So if you're in competition with another woman...?

How would you behave, what would you do to be/look better than her? Thanks for your useful, non- judgemental answers!!! And the reason im asking is to look like a good potential partner and make a good impression, there's nothing pathetic about it. Ok i guess i'll just continue being myself... I know im just right For him and he knows that too .. Thanks @'hepmom -could use a clone!', if you read the question properly you'll know what it is asking, not that i was asking for your views if it was right or not. Btw im old enough to know what's right and wrong so don't need you to tell me.

candie	its not like that in real life!

Slightly Ravenous	I would continue to be myself. If a man would prefer someone else over me, then he isn't worth my time anyway. That has always been the way I feel about it. If a man wants someone else, then why do I want him? I want to be someones main dish, not be put on the back burner.

Stacey	Unfortunately it's all pathetic whether you believe it or not. You shouldn't have to live up to any one elses standards. You are who you are, people should accept that. If not they aint worth knowing .....

Mr O	chicks are like children - they don't want a man unless some other chick wants that man

Kate	What are we in competition for? If it's for work, I'd let that speak for itself. If it's for a guy, I would care less about what she did or did not do. If it was for anything else, I wouldn't care. If you have to act different in order to win, then whatever it is will be meaningless. Stop focusing on what you can or could do and just focus on what's really important.

Ryde On	Send he boxes of candy anonymously so she gets fat while you go to the gym on a regular basis.

hepmom -could use a clone!	Competition for what? A job? I would be secure in my education and experience. A marathon? I'd give up immediately; I don't run. Volleyball? I'd play my best and buy her a beer after. OH!!! A man??!!?? I wouldn't waste my time. He wants me or he doesn't. If he doesn't, he's not worth my time. I have too much self esteem to play silly games like that. EDIT: I find it funny that you asked for advice, got a bunch of answers that pretty much say the same thing and have decided that we are being judgmental because you don't like the answers. We are all old enough and mature enough to know that competing for a man is silly. You'll figure that out when you grow up.

Christine Cox	well unlike you i have dignity and i wouldn't stoop so low as to Compete, if someone has to choose me over another they are not worth it. i'm either their one and only or nothing. grow up.

qui	what would you do to be better than her? don't be pathetic enough to get involved in a competition with her.

Pearl	Dont be so pathetic. ADD So you would rather "look" like a good partner than BE one? Why not try being YOURSELF?