Should I just tell a married man how I really feel about him?

tazdvl_31	Absolutely not! He is married and that's all there is to it. How would you feel if he was YOUR husband and another woman said to him what you are wanting to say to him? Forget about it and move on.

nydp02	No leave him alone!

space icecream	Move on... It wouldn't to anyone any good for you to tell him, including yourself!

Oneeightytwo	put yourself in his wives shoes!! how would you feel if some lady was trying to break-up your marriage.....

Right Wing Extremist	Keep your mouth shut, find your own man who is single!! Linda

Violation Queen Alyssa M	LAY OFF THE MARRIED GOODS!! if not, u will always be nothing but sloppy seconds!

nonldsinutah	Aside from the fact that you shouldn't be messing around with a married man, letting him know how you feel is probably going to get you kicked to the curb. He is going to say, "I am married and can't have a relationship with you." Or some lame crap like that. My advice? Take your losses and move on. You are just going to get hurt.

Mr. Cowboy	Yes definitely tell him and try to find a single person instead

fancyface1 l	No, you should definitely NOT tell a married man that you have romantic feelings for him at all. He is MARRIED. How would you like another woman telling your husband that she has romantic feelings for him? What you should try to do is let go of those feelings and go out and meet single men. Remember, what you sow you will reap.

A W	Dont do it. All you will accomplish is embarrassing yourself. Just let it go and walk away.

lovebooks	Get real. You're not wanting to tell him because it's "the best way to move on." It's because you think it's "the best way to move IN." And just so you know. What takes place in the dark always comes to light. If you are married, don't do it. If you are not married, don't do it. But you will. You're just waiting for someone to give you permission. And by the way, if he does take you to bed because you've obviously rubbed it all over him, please don't expect him to leave his wife and family for a woman who is willing to sleep with a married man. He won't.

Gotta Know	NO! as much "fun"as you think it'd be with him, imagine that pain and heartache this would cause his wife! Don't be so selfish...

RiiCaSoOfLyY	don't tell him..he's married for a reason..take the hint..If he moved on then you should also. Don't mess with his life he has now. It wasn't meant to be.

Unknown_1	No you should just get a single man there are plenty of them out there.

bubblegum	NO, he's married dont tell him............ have some respect for others.

JMA	NO. They are happy (I assume), so let them stay that way.

lotus_elise_81	So you feel attracted to a married man and you can't get over him and your solution is to tell him about it and make him feel bad instead? Talk about selfish. He is married. Move on. Forget it. If he's not interested, you will make him angry, uncomfortable and awkward for putting him in that position - you may even insult him by implying you think he is the kind to cheat. If he is interested - he's a waste of time! You will never trust him and there's a good chance one day he will do the same to you.

â™« Molly â™«	no . u dont wanna do that. u dont wanna be a husband stealer. its not fair to the women he asked to marry him. if u love him then want what is best for him and that is you not there making him cheat on her or leave her. if by chance their marraige doesnt work out. then make ur move. but dont be teh reason it falls apart. how would u feel if a woman took her man? its just not nice to do and u dont want to be labed anything nasty...

*lizzylou**	No, if you do you are a very selfish person. Real women do not wreck homes. No matter what your stupid justifications might be.

â™¥	o dang dnt b a homewrecker! uhh idk just plan neva 2 speak 2 him again lolz

jeff b	Ask him who is better in bed.

MEE-MO-MA	Just tell him that you have feelings for him and that you don't expect him to also, but you just felt you needed to tell him.

Frank	I would. I think it's great to express your feeling. But tell him that you respect his freedom and that you just love him no matter what. Love is special and sacred. If he loves you too, he should leave his wife!

â™¥ashâ™¥	If he does feel the same way, then what are you going to do??? Remember he IS comitted to someone else. Does he have kids?? What is relationship with his wife like? You don't want to be responsible for tearing up his family. Move on. There are plenty of other guys out there!!!

â™¥ hello_kitty_xoxo â™¥	Girl wash your hands and walk away quietly . It won't work out you can do better then that anyway .

trouble_sum81	You are a homewrecker. WTF is your problem. He is married. Does any of that make sense. ????

TG	Married men are a big no no...find your own guy If you ruin that relationship karma is going to kick you right in the a$$, good luck with that.

PunkRawk	If you wanna be a home wrecker then yes!

carl the wise	only if you want to be a homewrecker!

Laurenâ˜	Dont be a dirty homewrecker. Find your own man.