc	Honestly no one can answer that since we dont know her or your relationship. Ex. Just b/c other girls might cheat in that situation, doesn't mean she will and vise-versa.

oracleofohio	I think a person could be faithful for that long, sure. I also think a person could change a lot in a year (and so will you). If you're not married, I think the responsible thing to do would be to set her free and let her live her life while you're in jail. If she's faithful the entire time and waiting for you when you get out, you'll know she's a keeper. If she's moved on with her life, you can't really blame her for doing so and you move on. Be a man and let her go. You got in trouble, she didn't.

Miss Ogyny	Honey is that YOU? Let me explain it again. You went and did something illegal and got yourself sentenced to jail. So your stupidity means that I have to be freaking celibate for a year? I don't think so. So I think it best for me to go get banged occasionally because you are not here to take care of your husbandly duty. So you can make a big deal about it in which case I;'ll just divorce your butt and move on OR YOU can keep your mouth shut and not ask any questions you don't want the answers to. If YOU are lucky when you get out we will still be together and you won't be replaced by a better lover. I do not wish to discuss this again.

Kitty	It depends on how much she wants to be with you. Marry her and then there is a higher chance she wont stray. Not guaranteed though. Personally, for me, the guy would have to be one h*ll of a catch for me to wait almost a year while he served a jail sentence. No offense...but chances are if he were having to serve a jail sentence...he wouldn't be much of a catch for me and I'd move on to someone who made better choices in life.

China Rican	It all really depends on the person. My fiance was in trouble in that past and has spent 5 years of his life in jail (before we met again) he has since gotten his life on track, has been out for 2 years now, he went to welding school and has a full time welding job. If something were to happen like he got violated for something stupid at parole (since he doesn't mess with any old Friends that were trouble, he doesn't drink or do drugs and is Pretty much always with me) of course I would stick by his side and remain faith full to him. It would be hard with out him but I would never do anything to hurt him. He is a good man that has done bad things in his past, and he is the love of my life and were are getting married 10/10/09. But that's me hopefully your girl will stand by you no matter what if you to love each other. But if she is opposed to what you did to land yourself in jail then that would be another story. Good luck

Zinger	She'll be playin HIDE THE SALAMI RIDE THE MAGIC BALONEY PONY and Choo Choo train rides in the bush PLEASE! HAHAHAHAHA (by the way, what's her #?)

Satanic Brainsmasher	Being serious, You will never know if she will be faithful. I banged another man's woman while he was doing time. The sad part is he got banged while he was in prison.

Jill	cant answer that. everyone runs in different circles - what is your circle like? I surround myself w/ honest people who dont play games. Someone left for maybe a year - if they are in love - not a big deal. Other circles - im sure your question is a joke. You probably know the chance of this happening - and having to post it for others opinion doesnt bode well for you my friend. Good Luck. P.S. if your questioning it, put your relationship on hold til you get back. Then you wont be torturing yourself about it and if she is faithful to you anyway- well, thats some good news for you once you get out.

olaolaeh	i think you should have an open relationship until u get out. theres a chance that she wont do anything but why risk it? she deserves to be happy and not pay for your actions whatever they were. even if you talk to her about it now and she says she will wait for you i think this is unfair because she probably doesnt realize how hard it will be to have a bf who is locked up. a relationship cant survive without communication.

Daisies	Well, I personally would be faithful to my man if I loved him, I'd never even think of cheating on him, but everyone's different. If you're really in love then I guess she'll wait, but you need to be able to trust her too.

Jean	Your girlfriend can be faithful. Look at the guys who serve our country and their families. I know people can love each other and wait. It is called self control and love. It is called commitment. When you love someone so much it is easy to wait for them. I am glad I have known that kind of love. I hope you know it too. Blessings.

Jane Marple	When I met my husband he was sent to Cyprus for 7 months and eventhought we had known each other for only a couple of months I waited for him. It's a personal choice

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Dr. Srsly	The thing is, you DO have to talk to your girl about it. It depends on what she's thinking and feeling, and no one here can give you an educated answer without that information. Yes, you know you care deeply for each other, but none of us know how she feels about the fact you will be away in jail. If you were away on say, a business trip, the feelings towards the distance could be completely different. However you're not going to be around because you've done something wrong in the eyes of the law. She may not care that you are going to jail and decide to remain faithful. It may be that the distance won't bother her, but the fact you committed a crime will. It may be the exact opposite, and the crime doesn't matter but the time apart isn't something she wants to deal with. Only she really knows, not us. Good luck and take care.

Noah & Edwards Mommy	I would never stray, but that is me. I do feel unless you talk to her about it and have an understanding she may because you didn't bother taling to her about it

Mrs. B	I honestly don't know. For me, if my man had gotten in trouble for something that he KNEW would get him locked up, then I would look at it as, he obviously didn't care that much about being at home with me, or he wouldn't have done what he did knowing full well what the consequence would be. I know that sounds harsh, but that's the way I feel about it.

its likely i will say douche bag	Not sure anyone can answer that he since we don't know her character. just make sure you are faith full when you are away. take care

Stubs [formerly Lil Ole' Me]	contrary to popular belief, if she loves you, she'll probably stay faithful. Same with military folks, all the crap you here is just an over cliched stereotype.. I've only known one of those people to cheat, and they didn't wait until their spouse was away...

Lily B	I'm sorry that you're going to jail. It is, in a way, similar to the situation with my husband, he is in Iraq for a year, and being faithful to him has been the only option for me, I never wanted to cheat on him. If you are truly in love, she will wait for you. Atleast she'll be able to see you sometimes and hear from you through letters. Good luck and I hope you get out of the trouble you're in and have a clean slate after your sentence. Also, don't listen to what other people say when they've never been in a similar situation before. Soldiers hear it all the time "she's not gonna wait for you.." but it's pretty easy to pick out the (few) girls who wont.

mary	me as being a true girl to my man ... i would wait till you came back cuz i mean you not gonna be gone for too long like 20 years ..

eqaddix	It depends on how strong your love is, what you were sent to jail for, and what your future plans were together.

Rebecca W	It really depends on how strong your relationship is now and on her basic character. I have seen women go both ways. But if she says she will wait, chances are she will.

Boozella C	Shes not your wife, then I am sure she will dump you after like two months. What young lady wants to waste her life waiting for a jail bird?