What are the odds of an affair working out into a relationship?

reandsmom77	Not very good - and if it actually did, you would have NO guarantee that he would do you the same way.

cfotbcf	Works for movie stars all the time. Look at Brad Pitt and the chick he's with. There's others out there. Work it man!

Bluelady...	The odds are great, But think ahead and not the little head telling the big head. Think of who stands to get hurt? Don't make love by the garden gate! Love is blind but the neighbours ain't Good Luck :(

Kitt	Not great. A good relationship has to start with respect, trust and affection. There was no trust from the start so where can it go from there?

pullrank	Mine did ! I think it all depends, maybe the person who's having the affair isn't in love with the person the're curretly with!!!!

Jules	NONE the interaction is started on lies/deceit/selfishness. Now how can any good come outta that?

Sherry	any decent person who doesn't care about their partner anymore would dissolve their relationship before getting together with someone else and having an affair

luscious0071	Slim to none

Yentl	Very, very slim because the reason affairs occur is usually the result of either or both persons' commitment phobia or, theya re attracted to affairs because they signal a LACK of commitment. If you are the 'other' person, they dont have to vow anything to you, dont owe you anything. They can cast you aside at any moment- and they like that power and freedom of choice- like some kind of a salad bar, they'll just take what they please, when they please, and leave when they're done. And even if it did work out, why would he/she not just cheat again, on YOU?

Starla_C	ZERO, NADA, NIL, ZILCH, NEVER GONNA HAPPEN.

*~~Tessa~~*	Pretty damn slim!

CEP	Not good at all. The 'relationship' starts out with way to much baggage in the beginning...

TEA	Next to zero.

jennidixon186	It depends on if they like you better or the one they are with.

shellhiggs07	I don't think it would ever work, you will never have that trust there and if he is ever out you will always be wondering who is he with. So NO it wouldn't work

Cyphor	An affair in itself is a relationship, though in its early stage. Whether you can build it into a stronger emotional bond is a matter of your will and willingness. So, the odds are what you want them to be.

sweetgranny06	a divorce happen's after an affair

alexandria1_1999	Not so good. I would say dont do it and dont bet on it. It will lead to nothing but heartache.

Debbie A	First of all an affair isnt right, however you have found yourself in this mess. You need to get away from spouse and the one you have the ongoing affair with and give yourself sometime to think. Alot of times affairs are exactly what they are called. They are brief and exciting, something new. However look at what you already have and what all you have shared. Do you still love them and if not then what happened? If an affair can work out the answer is yes, look at the divorce rate.

nwnativeprincess	zero to none.

bone	zip,none, never how can you base a relationship on lies? you can't and one day one of you 2 will cheat again.

Lu Lu â™¥	Zeeeero to Nooone!!!!!

tillermantony	Not bad if you dont mind cheats

Itiyah Yisrael	zero to none! Get out of it! You are being played!

TAMMY D	What? Are you serious? There's a good chance for a relationship.............a disasterous one that is. Not that a cheater wouldn't deserve it though.