Should my sister wait for this man?

eacync20	no she shouldnt

Lynn	Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm NO,,,she's going to wait what 20 years for this guy? Come on, doesn't she know she deserves better. He's playing her for a fool.

Brown Eyed Girl	NEVER WAIT ON A MARRIED MAN... trust me... I threw away many years. Get on with your life... tell her to find someone that wants to be with her for her with no waiting.

HADEEL MAZIN	no, she should find another man, not waiting a maried one

Jenny	No............He will never leave his wife. ever. And should he leave his wife by random chance.... just as easily as he is cheating on his wife...he will do the same to her.

abie_4u2	No,i don't think so. This is the time for your sister to strike instead of waiting. Waiting would not help. If she really loves the man then she must let man marry her right away.Cuz if the child is only two, this will let the child think your sis is it's mommy. the child will learn to love her and take her as it's own.Aside this I do not agree to your sister breaking up a marriage. it states in the bible that WHAT GOD HAS PUT TOGETHER LET NO MAN SEPARATE.

American Beauty	Would your sister be interested in buying a bridge? $25 and out the door--seriously!

Linda M	Tell her to find a way to respect herself. She is not number one with this guy. He may or may not ever leave this guy, but can she ever really trust him if he cheated on his wife? Your sister deserves a man who will make her his center of his universe or at least share that center with HER not some other woman. If someone cheats they are likely to do it again, since he has gotten away with it previously, he is more likely to do it again. Tell her not only to NOT wait, but to leave him and find a solid and honest and good man to be with. if you are indeed her brother or sister and love her as a brother/sister would: And shame on you for even helping her consider whether or not to stay with this guy! If you are really her and not the sibling, then stand up straight and get thee away from that man! he is dirt

OleMarbleEyes	Infidelity is wrong....they are both scum for being involved in the cheating.... Sorry, just my opinion!

Violet Pearl	Ask him to start paying her for her time and "service" because frankly, that's all she is and will ever be to him. Your sister is pretty low, and her married man is a liar, a cheater and has betrayed his wife, vows, and jeopardized his child's future. They both disgust me. If she were my sister, I'd refuse to speak to her- she's willing to destroy people's lives for her own gain.

Si S	All I read was the first line. No, she should not wait for this man. He probably won't leave his wife and if he does, your sister and him will not make it in a relationship. Odds are, he is probably using her (unconsciously) as an excuses to leave because he doesn't have the courage to deal with his problems (what ever they are) the right way. This spells disaster and something inside of your sister will die. You will lose the person inside of her that you knew. See if you can get her to stop this affair now. Good luck.

pinniethewooh	How old will she be when she finally gets him to herself - assuming that actually happens? Will he want to wait until his grandkids finish college too?

Bruce C	hell no... she souldn't wait for him! As a matter of fact, she should get the hell out of his marriage. She is nothing but a squeeze to him and he is risking loosing his family. If his son has to grow up without his father in his house he will be much likely to even go to college. She is playing with the lives of two innocent victims here, the mans wife and his child. Shame on your sister!

Monte T	Uh no......tell her to move on.....if this guy is doing it to his current wife what makes her think he won't do it to her. Oh....I'm a guy. No I don't cheat on my wife.

mom again	your sister is crazy!

Poppet	Never, EVER, wait for a married man. They are a waist of time.

CutieKevy	Yeah she should because he'll buy her things.

reflective_pool	There are many things you shouldn't do in life, like have an affair with a married man. This man is using his son as an excuse. If she wants to wait sixteen years only to find out he has no intention of being with her that's her decision.

M JOHNS	so she is willing to wait some 20 odd years for his son to graduate from college I think that she should move on

gigi_victory	LOL! His son is only two years old? Oh, that kills me. Tell your sister to move on. Not only is it disgusting that she's having an affair with a married man, but it disgusting that she's considering waiting for the loser. Two years old...lol!

Melissa C	You kidding! He has her wrapped and brainwashed if he is asking her to wait 20 years on him! No way, if he truly loved her and respected her would already have left his wife, but any man that cheats doesn't have that to begin with, what a dirtbag! Maybe you should print this question and the answers you get out and give it to her to read - that might help clear the fog !

mna	your sister is kidding herself and shame on her! a married man is someone elses property. she has no right to touch him.

President of Bamma Fan Club	Prez say no way hosay. Prez say if he have affair with your sis then he have affair with other woman while with your sis. Prez say she stupid to wait for him. Prez say he never leave his wife. Prez say men tell mistres that all the time to keep them around. Prez say this not work. Prez say he hope you sister find a single man that will give her what she want and need. Prez will hook her up with Bamma. Bamma good man. Prez better know.

S K	No.

radiancia	If he was as madly in love with her as she is with him then he wouldnt wait for 20 years nearly to do it. Hes just hiding behind that as an excuse probably because he either knows it wont last or doesnt want it to.

Jacy	My sister has been through this with several married men. None of them have left their wives. Why would she give up the best years of her life waiting for a man who would lie to/cheat on his current wife? He IS misunderstood by his wife and your sister, they are misunderstanding that his goal is to look like an angel in both of their eyes while having his cake and eating it too.

Mystic	He is NOT leaving his wife for her!! If his child is ONLY 2 and he wants to wait 22 more years before leaving his wife......he will NEVER leave her!

mendmyways	He is so misunderstood(blah,blah, blah,blah)he needs to wait till his son finishes college in some 20plus years(blah,blah, blah,blah)Same crap, different guy. Unfortunately there is probably not a thing you can say to your brain numb sister to stop this train wreck. She will probably continue to listen to his "bs" and will waste away precious time that we are given on this loser. Just be a good sister and have the box of kleenex ready when either he finds someone else or the wife finds out and takes care of business on the both of them. We stupid women will never learn will we?

ra63	She should run, as fast as she can, as far as she can. Now.