Spouse not a kisser... and so I'm missing kissing?

Bobo	I never liked kissing but my woman worked on me about it and today am a good kisser try and work on your spouse, sooner or later you will get the best and be happy thereafter.

old man	Didn't you kiss when you were dating?

vivala49rs	Sorry for your loss.Agood kiss is the most erotic part of making love.

cristanine	Go to the dentist and have your teeth clean. Get a hair cut and some new threads and cologne. Then tell her your going out for the evening and come back in three days with lip stick all over your neck and mouth and clothes./ That should work.

devil_queen_biatch14	me too

jincr	Ditto!!! But think of the good things in your spouse. Kissing is that important!! There's alot more to life than worrying about the small stuff.

scott_v1963	43 mm, my wife of 12 years has never enjoyed kissing as much as I. A good Kiss can be as productive as 30 minutes of foreplay for me! Problem is, I've kissed other women in recent years...am I cheating or just enjoying the heat of passion?

diraf_m	don't worry about it my wife is not kisser and i can't do **** about it and i miss kiss too much may be more then you coz she kiss me once in 3 years

aghostprofilebeingempty	Oh, god, yes! I completely can relate to what you're saying and going through. It's almost unfair that you can't actually die from not getting it. I had a girlfriend that was such a great kisser, and one day she told me she didn't want to kiss me anymore. I thought I was going to go crazy...but here I am, six years later. We broke up a few months later, and I've never been kissed since. I still miss it, but I'm still alive. Yes, I have a girlfriend again since April, but we haven't kissed yet. The one thing I've realized about kissing is that it's always best when both people are into it. So, I'm willing to wait until the time is right, cause I love her and I know it'll be good because we love each other. Gosh, I feel bad for you. I don't know how you can get someone that doesn't like kissing to appreciate it. It's such a beautiful and bonding experience.

Nat	I am not a kisser. Sorry! I understand him.

*~CoUnTrY gIrL**	yeah im in the same situation we kiss and say hey bye goodnite but other than that nope so i feel for u im in the same boat

Tiara	it might be u mabey ur bad at it have bad breathe or messed up teeth i am totally not trying to be mean but a friend of mine has the same problem and she has all of the above or mabey he's bad at it or just doesn't want to kiss just ask him why.......!

Jill M	I've given this answer to other questions, but to repeat a wise woman's words, "kissing requires intimacy and intimacy means 'into me I see". My husband always gave kisses that made my knees weak when we dated and three days into the honeymoon he cut the honeymoon short to go back to work and it became if I get an average of one kiss a year (which I beg, plead, cry, rant, etc to get) it is a lot. I used to ask him why and he would always say he didn't know - which he may actually not consciously know. Sometimes it helps to realize that it is his issue and not mine and sometimes nothing helps soothe the feeling of loss. But I did reach the point where I don't really want him to kiss me because I over-analyze it when he does. "Maybe if kiss good enough he will want to kiss me more." "Is he kissing me because he wants to and loves me or just to get me off his back?" and so on and so on and so on. It comes down to we all go into marriage with expectations and every so often those expectations must be re-evaluated and adjusted. If there is something you are not willing to settle for when weighed against all the other positives, then that is your personal decision.

Big Jimi	For me,I'm a man! Kissing is the best turn-on,I can't imagine not liking kissing.Just not imaginable!

DENISE	oh god yes i miss the good feeling i had when i was getting kissed,my now husband wont kiss me very much and if he does it's very little or he's drunk. i miss being kissed like lovers in heat.sad but true.so i feel your hurt and know what you mean.

onelonevoice	come to me i will kiss your pouty lips so sweetly.

toifox	THANK YOU, I thougt I was the only one that missed those.

Nani	Perhaps you have bad breath.

boredlittleb****	brush your teeth maybe its because you have bad breath

Honey Dip	omg!!! my ex was like that....It was the most horrible thing in the world!..Kissing is part of intimacy and if you can't cuddle on the couch and make out with you beau, how the hell are you supposed to feel???!! You are not alone in wishing for good kissing...I got it in another relationship some time later and I am so appreciative.

kernel_sanders	You knew what you got married to...live with it.

katinalln	i would not go as far as to say im going to die. its been 7 years scince i had a good wet one. at times it gets a little dishearting but i just stick something else in my mouth and im happy and so is my husband.

lovelee1	I love to kiss. My ex wasn't much of a kisser at first but as his feelings for me got deeper, he did more kissing. But some people just don't like to do it that much. And you don't want someone to kiss you unless they really want to. It's not good if both of you aren't into it. His thing was that his mother always told him that people's mouths are nasty. She totally traumatized him. I think it was her way of keeping him close to her and trying to keep him from getting too close to another woman. She's one of the reasons he's my EX now.

pay	its a matter of personal preference, sorry , cant do much about that.

Baby_Apocalypse	Get a dog you could kiss in private. Better than cheating