What Should I Do With My Husband He's coming Out Of Prison?

Bob is in prison for beating up my 78 year old Mom he has tried to kill me several times and I always took him back.He has been locked up since June. We were always close. We would hold hands and everyone could see we loved each other.
Two Christmases ago he tried to kill me in Indiana and I had a choice to put him in prison for six years or give him probation. I gave him probation and took him back. When he got out of jail, we had a restraining order put on us by the state, and he was supposed to stay out of Illinois.
In June he was in Illinois when he beat up my Mom. Now Indiana is going to extradict him. He gets out next month and goes to Indiana.
In the meantime I have been seeing someone else. Some one who loves me and is good to me. But he also ignores me alot and I don't always feel important to him. I want him to show me more attention.
So I have thought about going back to Bob. What should I do?

Beth B	You have GOT to be kidding us. Do you really need us to tell you what you should do??? Here's a thought -- what's Bob gonna say when he finds out his woman's been cheating on him with another dude? I wouldn't stick around to find out...

practice_what_u_preach	if you have any self respect you will not go back to bob! maybe the new guy is not meant for you other. There is someone out there that will be your everything you can't keep expecting it to happen fast. Be more independent and he will come.

savethatchicken	well it's up to you. you can either get killed eventually or you can leave him and try to find a new man. there's plenty of fish in the sea (i hate that saying but it's true).

man_of_girth	You are a complete moron. The only Bob you need in your life is a Battery Operated Boyfriend. Seriously, you make me sick. I think I just pooped myself due to the stomach pains you've casued me. I gotta go.

Jesssicaa318	easy-- leave bob. he's nearly killed you and your mom, do you want that to happen again? i'd hope not

misskayla!	Why on earth would you even consider going back to somebody who tried to kill you? You're worth so much more than that.

emmcord	I think you should first see a therapist and try working everything out. But I know deep in my heart, that you shouldn't take Bob back. You are better than that, and this guy you're seeing might not be the guy, but that's ok. You shouldn't try finding love, love comes to you. So relax for a while, don't ever talk to Bob, spend time with your family and try to get over Bob. You can do it, I believe in you. God Bless you.

stick man	Get rid of bob and turn your life around. He beat you and your mom up. Don't take him back. Pray to God for guidance and listen to ttb.org. Get rid of any man that ignores you or beats you.

bronzebabekentucky	your kidding, right? your husband will kill you! if you go back, it means you are so brain damaged you dont understand English get help

Deserae P	You should probably stay the hell away from Bob! Seriously, he doesn't sound like a good guy at all. I hope things get better and I wish you the best!

kt	Dont waste your time with a loser like that....he obviously doesn't care about you......its the cold hard truth that hurts....get out of that relationship now!!! You want to die or something...geezz

Vanessa M	NOT GO BACK TO HIM!!! OMG!! CAN YOU NOT SEE THAT. HE HAS MADE YOUR LIFE A LIVING HELL, FOR GOD'S SAKE..HE HAS TRIED TO KILL YOU AND HE HAS HURT YOUR MOTHER...DO YOU REALLY THINK HE WILL STOP...I MEAN COME ON..GET SOME COMMON SENSE AND MOVE ON. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN HIM...GOOD LUCK!!

word.	NOT TO GO BACK TO BOB. LADY. THAT GUY TRIED TO KILL YOU. ARE YOU CRAZY. THAT GUY THAT YOU'RE SEEING RIGHT NOW LOVES YOU AND IS GOOD TO YOU. HE IGNORES YOU ALOT???!! SO??!!! HE LOOOVVES YOU. BOB TRIED TO KILL YOU. YOU THINK IT'S A GOOD IDEA GOING BACK TO A GUY LIKE HIM???!! UH. NO. STAY WITH THE GUY YOUR WITH NOW, NOT THE GUY THAT BEAT UP YOUR MOM AND YOU. DONT. EVER. GO. BACK. TO. BOB. PLEASE. :D but it's your choice in the end and you are your own woman.

EvilSandia	Stop hooking up with losers. Avoid people named Bob. Those are my tips.

Freedle S	At this point, I'd really just start thinking about what you might be able to come back as in your next life. fs

luv41anatha	learn to love yourself first...

â™¥ Xite â™¥	Are you seriously dumb enough to get back with the man that nearmy killed you and your mother? Amazing...

Luvlee	If i were you, I'd seek my boyfriend's attention in a different way, I don't think you should go back to Bob just to make your bf jealous, cuz you know that it'll end bad.

Mark S	You will die if you go back to Bob

Anna Og	that is simple. Stop trolling..the story is too much. But I bet you had fun making it up.

natchomomma	Get a restraining order and a gun!

Blah	Go back to him and don't call the police, your family, or anyone else for help ever again.

You know!	Obtain a restraining order and move to Austraillia!

xWant You Backx	leave him asap!!!! should of left him the first time!

Missy	uh lets be smart. Lets find a winner that doesnt beat up your mom or treat you like sh!t.

Winter Glory	YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME????

Often Imitated, NEVER Duplicated	RUN!!!!

Veritas	Get Jerry Springer on the phone.....

Loli	Run

samsam	lol. you shouldve left him while he was in prison