Raina B
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you also know all your husband's information. social, birthdate, salary... everything.
get evidence of his infidelity and take him to court. |
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cheezehead
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heck yes - - - make her life hell and dump him too.
start small with an anonymous pizza delivery..........every 1/2 hour when he's there with her
then start messing with the rest of her life
apply for a zillion credit cards - - - each time you apply for one your credit score goes down |
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U B Happy
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Hell no, how's that going to help your life?. Live with your husband's cheating or divorce him. Certainly isn't her fault, and if it isn't her, it will be someone else. You can't MAKE your man do anything he doesn't want to do. Are you a Christian? If so, you already know the answer. |
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Tribal Elder Shay
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He's having his fun, and you could, too. The problem with this is that you'd be direspecting yourself by showing out. Be on the classy side of enraged. Don't give either one of them a show. They don't deserve it. It would be a waste of your time and your effort, and they're not worth either one.
The most dramatic effect I've ever seen: a woman went to her pastor with it, and the ladies from her church group posted him in the church bulletin for prayer. He straightened up real quick! |
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Le_Roche
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No. All it will do is make you look psychotic and pathetic. It's totally undignified, and I would never go out like that. Aside from that, she'll probably call the cops because you're harassing her. If you get stupid, you'll get caught and possibly go to jail. It will just piss your husband off and make him act even more like an a**wipe.
What you should do is set aside your anger long enough to question whether or not you want to stay married to this guy.
If anything, your anger should be directed at him. It doesn't matter what she's done, HE'S YOUR HUSBAND. He didn't have to do anything but resist temptation and remain faithful. It's not that dang hard to do. Besides; if you work this one over, he'll just find someone else and be more careful than he was with the last one. |
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milo
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he is at fault.not u or even the other party.
i know coz i'm been through it all.(i'm the husband scenario)
but if the other party knows, she shares blame too.i guess...
be strong n move on and if u want forgive him or not is entirely up to u.
be rational not aggressive coz it wont help any parties |
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murtuza a
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come on get out from there life. u must live happily and let him live happily, by doing this u will also dis troy your life.believe in god ,he will do every thing right |
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luvlisteningtomusic
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Oh yes I would. I would feel so much better. She is a homewrecker and she needs to be put in her place. Do not get into a fist fight he is not worth it. I would tell her that if he cheated on me most likely he will do the same to her. She might think she is so special and he chose her over you. What she doesn't know is that she is not so special and he will probably do the same thing to her. |
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Anastacia
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yes, then divorce him.... |
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wearyblossom
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I'm sorry but is he still your husband?
girl...just f*** them both and leave.
if 2 years down the road youre haunted with anger and bitterness...then go back and destroy both their lives..then make a second attempt to move one...and make damn sure you succeed |
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evilella
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no just go kick her ***!!! or tell her your pregnant and you guys are so happy lol imagine your husbands face when he asks you..... lol |
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Bobby
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Yes, you should confront both of them.But you
should talk to a lawyer first. Once someone has messed around. more than likely they will always do it. You deserve better. Then find someone worth while.It's hard, but it can be done. I know from experience. |
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~just_jd~
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hell yes! you act all nice an sweet and ask her for her advise on how you could be a better lover for your man , ask her what she does for him. then take your fist an knock her teeth out so your man or no man will ever look at her again ...as you tell her she has touched the wrong man this time! |
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ammellisa
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No you shouldn't. You have a right to be angry, but you're directing it at the wrong person. It won't help you at all to do anything to her. Why do we as women, always go after the other woman? The person's life you should be making miserable is your husband's. He's the one who's cheating on you. She is wrong for what she's doing, but he's probably telling her he loves her and he's going to leave you for her eventually. Blame him...HE'S the one who has wronged YOU. She is morally wrong, but has no obligations to you. |
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beautiful
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hmm sounds tempting doesn't it? However, I feel your pain sister. it's not her. it's him.... he has the problem....... when he is done with her, there will be another. thus what I am trying to tell you is that you will have to make a career of this .. divorce is less energy consuming |
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SexyTrojan
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Confront your husband.
Then sleep with hers.
Tell him about it.
You'll feel better. Trust me! |
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luckystar
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NO, SHE NOT THE PROBEM THE FACT THAT HE CHEATING
AND THAT HE STILL WITH HER, IS THE QUESTION. WHY
ARE YOU PUTTING UP WITH THIS, HE HAS TO HANDLE
HIS BUSINESS, THAT WHAT YOU NEED TO BE DOING,
PUT YOUR ENERGY IN DOING THIS,HE THE PROBLEM
NOT HER. |
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kathyseyes
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I probably would. She caused havoc in yours so, why the hesitation. Do what you want. You say mistress like it's not a thing of the past. I'd get rid of him. |
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dark angel
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no go to him and become a drama queen |
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฿└ΛÇκ ĦΘŁỀ ŞЏП
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If she knows you exist, she's in the wrong for messing with your husband. But you should cause havoc in his life, because he's the one who made a committment to you, not her. You should start popping up on his dates and cause a scene, and she'll run away eventually. |
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Mom
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He's the one to cause havoc to.He took the vow to love ,honor and obey.Go after him. |
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geom1974
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Why do women who get cheated on ALWAYS go after the other woman? Is your husband guilt free??? You should be trying to ruin his life not hers!!! |
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BOO
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no you should kick the shi* out of that piece of crap man you have for having a mistress. I'm certain it's not her fault |
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maigen_obx
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Does she know that he's married? Did she enter into the fair knowing he was married? I agree with the other person who said take the info to a lawyer. Your husband knows he's married, take him to the cleaners. |
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chuck
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Save it for the divorce. |
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locowherto
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probably not. it's really not gonna solve anything.
but then again, it could be fun for you. i say do it. |
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sandy k
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what about the husband of yours |
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jae4
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No you should save your energy & hire a lawyer. It takes two to tango! |
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backspace
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oh hell yes! my husband is just like yours and she even moved in our town to be closer to him. i give her hell every chance i can,even had the law called on me for telecommunication harassment.my job is to make her life a living hell all i can and will. |
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