Should I tell my wife I've been cheating on her for years? It drives me crazy not to be able to tell her that

libralov3	me..too.. I was getting ready to blast you..but i am glad that I dont have to now..you should tell her..but she might get upset.. tell her that sometimes you eat out before you get home

Selly	Don't tell her. I think my husband does the same thing.

Christabelle	LOL Next time she makes it, eat a little, and then make a dash for the bathroom. Act like it's making your stomach hurt. Tell her it must be the lasagna. Chances are she'll stop making it and you won't have to cheat anymore.

lee lee	Crazy is just another name for guilty conscience messing with you mind.Yes you should tell her & then ya'll should talk about what your gonna do OR NOT GONNA DO! STOP CHEATING!!!!HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF IT WAS YOU??????? Your better fix dinner that night!

kopguy5000	Wendy's or McD's on the sly? Is that what they are calling cheating on your wife with a dude these days??

I know, I know!!!!	Nahh dont tell her. might hurt her feelings.

fortyninertu	I would continue the charade it makes her happy and order a big bacon classic next time at wendys

monics_mommy06	If you can't tell her you don't like it tell her your favorite is something else. Praise her alot for other food maybe she'll just give up making things you don't praise her for. That would work for me. I hope this makes sense to you.

JJK789	she's your wife. she deserves to get nothing but the truth from you even if it hurts. you should have told her the second time she cooked it to change the seasoning or ingredients..please tell her. the longer you keep lying to her the harder it will be for her to forgive you. because she has no idea what else you've been lying about. this was bad judgment on your part to keep this from her and you need to get the problem squared away with her. even if she gets mad at you. you deserve it...

Styll	if your just talking about lasagna then don't it'll just hurt her...but try to gently steer her away from doing whatever it is to the lasagna you don't like..for example 'how about we try it without the garlic this time" or something like that...if your cheating with another woman...another matter entirely

The Mama	Of course you should ! Be honest , sometimes the truth hurts but she at least deserves that much

Michelle Lynn	Nah, let her have her glory of feeling like she is making her man a yummy dinner. I know it would hurt my feelings if husband told me my lasagna wasn't any good. He once told me my stuffed green peppers weren't as good as his moms and every time he asks me to make it, I say go to your moms for dinner, cause I will never make that dish again! Good luck.

metallicachic82	This was good...lmao!!! I would quit getting meals from others places, before you get home. Or she will see the ketchup on the collar, and freak out and fess that the lasagna wasn't homemade....it was Stoffer's. :)

Ormoz	It's better to tell her you don't like her "special" lasagna

Joesmoe	On the nights you know she is cooking lasagna, buy flowers and bring them home and when you guys start making out accidentally knock the pan off in the floor, then you can go out to eat.

hope_a_long52886	It is ALWAYS better to tell the truth. No matter how small a matter it is. So tell her.

shirleykins	Next time, grab a bouquet from the grocery store, some truffles or a bottle of wine, and say, "Honey, tonight after supper we need to talk." If you've got a fireplace, go there. Snuggle. When the time is right, you say, "Honey, I just hate that lasagna!"

You call that CHANGE?	Ohhhh you are bad........!!........lol

nwnativeprincess	you are funny!!!! thanks for the 2 pts.

shondak	So you don't sleep with another person, right? Well, then it's okay. If you don't want to hurt her feelings, you don't have to say anything. Although, I'm sure she would rather know. I mean, how is she supposed to make it better for you, if she doesn't know?

~just_jd~	oh i see....just have to tell her you don't really care for the meal she has prepared.

CarolinaGirl	Hahahaha I don't know. If you tell her you better expect hurt feelings. I would probably think it was funny after I got over it though. It could become a joke you can tell your grandkids together ;-)

Sigma_B	I would also bone other hotties besides eating wendys.

jackson32s	OK I must admit before I read the whole story I was about to tell you yes. But why do you cheat? Answer that question first. Depending on what kind of person she is, Do you think she will be upset if you told her or would she understand and find some other "special" food for you to fall in love with? If it was me I would want to know I may be hurt that you keep it from me for sooo long but I would only focus on making you happy so yo want cheat anymore.

lola	Tell her if you love her! It is harder to live with a lie than to fess up you will feel better!

Drey M	The next time she makes it act like you got heartburn from it. Suggest that maybe she change a few ingredients and hope that it tastes better. Enjoy.

Wifa 4 Lifa	LOL!! I would'nt unless you wanted to end up in the dog house!!!

uncle billy	no, stay on the down low.