Should I help my cheating wife move out.?

Kat G	If I was you I would help her pack and rent the truck. Be glad she is gone and not fighting you for your tee shirt. It's sad that she did this but let me tell you guy. There are plenty of woman out there who want a family guy and not looking to play games. Be glad your not stuck in this misery and keep the drama away for the sake of the kids.

riverdanceboi	Dont do anything you dont want to. Its time to think about your & the kids happiness. Be civil, give distance & cut her loose. Lawyer up if you need to. Cheer up & best of luck.

Cutie Patootie	This weekend, take the kids to grandma's, invite your friends over (so you're not stuck doin it by yourself), have a few drinks, call your girl up and tell her her stuff will all be outside by : pm and if she wants to come get it she can!!!

pretty brown eyes	Hell No! Call the school board have his * fired! Put her outside in trash bags. Make her feel like pure scum for doing you so wrong. Don't help her move anything. If she can't move it on her own, she would find her own damn help. And I know 2 wrongs don't make a right. But in this case, she would be feeling like . and she would be realizing that she had something good, but she wanted to let it go for someone who just wanted some *!

Victoria78	First of all..I am very sorry to hear that. Second of all...you are totally right. Your wife/ex already made a decision to leave everything behind for her fling. Why should you help her? You are the victim here. She is the one who destroyed your family. Do not help her, let her suffer for what she's done. Lastly, this situation may put you in a very difficult time. But do not be discouraged. Think of your children. Be brave and put your feeling aside and put your children first in your life for now. That may ease your pain for now. Good luck and may God be with you!

BrokenOpalAngel	Sure, help her...there are some garbage bags on sale, I'm sure of it...OOPS be careful to drop some of those expensive things, and OH MY...those really nice earrings got accidentally flushed, damn. LOL NO really, don't help her. What a shame. Karma, baby, Karma. As for him losing his job, perhaps a nice letter to the school would help that along. (HINT HINT) Get some therapy to help you out, the depression won't last very long once you realize how much happier life can be without all the scandal. Good luck

Belinda	i cant imagine what you are going through but it might help you to help her get all her stuff out. it going to be hard coming home one day and all her stuff be gone. at least if you help her the view of your place wont hit you as hard. be the bigger person in this change and stay stong for your kids. good luck and try to get out and have a little fun and meet some new people.

Hootiesplace	It would help if you guys would decide who gets what. I personally don't think I would help her move (have some pride, man). I do think I would be there when she comes to get her stuff so that nothing walks out that is supposed to stay. Once it's gone, it's gone and it's hell to get it back. Also, having a buddy or family member present as a witness wouldn't be a bad idea. Then it would be harder for her to press false charges of assault, communicating threats...etc. Good luck!

April B	I don't think I would help her move out. The most I would do is put in out of my house.

bluemist	Throw her crap out in the yard and go file for temporary custody of your kids and make her pay and be sure to let the school know what is going on.

Cher K	I wouldnt move her stuff for her.

Just tryin' to help	If it were me I'd: Tell her she can come this day between these hours to move her stuff* (being clothes...you keep the furniture, etc). She can bring whomever she needs to, you will be out but your brother/friend/someone will be there to keep an eye out for your interests. If anything is left, it will be tossed out. (Give it to charity or have a yard sale.) You could meet with a lawyer at this time, get divorce papers. OR Throw all her crap out the window. Let her pick it up off the front lawn!

2u	quickly toss her out.are you keeping the children?good.the teacher may molest them after he got bored with the mother.

Quasimodo	Move everything to the front lawn. Let her put the rest in the truck. Then get a shark for an attorney. She'll regret in the longrun. It won't take long before she sees what a mistake she made. Then its your turn to either take her back or stand your ground.

oneradchica	Her new boyfriend should NOT help her move out because that might make things worse. Would you want to see this guy at YOUR home helping YOUR wife move? No! If you want her to move out asap then you should help her. If you really dont care how quick she is out then have her pack her own things and just keep to yourself.

MrsJ S	You could help her move it by putting it out in your yard, and telling her that her and the new squeeze can take it from there. I definitely dont think it is your responsibilty to do much more than that! She is the one that wants to move out of the house, leave her husband, and her 2 children, good riddens...get your s*** and go! Dont let yourself be depressed for long, you have 2 children to take care of. You are obviously a loving father and deserve better.

michele_zanella	I'd move it as far as the outside of the front door!! if he wants her let him help, it would just be adding salt to the wound. I know you have children together and need to keep civil because of them but that does not give her the right to make you her doormat!!!!!!!!!

blank	Come on now---help her get out. If she doesn't want to be there you can't make her. Let her go and help her do it.

?	man...the front yard is the best place for all her crap!!

ERICKSMAMA	Well you can help her by putting everything on the front lawn so all she has to do is pick it up and put it in her car..

toonlink	No, you shouldn't help her...but don't ever let any of those emotions show around the kids. You need to be there for them right now, so you gotta be strong. Don't help her out, she's already done enough to you. Just take care of those kids and be the best dad they will ever have! =]

Ms. Kitty knows it all	What is most important in all of this is your children. Leave the house for a couple of hours and have a family member stay there while she packs her stuff. Find a good therepist and get some help for your depression. Your children need you at your best.

joseph7_28636	Get a family law attroney yesterday and file for custody.Next you can help her move out.Pack her things and set them at the teachers front door.Do this while they are at work and then call them.He cannot be fired for dating a married woman.It'd be nice if he could, but I doubt he does.She is HIS responsibility now, he took HER on when he entered into your bedroom.

jonni_richter	Try to save it if you can, prove how you are better without putting your boys in jeopardy. Perhaps you notify her new squeeze's boss of his actions?

jam j	if you dont feel like it then dont do it, i mean she cant force you to help

dianesomeone	tell her to call a mover...sorry about your troubles...good luck

sgt_casey	Give her a timeframe in which she and/or the guy she's banging move her stuff out. Whatever's left, throw out. Seems more than fair to me. Should've done the same thing myself when my woman left me.

Free-Lance	Put everything outside for her and then change lock then lock door. And call the school district and inform them of his doings!

ESTamez	If it helps her get out faster, yes. Although I hope that doesn't extend to unloading. Some things could get "broken" as you're packing. I am sorry for your hurt and I hope you get to feeling better!