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Should i be mad about this or not?

My mom and dad are separated right now, so i have my room here and my room there. And a few min ago my mom just told me that this lady is about to move in with him with her daughter, and shes like 12 and im 13
The thing is the girl is going to be moving in MY room. Not moving in like have half of the room shes going to HAVE my room. And i really don't like that. One, its my room and its been my room. Two, i don't like the girl. Three, he didn't even tell me and he expects me to come to where he lives in a few days. Whats with that? where am i going to sleep? on the couch?
And another thing is, i really don't want this girl to be around my pets, im not trying to be greedy and not wanting to share, but, my cat just had kittens and i don't want her to mess with them and i don't want her to be showing her friends and saying their hers because their not. And i know what people do to animals when their bored. I am really upset about this because i just don't even know what to say. Do i seem childish about this?







carpenter
how long have your parents been seperated makes a big diff if just soon then yes if a couple years then thats diff he has to move on time means alot in that question try to get along with ur new sister if u can


ariaaaa☮
NO, i would be mad too if some stranger just thinks they can move into my room. Also if my parents didnt ask me what i thought about it.


bomb-erman
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I'd be mad, It's basically kicking you out.


I'd be pretty pissed about it actually...


Jamie
I'd Say have a word with your mom and tell her its not fair.
Or have a word with her and say the pets are off limits or something or their sick etc.


<3
no
your rooms your room
it makes sence what your saying
almost like your being replaced, with another girl & lady
id punch the girl out.
set the rules straight
hey, it might even scare them off !


Alix
YOU SHOULD BE MAD AS HELL WHEN I GET MAD MY AGGRESSION AND ANGER GET CONTROL AND THAT IS HOW I GOT MY NAME RAGE


smile=]
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you definitely have a right to be angry and you are not childish at all
i would feel the sam exact way! did you try talking to your parents? how about the girl?


Rita& Chris Seaton
NOW, LOOK, IF YOUR DAD IS HAPPY AND YOU LOVE HIM, RESPECT THE FACT THAT HE IS HAPPY, GIVE YOUR STEP SISTER A CHANCE.. SHARING IS CARING<<<RITA SEATON


Beeker
Wow. You're a bit selfish. Well if it's that big a deal, then make this your last trip there. Grab your stuff and your pets and don't visit anymore.


t_tyme724
talk to your dad about how you feel. Let him know it is ok to share, but not to be pushed out. About the cats, it seems with kittens, there are plenty to go around.


Miley
No, you don't seem childish about that! I would be really mad too! Maybe talk to your dad about all the things that are related to this that are bugging you and try to solve it, or at least make things better.


Miss. Hermanator
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No to me you should feel justified because it is your room, he should have told you, and I have a kitten in which I am very protective of!!!


Randy p
Maybe you need to talk to your dad about all of this and tell him how you feel.You need to give the whole thing a little time before you get all upset.Its a hard time for everybody involved.Just give it a chance....Good luck


animal luver
you have no reason to be upset about this because anyone would, if i were you i would talk to my dad about this and tell him that you dont like this situation im sure he will understand and you arent being childish.


.
Nope. How dare she take what is yours for another person's child. It is wrong. If I were you, I take my kittens, my toothbrush and undies, and I'd be moving in permanently with my father. What your mother is doing is a bunch of trash. She ought to be slapped.


Victoria M
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whoa, grow up, life isn't fair and your gonna have to realize that very soon! Just deal with it. you have two houses with parents that love you, look at all the people who don't have parents, or people who don't have houses. Grow up.


Ryu
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Talk to your mom/dad. Ask if it's possible to go to a relative's house for some time until "that girl" goes away and if you can bring along your pets. Or just tell the girl not to touch your pets and explain why.

Childish? It depends on your age.
Anyway,good luck.


missJM
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No, I think every person would feel this way. You feel kind of "replaced".
Talk it out with your dad and say how unfair you think this situation is.
Btw, your dad should have ASKED you in the first place.
So no, i think you have the right to feel the way you do.


Jay;)
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You don't seem childish, you deserve whats yours to stay yours unless you say otherwise. it's yours unless YOU personally say it's not. I can see it turning out very badly, but you deserve to keep what is yours without other interfering. Don't let this happen.


Mrs. Tucker
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You could express how the situation makes you feel, but you should not overreact cause you may hurt his guests feelings, which would put a strain on you and your fathers relationship. try to ride the waves and I am sure things will go smoothly in a little bit! Just hold tight


emmer
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well i would be mad but your perminent room is at your mums. this girls perminent room is going to be at your dads. where do u expect her to LIVE on the couch?

my advise is be a good sport. you will probably end up being best buds with this girl.

i was in the same situation when i was younger. just be calm. its frigen annoying but just remember you have 2 rooms. this girl has none.


Brittany
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well first i tottally agree with the fact that sharing ur intire room is like unnnessesary..i say split the room in half anyways..not to be mean just to be fair..being equal is the way to solve any problem.just keep whats ur's to u and whats her to her. if she messes with ur stuff mess with her's :P


alchualto
You can call it "childish" because you don't like the girl and thus don't want to be involved with etc...

However, you do have the right to be mad. It's not fair to you and you should consult your father about it. After all, staying mad isn't going to get you your room back.


Napoleon Bonaparte
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I don't read ignorance, yet I will answer your actual question.

Q. Should you be mad or not?

A. Well, I am not sure as you did not state your reasons as too why you should or shan't be mad and about what situational cause might bring such feelings, or emotions, on you; at this given state of time on the lonely water covered planet Earth. Endure you must as you shan't be mad, no more.


Jonathan :)
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I think you should be mad about it.
Your dad must have guts to give YOUR room away.
I would be mad. Maybe you should talk to your dad, I think that's really messed up of him to do that, be cool about it and maybe your dad will try to resolve it.
Don't just sit there and ignore the situation.
Hope it helped...


folkpine
Yipes, your Dad didn't handle this situation well at all. You need to tell him that you are feeling pushed out. (Don't bother with the stuff regarding pets and not liking the girl right away. Stick to how you feel about him giving away your room.)
Ask him why he decided to do this? Ask him where you fit into this scenario? Tell him that he has hurt you and you would like him to fix it.


Calderon
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No thats hard, it'll take a while. Don't just give in quick though make it difficult for them make sure they know its your house and they are the guest, but don't bully them or be nasty, just be friendly, you never know they might become your half sis and you's could hit it off and be best of friends forever!


Lynnie
i would be upset if i were you. But i think instead of having a fit, you should talk to your dad and tell him what you just told us. (or write a letter) try not to whine, or he will just be upset. It's totally unfair that he's kind of replacing you, and you can be upset.

Best of wishes! :)


babyyyy,.!
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No, your bot being childish. If your parents are separated and you go to their houses like its no big deal, then you should have your own room. However, you should at least try to accept it. Your dad is probably happy and you should let him be that way. The best thing to do is tell him how you feel but if you don't want to, then make an effort to get along with her and if it doesn't work, ignore her.







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