Should I or shouldn't I?

hersheysgrl4	I think you should wait until he and his girlfriend break up. If he really likes you, then he'll dump her to be with you. You can have a "fling" (and some fun) with some other guy. What's so great about this dude that you are willing to cheat on his part? I bet there are guys twice as great as him. Maybe some day, he will be available and then you can get your chance. But like you said, you're not looking for a long-time relationship, so why is your heart set on this guy?

ranger_co_1_75	You are too vulnerable right now. What if you become attached to this guy who you know is a cheater. It could happen without your intending it. Look for unattached men. At least their character is better than this guy.

lil-mama	maybe u should just keep being friends with him until he decides to break up wit his girlfriend then wait a couple more weeks and see what happens

PiNkY	You should NOT sleep with him just for the sake of doing it! Have some self-respect, for goodness sake!

Sarah K	I would find some other desperate guy and do it with him. This guy should break up with his girlfriend some other day. If you are the reason, you will feel like crap for a LONG time! TRUST ME!

The Lemur	I think theres a likely third option. You get into it and it turns into something you didnt imagine - long term affair lasting months, lots of raw emotions etc. Next thing you know hes got you knocked up. He leaves the gf but doesnt want you. Diapers are so expensive you cant make the car payment, cant get to work, then you lose the house then you are selling it on streetcorners to rodeo clowns smoking crak with a 1 year old in your arms. But thats just how I see it.

Mmgirl	If you want a fling go to a bar and find some hot guy that you won't regret having a fling with.

Ties that bind	if u have to ask then no fling is spontaneous u r planning .......

Brandie	I wouldn't get involved with him only because he has a girlfriend. If they're rocky then thats their business but he's still with her. Never be the cause of someone to split up, because it could happen to you. If he breaks up with this girl then I say go for it, have the hottest fling ever. . .as long as you both are single. Good luck.

bluelitttt	leave them alone, let them deside if it will work or not, tons of guys out there to fling with that are single or not commited

phantom	are you kidding?? are there not enough men in the world that you have to go looking for one who has a girlfriend? why would you want to be involved with someone who is dishonest and obviously using you. if he moved in it's not rocky he's just telling you that. wake up.

rlk0405	Pride yourself on having some morals and stay away from him. I am sure if the shoe were on the other foot, you wouldn't want some woman having a fling with your man?!?!

beyondthegrave050479	Nah don't be stupid your both on the rebound don't *** up each others lives because of it

abbysangel	no harm no foul? What about his girlfriend. How would you feel to be cheated on. If you just want a hook up there are plenty of men out there looking for a good time with no string attached. I would stay away from attached men.

â™¥The Mrs.â™¥	He's taken. End of story.

Chicklet	Either way is cheating on the girlfriend! What do you mean one way there will be no harm no foul!? Either way is the same thing....it is just if you get caught. Both ways are cheating. Very low grade if you decide to do this.

jyoti s	take some time for you.

oliviasmommy613	I never belive in messing up a good relationship and if you do I think that u r seriosuly a horrible person if u want a fling that's fine but do yourself a favor and go find an unattached man!

pitchingcoach	You move along. Don't be the other woman. You can have a fling with an eligible man just as well. Also, no harm, no foul, nobody screwed over.

web_a_saur	Forget about it. There are plenty of guys out there that you can have a "fling" with who aren't already with someone. This can't end good for you no matter what - if you really enjoy it you will be sad because it will have only have been a one time thing, or it will be lame and not worth it and you risk drama from the girlfriend for nothing. Find another fling who isn't so much trouble.

~Mo~	Cheating is wrong in any sense. This man has a woman he is committing to obviously, so let it be. She doesnt deserve to be hurt. Think of it as you being the gf and this happening to you. Find someone in a bar and take them home. Dont make a fling personal, then its not a fling.

awoodworm@btopenworld.com	no

zowskee	No! It is wrong. He shouldn't be living with a girlfriend in the first place, and then to cheat it just horrible. Don't participate in that. If he wants to be with you..he can leave that other girl. It's a sin! Think about how you would feel if you were the girlfriend.

in2one	if he wants a fling he should dump the girlfriend....if you just need to get some though and he doesn't care, go for it....i would wait until they are broke up though...do unto others.

Just Me	Never mess with another woman's man... just bad Karma that can come back and bite you one day... as in, what comes around, goes around...

dr.peper	dont

I â™¥ Penguins	Don't do it. You're both unstable right now and need to take time for yourselves.