WHAT DO I DO WHEN I HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN? WILL HE EVER LEAVE HIS WIFE ??

Daryl T	Crazy for you, good for him. Shrinks say that people that chase after married people are afraid of commitment, and feel safe in the fact that they won't have to get into a relationship that might fail. Fear. But what the heck do those shrinks know? grin

Me	tell his wife about urself and him. then she'll leave HIM. of course, he would never wanna leave her. but he doesnt deserve her any way so you get the philanderer cheater guy and she'll be free to find a better guy who's not a cheater and loves n respects her

lucylocket7258	Crazy...but if thats the way you want your life to be...far be it from me to tell you otherwise....NO>>>NO>>>>NO, he's not leaving his wife, you are just that extra on the side, of course he is vowing this undying love for you, right?? He's full of hot air...

CindyLu	Honey, get out of this as fast as you can. He is just using you and will say anything to get into your bed. He is NOT going to leave his wife and his real life for you no matter what he says. Don't be a homewrecker and spare yourself some heartache

Braking Powerâ™¥	One advise....its not easy but let me tell ya....they never leave their wife and if they do...their ex will give them hell every month....so stay away...its not easy but you got to do it.....its fun now cos you in love its no fun when everything else is not what you have wanted..... Leave before its too late and being a third party is really bad....

willn2pleaze	if it is not crazy for you then it is not crazy. don't worry about anything that these young girl on here have to say, because they a false belief of the world and don't anything about relationships. I am suggesting to cheat with a married man, but I understand.

salsa	You seem to get caught up with married men! How do you just seem to? Just stop getting involved, if they are married turn around and walk away. You will be a lonely old lady cause these men are just using you for a bit on the side, they won't ever leave their wives.

sensible Miss	Please get yourself some help. You obviously have serious self esteem issues. But don't let this get you down . There are therapists who can help you sort your problems. You will be able to have a man who loves you and adores you...not just use you for his pleasure! By the way as soon as his wife finds out he is going to DUMP you and then tell his wife how much of a BI**H you were!! LEAVE HIM BEFORE THAT HAPPENS AND GET HELP!!

Dads boy	You sound like my mother . She fell for a married guy after my dad died . She was in love with this azz hole for 25 years always saying some day he will be with her . Well the guy got old and died massive heart attack . A year went by and she suffered a stoke and eventually died herself . I want to ask you the same thing i would ask my mom . Just what the hell are you thinking ? But hey if that's all you can get then good luck to you . You should know by now life is way to short for azz holes

MeMyselfandI	Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. He won't leave his wife, especially if they have children together. Find someone who isn't married, because besides all the other reasons he won't leave is wife, you should be ashamed of yourself for messing with a married man. Get a man of your own.

mack	Yes and no. Depends on the man and what he wants and also what you want from the relationship. About all I can tell you hon is never stake all on him leaving his wife cause that is a 50/50 chance at best. Some do, some don't. In my case, I'm pretty straight up so I will usually say what I mean and then do it. Unfortunately; I cannot speak for the entire male population.

Mindy B	No thats not crazy. But it is careless. It's wrong for you to even sneak around with a married man to be friends. You got yourself into this mess and I hope one day a wife finds out and gives you hell. There are plenty of single guys out there. So maybe you should stop homewrecking and make a family of your own. He is not going to leave his wife either. All you are to married men is a piece of side action. He doesn't give a living sh!t about you.

R.M.G!	Crazy? No. Stupid? YES! You know it's not right, that's why you are "sneaking". The fact that it seems that this situation happens to you all the time, implies that these guys see you as a "booty call", or at best "just good naughty fun". Do you enjoy being thought of "that way"? And no, I'm not just "picking on you", those men are far from innocent. But you asked about YOU, not THEM. You are responsible for YOUR actions, right?

Chozenwoman	OK..first of all LOVE U...U DESERVE BETTER!!! Why r u playing russian roulette..you know that you are not gonna win but you r taking chances, he is not yours to love and y would u want a man that is a cheater,,trust me if he does not respect the wife & vows he is gonna do you ten times worse..don't sell yourself short and consider others feelings bc u will reap what u sow and it will not feel good, just b alone don't cheat and hurt another person there is no excuse for this and learn how to control ur emotions and stop letting them control u..a man that will cheat on God his wife and vows will also bring u Aids/HIV bc he has no remorse for anyone..don't be fooled and fall into the hype this is the worse thing a man can do is cheat on his wife and family...

me15.05	wow i hate people like that, there was once this stupid girl who tryed to ruin our marriage, but i didnt let her. everybody should just stay away from married guys cause they already have family, why to ruin somebodys family for? would that make you feel proud about your self? what if he does leave her, and goes to you and you 2 get married then another girl come to him and want him to divorce you, would you like that? would you like him leaving you and your kids for another one? i bet no

