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What's more importannt in a relationship, love or trust?
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What's more importannt in a relationship, love or trust?








love
well you cant have one without the other, it souunds a bit cliche but its true, i was madly in ,love with this man who i did not trust y did i not trust him because my my instincts told me plus a whole bunch of clues i ignored because of the love it was not fare to me and trust without love well idk it might be fine and secure for awhile but once you find someone who make your heart beat fast and palms sweaty you'll drop that relationship in a sec and it isnt fair to the other person now is it


undone
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Trust. It is concrete and built on facts. Love is different things to different people and mostly hormonal( lol ). Trust for sure.


redpeach_mi
i would say love. you can trust someone and not love them. however, you can love someone a learn to trust them. my hubby has messed up royally in the past. I do not trust him from the messes now. i still love him though. i would rather love him and learn to trust him again than trust him and not love him.


kitkat
Both are equally important!


mchel
the two are important in a relationship.


panini
trust trust trust


Ben R
Without love the two people would find someone else that they do love and the relationship would dissolve.

Without trust the two people would not be able to give of themselves completely and the relationship would also dissolve.

So you can't really love someone without trusting them enough to give yourself completely and you can't be in a relationship if all you have is trust and not love, therefore the question is actually a paradox as love and trust are inter-wound.


Butterfly
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I think they are pretty equal if you want a relationship to last for a very long time.


melouofs
I believe they go hand in hand.


Rican Babe 4 u
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It should be love but over the years ive learned that u can love someone to death but if theres no trust u have nothing at all.............


Big Red
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Both...they work together...one can't exsist without the other.


Dreamer
true love does not exist without trust


Buttercup
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Both Cause if u not gonna love your spouse then its not a reason for u to care... if u don't trust your spouse something is wrong..... but i say both if u cant trust them leave them along. If u ain't gonna try 2 love them u don't need to be with them


Angie V
love only wants to prove one thing.. love... love doesnt care about anythin.. its love... trust on the other hand is somethin tat needs to b aquired in a relationship... without trust, ur left worried... there is no importance in a relationship.. its jus somethin that if it was there would make life easier to handel


JK
Well I believe you can't even have a relationship with out both Love and Trust!


Rayray
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both because u need them both in a good relationship they are equal.


oh_jo123
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for me trust if I can trust him when he says he loves me then
that is all that I need


å×ÇÅÎÉÑ ë
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trust


Spinaround
Trust is the core of love, otherwise relationships will collapse in no time.

No trust = No love but plenty of self-centeredness

No love = No NEED for trust


bubbles
i think trust first because you need to trust somone before you can actually love them


Jabberwock
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If you have love without trust then you're destined to be hurt. You need both.


Beatngu
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Both are important.


barthebear
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both, which will be blended with Respect ( which has to be earned)


Wayne
I would have to say trust. Also don't believe you can fully love someone until you can totally trust them.


ndnqt1966
Both! If you love someone then you should be able to trust them....if you don't trust them...how could you really love them?


LOL...Someone got their cherios pissed in this am! I agree that you have to trust someone before you can love them..but you didn't ask which should come first...you asked which was more important....and they both are in order to maintain a relationship.


waterlily
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Definitely TRUST


ladylady4470
both...and more


Dimitar A
I say both are equally important.


i know it all!
got to be BOTH!!!!


BabeHart
In a romantic relationship, both must be present for it to go very far.







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