The wife and I are looking for another female to bring into the bedroom.?

LDJ	I have had a few friends and son's to do this and none of them are married now. Two woman with one man is asking for trouble. But if that is what both of you want. Just be ready for some bad times in you marriage because it will come.

Imagine	It can actually be quite pleasurable...if you and your wife are both secure enough to handle it. Sometimes doing that can ruin a relationship. If your wife thinks you are spending too much time trying to please the other woman, she may get jealous. Just know you have to be willing to risk your relationship.

Alexa	Whats wrong with you crazy people?!?! stick with each other. Marrige is supposed to bve between two people. NOT THREE! GET IT!

boxleaves	Tried it and didnt like it will never do it again...made me feel awful!

Nikki	I would make sure you go with somebody that neither of you know. This way it saves some mixed feelings later. Also, I have heard some really awesome stories about how this experience has helped marriages and that it has hurt some marriages. Just make sure you are both totally comfortable with it and also make some codes for things. Such as scratching the nose when one of you are not really into the person etc. Good Luck :)

Karen P	DON'T DO IT

Tweety	Why ? There is so much the two of you can do alone together. When you bring another person into the bedroom, you bring in trouble. Sometimes fantasies are best left as fantasies.

not for now	Y not? But beware...she may like women better after that.

vicmanpin1@verizon.net	good luck and lucky you and watch yur back dude,jajaj

sloegin	Think about this really hard first. I find it hard to believe that people who have 50-60-70 year relationships did this kind of thing.

Coco	Ummmm...try your baby daughter, thats healthier and sane! Sicko's!!!!!

Ronni	bad idea my cousin did this and lost his wife to the other woman, no joke that was after they had 2 kids together to think about it first

deborah_jean_1977	If it is truly what you two want then so be it. However, before embarking on this journey, you should both sit down and talk this over. Talk about what you both expect to gain from this experience, and set down some rules that you would expect out of one another. Talk about what you do and don't want your partner to do with this third party because what may seem awesome in the beginning, may destruct a marriage in the end.

Sir Richard	Yeah, she cleaned the bedroom better than my wife.

Worried wife	You are asking for trouble.

raguneel66	The "J" word...jealousy is a real derailer!! Beware!!

cutie_pie28	Please make sure you are both comfortable with this before you do it. Yes, it is great and you will have a great time if you are both open to it, but the backlash can be great. If either of you feels inadequate afterwards this can spell the end of your marriage. Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. Just make sure you both view this as an act and not a relationship. You have to make sure you are both on the same level before you do it. Me and my husband choose to swing because then it is equal versus either one of us having the choice to do it later by ourselves!! BE CAREFUL YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE!!!

rima	does she not satisfy your needs you better look for something else to fill the soul gap in your lives

floridaman39us	My wife and I are looking for another female to bring into the Kitchen. One that cooks AND cleans dishes.

Gerry	You are both nuts!

spun_down	try your mother in law

happygirl	Hmm, skip the woman and get another man for the bedroom. Then she'd actually be satisfied.

mayihelpyou	I have heard a lot of stories about this. Some work and some do not. Most ended in divorce as one really could not handle it after the fact. Are you going to have #3 tested for all STD's before you do this?

Babe	nope. idk

Virgo	Too bad for her.....it's much better bringing another male in the room!

centrline	worked fine here....next.