Should I believe my husband?

jude	usually if something doesn't sound true its not. how convenient of him to say he lent his cell, no one lends their cell. the girl is not going to admit to this, because to do so would implicate her and upset the person she is seeing, because that person is married. if something makes no sense than its most likely a lie to avoid the truth and avoid confrontation. so if he refuses to change his number what would be the reason? because she couldn't contact him anymore. think u are very trusting and naive.

dreamcatcher8993	Watch out. Classic symptoms of possible cheating. I would probably consider that cheating because of course he's going to lie and who in the world would send pics like that to someone else's phone, knowing it was borrowed. Don't be in denial. Where there's smoke there's fire. Go get some of your own fire. and tell the ho whose sending him pics that if she wants him, she can have the cheating ***.

myleshunt	No I would not believe him , if he let his friend borrow his phone which I doubt, he would have never risked those type of messages especially if they were not his. Tell him in order for you to trust him he has to come clean with you and the fact that he hasn't changed his number tell me that he wants to keep communication with someone.

ken401lam	his cell is a work phone, so you can ask him to change, but since you are his wife you can look at the phone bill for numbers that he talk with. Just look for those phone call at night, then you will caught him in the act.

BlueEyez84	DO NOT BELIEVE HIM!!!! Get out while you can and don't be stupid and try and forget about it. All the signs are right there!!!! Good luck.

C C	I would ask him upfront what is going on and tell him you checked his phone, and see what his answer is? If he gets mad that you checked his phone I would question that too, if he has nothing too hide then why get mad and just explain his story, if he gets mad chances are he is hiding something men they are not that hard to figure out, hope it works out in your favor good luck.

cvjade	Sounds a little fishy~seems like your husbands friend would be smart enough to tell this girl it was not his phone and all...maybe you need to have it out, even though it will turn into a fight...right of you to worry, it sounds very suspicious...tell your hubby to prove you wrong~change the number and see what happens, or better yet, call that bi*ch yourself and find out whats up! Good luck, fingers are crossed for you!!

55 and trying	You really want to believe your husband but I think there is more going on here than he cares to say. Keep your eyes and ears open and pay attention to his behavior. I think he has cheating on his mind.

HomeSweetSiliconValley	Is this like a kinky paid for phone service or do you more suspect it's a real girlfriend who lives in the area? It's kind of two different problems. If he's courting a new mate - that's one thing. If he's paying for some cyber excitement that's another thing. Only you can decide what you should do in either case. But I would look at the issues in a different light. Good luck.

cesare214	If you love him.try to save the marriag...get into marriage counseling ........if you feel that he's cheating confront him gently and ask what you can do to make it better..if he doesn't wanna fess up or be honest then you're in trouble....Trust broken in a marriage or any love relationship is difficult to regain but ,with work it can be done........

sassy	If you are having a hard time believing him ask his friend if it is true or not. Then you will have the answer. If you can no longer trust him Tell him you want to go to counseling together. If you feel weird checking his phone stop. And try working on fixing your relationship.

david	no he would have got ride of it if it was his friend

bourbon_on_my_cornflakes	Tell him to please have his friend get his own cellphone. Say that from this point on, any pictures will be considerd to be for him.

Just a friend.	You shouldn't have asked him to change the number and just trusted him. Without trust there is no marriage and you decided that there wasn't a marriage. Tell him how you feel and leave it at that. You can't stop him from doing whatever he wants to anyway so why try. If he cheats on you, dump him. Otherwise you need to trust.

Goosh T	Gee what do you think, I'd get a good divorce attorney if I where you, but you are so clueless you probably think you can do better than an attorney at settling a divorce. Look!!!! hes cheating

EDDIE	nope he is having an affair....right under your nose......been there done it lived it.............leave him

cool_girl	u cant realy trust him but he could look 4 another women if u became boring 4 him im sorry 4 saying that but try to see what he wants and do it and lsn u should look after him these days

Jarien	It sounds like he told you that his phone was being abused, before you went looking to see how it was being abused? If so, he was upfront with you about it, when all he would have had to do was turn off the phone and stick it someplace you wouldn't find. You both need to talk to this friend who borrowed his phone and set him up for trouble, to let him know that it's not okay and caused some understandable friction. Your husband shouldn't need to change his phone number, but his friend should feel some serious hot water for doing something to cause a potential mistrust. For now... believe your husband, on the grace of him being upfront with you about how his phone was being abused. And keep a weather eye on the friend.

craz34jason	Have you talked to your husband about it? He should repsect you and change his damn number. I don't really think you should believe him, but then again, you might be wrong and it would bring your trust and relationship down! I hate guys who cheat. I hope your husband is not cheating on you! Have a talk about it with him. A SERIOUS one. If he can't even look you in the eyes and tell you the truth, he isn't a man, and he doesn't deserve someone like you! I hope it all works out and that he is man enough afterall.

hthr_1974	I sure your not as stupid as you sound here. You have options. You can ignore this situation and hopes it goes away. You can throw a fit and still not get your way and end up feeling defeated. Or you can take this as an opportunity to evaluate your marriage, and let him know your doing so.

Soon2BMrsCarlson	LOL...I did that once...my "friend" was using my cell to talk to her boss at work!!!! Now I am divorced and with my frinds boss if you get the idea!!!!

Kitty	"For his friend"? This is like the lamest excuse, are you really falling for it? C'mon. So, your hubby is texting some chick and having her send him naked pics. What's your next step? The ball's in your court.

DayZd Juggernaut	Even if he changed his number, if he was cheating on you he'd just give her the new number. It is quite possible he is telling the truth. Trust is a leap of faith anyway. You either take a leap of faith or you don't.

Denny O	Well ask his friend right in front of your husband you can tell if he is lying to you and if he is kick him to the curb

Ari A	He didn't do anything.

dv8racer81	its a hard situation and you're the only one that can decide wether or not you can trust him. we dont know him like you do.has he done other things for you not to trust him?

latraviesa0816	HELL NO YOU SHOULDN'T BELIEVE YOU HUSBAND.IF HE REALLY LOVED YOU HE WOULD HAVE CHANGED HIS NUMBER A LONG TIME AGO DONT YOU THINK. AND THE GIRL IS SO STUPID FOR DENYING IT OKAY YOU HAVE PROOF.

Jessica S	Sorry that sounds pretty bad. I wouldnt belive him if i were you.

needingitnow342000	He is guilty.... call and have the phone number changed yourself and dont tell him....