What do I do if I suspect my wife is planning to cheat on me?

WilmaF	Sorry, but if things have never been good in your two years of marriage, can you blame her? You two either need to try and work things out possibly with the help of a counselor or cut your losses and go your separate ways. Why stay in a marriage that hasn't been good. Life's too short.

Sarahz	time to see a marriage counsoler

lisvad	I would go to www.skyelist.com. This will help you catch her! Sorry about the bad news buddy. Don't tell her, but I know of a way that you can actually listen in to your house with 2-way voice! Check out the site and then contact them and they'll hook you up. I have one in my house and it's great!

LuckyLavs	Often times, these kinds of things happen when someone's needs are not being met in the household. IE it is a symptom of a larger problem.. Get a marriage counselor for both of you. You have put in too much time into this to have it come undone in just a single instant. You really owe it to yourself.

Alanus Aflakyan	First and foremost, the worst thing you can do is take bad advice. The best thing to do when complications arise in a relationship is to talk it out; if it can't be talked out, it needs to end. Now, I've heard all that it's easier said than done stuff, but I won't eat it - I've been engaged twice and married once... All of it fell through. Trust me, the best thing to do is talk to her about it. Be completely calm and honest. Tell her how you feel. Try to talk it out.

Dave	Well if you think she is planning on it the best thing would be to confront her with evidence. If you can't really come up with any she's liable to be innocent and want to break up with you. Either way it sounds like you have troubles. I know it's old hat but seek counseling.

oracleofohio	What do you do? Listen to her....she said "I don't think it's going to work out" can she be more clear?? Get off the fence and make a decision together.

A Landers	Tell HER that you don't think things are working out. Then get out.

ndnqt1966	Shocking! Men actually tap into their spouse's email without them knowing.....thought only women did that....Seriously...you should talk to her about what you have found out.....Even if there is nothing really going on....she is lying to you by omission by not telling you that she is in contact with this ex boyfriend...

~Josie~	Hire a P.I. so that if/when she does, you will have something against her when you divorce her.

Veronica_0707	Well I think you should trick her into leaving town. When in fact you go stay at a hotel. As soon as you "leave" you spy on her the whole weekend and catch her red handed.

The Original Magic 8 Ball BILF	Luc R has the right of it. You can't un-ring a bell, so carve out some time with her ASAP and talk. Once she has gone through with it, it will be that much worse for you two. Best of luck to you and your wife.

lisab	If you want to make the marriage work then try to get counseling or try to find that spark you all once had. You might want to confront her about what you saw. If not hire a private investigator to keep tabs on here or get a GPS system for the car. If you feel you all can't work things out let her go and both of you move on with your lives.

sexy grandmother	With such a suspecting nature, and TOTAL disrespect for privacy, you DO NOT deserve a wife. I do feel for your wife. The sooner she leaves you, the better for her.

Daniel T	Your only hope is to work on your relationship. Specifically, this means you need to be nice to her and to treat her the way you did when you were first dating. You might also try to get her to attend marital counseling with you. A third party that doesn't put blame on anyone can really help.

beachnerjl2	Beat her to it. Go out and find the first girl who will give it up to you, tape it and show her the tape. Then yell I win and run out the door naked. Well, it sounds fun atleast. lol

lostintranslation	how dare you read her emails! with an overprotective, controlling husband, i'm surprised she hasn't left you let!

w5van	Make mad love to her!

sarah jane	Stop snooping on her and ask her to go to counseling with you, immediately. If she keeps hinting that she's on her way out, then she owes it to you to be honest about it. Even if you hadn't discovered the email, you have enough to be concerned about.

smiles	the only thing u can do talk to her about it.

hannah91160	talk about it

Cake17	Talk to her.

lovelylady	Confront her out right. What do you have to loose really?

Madame Morticia	Speak to her about it, if you want to; ask her what can be done to improve your relationship. You might want to do couples counseling. Try to find out where the problems are and try to find solutions you can both live with.

hi!girl	you should be communicating with HER!! maybe this is part of the problem....

Maximus	if it hasn't been going well and you have tried to work everything out then it probably isn't going to go well. Maybe you should leave eachother.

sparky_flyboy	take that ***** down early, find a floosy fast! we're talking about your manhood here!!!

Sarah :D	Tell her about this, she'll freak out, and just calmly work it out

Luc R250cc	take time to talk to her.