Wisen Smart	People whose love cycle is made up of already taken persons are very insecure and think that by being with someone else's spouse will give them a prize. I find it very cruel to inflict pain to another woman. Imagine you are madly in love with your partner, can't imagine your life without him and here comes this heartless woman who seduced him and takes him away from you. Whatever you do unto others, will be done to you.

leapfrog44	Yes you have some issues and need to find out what draws you to married men. Leave married men alone. They are not stable and they never know what they want or need. Even if he left his wife, you think you would change him? The answer is no. Do yourself a huge favor and leave him alone, find some single men and get to know them for a long time before getting involved. They may have girlfriends all over the place. Use your head.

thefallen	Dear Carebear! please wake up? There is nothing good in this at all. All it will bring you, and everyone else involved actually, is grief, sorrow and jealousy! In worst cases pure hatred, violence or murder? And all that trouble because you let an cheater of "man" talk you into believeing the dribbel he is telling you? There are no excuse to cheat, and do you wanna be the next inline? Why would he stop with you? Sorry to say dear carebear, but let that a*shole go as far away from you and anyone you care for as possible, start up with a man you you can trust, there are plenty of nice guys out there, find them, Please? Peace and love from Norway, don`t worry, be happy!

Betty M	Sounds like you are afraid of commitment. But you do seem to enjoy the thrill of sneaking around, stealing another woman's husband and destroying his marriage. Have you ever given serious thought to seeing a counselor about your destructive ways? Sooner or later, you are going to sleep with the wrong man and his wife is going to come after you in the worst way possible.

cave man	Yes it is crazy. First of all you should know that this man you are dealing with is selfish and has no integrity. Secondly, he probably won't leave his wife, but even if he did, what makes you think you are so special that he won't do the very same thing to you? Allow the Caveman to give you a little wake up call, HE WILL! The fact that you would even belittle yourself to get caught up in relationship like this shows that you lack self respect and have integrity issues as well. Nothing good ever comes from lies and deceit and you can rest assured that what goes around will come around. Personally, I think you deserve better. I will keep you in my prayers. Peace and God bless.

Daddy's Girl	All situations are different but, is he in love with you? I would not be dating a married man unless divorce is filed, not living in marital home and not being kept a secret. I really need to ask why would you be sneaking around? Does he have to go home at night? Does he take you on dates and show you that he cares about you? Yes, this is crazy

nickkie s	first when a man says he's married walk the opposit direction he's walking,second if it's been over two months and he's saying he's leaving his wife and he didnt leave yet,well dont hold your breath because he ain't leaving her.he has the best of both world he has a wife and a girlfriend.when the wife dont give up the goodies he know he can always call on his girlfriend when she's not pmsing.

Ontheotherhand	Congratulations. You've come up with the most inane excuse for sleeping with married guys that I've ever heard. "Get caught up" You inadvertently go to bed with married guys. Sort of by mistake. Oh yeah, and since you two are fated to be together, it's not either of your faults. OK. So, why IF you sleep with married guys cuz you two are sooooo in love- why more than one man? What happens to each true love you sleep with? Is your love a thing like a parking meter? Only good for 30 minutes? Some folks might suspect you just get a kick out of taking men away from other women, and once you sleep with them for a while- you look for a new marriage to help ruin. Lady, that ain't crazy, it's scummy.

chmacqueen	Yes your crazy. Also if its pretty much married men only you find yourself after you likely have commitment issues. You find him attractive because he seems commited with someone else (aka marriage), you chase after him also in the back of your head knowing the likelyhood is just a fling and the odds he'll leave his wife is very small hense you have no real risk. When you see a married man just walk away, stop risking relationships for your own interests plus the likelyhood is when come sto it in the long run you wouldn't trust a man who left his wife to be with another gal or cheated on his wife. Grow up and find your own man. Us men are not toys.... well not when we're married unless your the wife.... then maybe we are.

JoJo	Some men will leave. It is cheaper to keep her. And he knows his wife will stay. So he has the best of both. His wife to take care of him. And you on the side. I have a friend who was married for over 20 years. He left her for the other women. He married her and he cheats on her now. And now she is upset about it. If he leaves when will he cheat on you? This is what you are in love with a man that tells you he loves you. He tells his wife the same thing also. Sweet lies is all he is about .He loves no one but him.

wannabmamma	It is crazy, and the answer is 99.9% of the time he is not going to leave his wife. This is a situation that I dealt with and it hurts so bad to be so in love with someone and know that (to him) you are not important enough or he doesnt love you enough to leave his wife for. Your best bet, no matter how bad it hurts, is to leave him. I mean why would he leave his wife. He has you and her, best of both worlds he isint going to choose because you know what if you leave he can probably find another woman to sneak around with. I dont mean to say you are replaceable honey because you're not, and I know you have deep feelings for him; however, if this is a trend of yours then stop it and start creating a healthier life for yourself and so you can find a man and be his wife instead of his on the side lover.