Serious question... Would you tell your husband?

Amy G	You should tell your husband and explain why you hadn't told him yet, and how uncomfortable it all made you feel. He'll understand.

pm	Actually you are leading him on you should have stopped it that nigh and told him you don't want him to talk to you like that and just walked to your husband and tell him...by you letting him tell you that and not putting your foot down makes that creep think you like it. Print that email and show it to your husband and if I was I would email him back to leave you alone.

owise1	sounds like you might want to mention it to your husband, in the off chance that his friend might say something later. You seem to be very open and hopefully your husband will appreciate your honesty...good luck

BX mami 26	I wouldn't even though it may have been inappropiate, plus he was drunk. But if he had touched me then I would have definitely told my hubby. If ya'll ever hang out again keep an eye on him and be careful.

Sue B	I think you should. This way, your hubby won't have to think long and hard how to keep this pig away from your home. Your BF may be going through alot, but I feel she needs to know about this sometime!! So you can reinforce what a pig she had and how much easier it should be for her to get rid of him.

luva_gal_18	definitely, tell your husband...he deserves to know, and maybe he will kick the guy's a** for you and you b.f. lol good luck

cowpoke	Don't tell anyone and if it happens again then tell him to drop dead and that you will tell your husband if he can't seem to quit.

Debdeb	If you tell your husband, will he get crazy and go knock off this guy's block? He could get in trouble with the law if he does that. If you tell him, would he stop hanging around with his friend? Would that hurt him? What you have to figure out is this: if you tell him, will it hurt him? If it will, is it important enough to hurt him? You didn't do anything wrong, so you don't have any reason to feel guilty, unless you do something to hurt your husband unnecessarily.

slave to gwar	it seems as though you are really bothered by this. so the best thing to do is tell your husband about it. if he some how finds out later he will probably be upset that did not tell him before. it will not be easy but its the right thing to do. you need to ask yourself if you would get upset if it was him who was hit on like this. youll feel better about this in the end. good luck.

RIGHT CHEEK Daughter of God	You have to tell your husband, just explain it the way you asked the question. This is why women should only be friends with women or if your at a gathering you should stay with your husband or other women don't get involved in a convo with another man alone. Lots of problems solved and Don't ever start emailing with men it is WRONG.

rock of ages	Theirs an old saying that sometimes some things are best left unsaid. I'm not saying it's good to keep things from your husband but it might cause more harm than good in your situation.

k_casamento	personally yes i would mention it to your husband. I wouldnt make a big deal out of it but i would say something. I wouldnt say anything to your BF at least not right now shes got her plate full already.

~Baby D~	I would not tell, what would be the point?

Gee	You should have told your husband as soon as it happened and than pointed out the e-mail to your husband (and let him deal with it). You don't want to wake up one day and have a husband grilling you why "Joe Bob" keeps sending you e-mail, text messages or calls. Regardless of nothing happening the fact is you never told your husband and you never once have a message in your "sent" folder telling the guy to leave you the hell alone. That will scream to your husband that you are hiding something (even if you aren't). If any of the "friends" made a move towards my wife I'd want to know. No, I wouldn't beat the **** out of him but I'd also terminate the friendship. Nobody needs a "friend" that badly.

hsmommy06	I would let your husband know, but don't tell your best friend. it is not good to keep secrets that are bothering you this much.

â™€angelOFdemiseâ™€	Yes, I would tell my husband without a second thought. She may be your best friend but what kind of a friend would you be to keep that from her. Yes, it will hurt, but if she is truly your best friend as you say she is this is something you can overcome together. You should have told your husband right away and then you two could have told her together. Which is what you should do. Talk to your husband about it. Show him the email, print a copy. When he is ready to go with you, the two of you should go together w/ a copy of the email as proof. Wouldn't you want your best friend to tell you if it was your husband saying that to her????

Butch R	you should tell your husband so he knows what kind of friend he has

winona e	Well, the only thing is you can't stop him from doing what he is doing!!!! Unfortunately!!!! He is the only one that has that control. Why don't you just put it to the back of your mind, no one is going to benefit from this knowledge. All the best.

Paralyzed	Keep it to yourself, but, be sure to stay the hell away from this guy.

J L	I would mention it to my signifigant other but I think uyou are right in not saying anything to your bf especially at this time.

rkrell	If he hasn't continued to pursue you then I would let it go. Odds are he was lashing out indirectly at his wife and hoping to hurt her by getting involved with you.

Special K	I would tell them both. If either find out that you didn't tell that could cause lots of problems for you. You didn't do anything wrong and you girlfreind should know what a pig he is, maybe have your husband tell her, show him the email.

Megan	I would tell my husband. Right away too. Your husband deserves to know this. He's not going to be happy, but he deserves to know. wish you the best.

alabama	tell your husband now befor the so called friend does and stay clear of him.

ENB	Let it pass...

gala ria	tell your husband just in case it comes back to haunt you.

~Jenn~	Maybe you should tell her...in case she's having any final thoughts about taking him back. I'd also tell my husband. If he's friends with him he might want to think about ending that friendship. Nobody needs friends who would consider doing something like that.

missmojo78	I would tell him. No secrets right? He can't be mad at you, you didn't do anything. In fact you ignored it and hoped he would quit being a weirdo.