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Soon to be ex-husband is driving me insane - what can i do?
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Soon to be ex-husband is driving me insane - what can i do?

My husband and I are goingthrough a divorce. After we were seperated I s tarted seeing someone else. One night my husband came in my house and attacked this guy and then attacked me and kidnapped our daughter. I got a restraining order on him, which was then turned into a civil restraint. I know have my own apartment and we share joint custody of our daughter. He dropped our daughter off tonight and proceeded to try to fight with me since the guy I am seeing was at my place. He started yelling and cursing in front of our daughter which I would not argue back and just went in the house. He then sat in front of my house for a few minutes until I texted him and threatened to call the cops if he didn't leave. He finally left and then drove by the house at least 2 times that I know of later. I was having a problem with him driving by the hosue before when I lived in our marital home and I was told that unless he makes threatening jestures at me I can't do anything about it. Is there anything that I can do about it now? Forgot to mention that he wasnt supposed to drop her off tonight - he was supposed to call me so i could pick her up, but he just showed up instead. I wasnt sure if this was just not important enough to call the police about. Thanks for the answers so far.

Aimee Thomas
I know if you are here right now you are probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. I understand…and I have been there too… I was not really making any headway into getting my ex back even though I really wanted to. Nothing was working until I came across the magic of making up program. Do you have these symptoms? -Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry -Loss of appetite -Binge eating for comfort -Calling your ex several times a day -Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism) -Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called -Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call -Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you -Feeling massively depressed -Feeling urges to spy on them -Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said -Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them I used to have all of them! It was nightmare! The program helped greatly.So maybe this is something that could also be right for you. Best wishes.

Truth Sets You Free
Call the police every time he does something to you, have a police officer with you when he drops the child off to you or pick the child up..always have someone else around. Seek support in your local community with a women's shelter/agency that deals with domestic violence..

You still should have called the police. He caused a disturbance in your home. You have to protect that at all times for your child.

Jeney M
Leave the daughter at his place or else get your mother to or get him to travel to your mothers or a nearby relative and you leave the daughter. This relationship is antagonising him and hes still emotional from your relationship, what he doesnt see wont hurt him. Otherwise dont have the guy there when he picks the kid up if it means there will be peace its worth it. Personally i told my ex to send up one of his parents to collect our child as i didnt want him at my home.

Call the police on him every time. Too many times in society people overlook arguments with exes and then be the next murder victim on the news. Call the police every time so that you can have proof of his harassment and so that they can advise you best about this ongoing matter.

call he cops duh he keeps doing it cuz he knows u aint gonna do anything

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