What do you do when your wife leaves you after 6 years of marriage? with no real explaination?

reinatx1	Well, the reason she left is because she has feelings for someone else. And she probably is confused on what to do. I would let her go, because it might cause more problems down the line. Especially if she is still seeing the other guy and you at the same time. If she doesn't want to work it just move on. It is her loss.. because they always think the grass is greener on the other side.....lol Just live life and just know things happen for a reason. There is someone else better out there for you.

peterosefan1414	shes is cheating and dosent want to hrt you, follow her you need closure

H O	Well, my opinion is that you two married when you were both, what? 24? That's a bit too young in my opinion. The other thing is people change over time. The person you both were at 22, 24 or 28 is different when you turn 30, 40 or 50. Thank your lucky stars this happened now while your young than later on in years after investing your best years with someone who don't want you. I've been in your shoes, and what helps me is to get out there and meet people. I know you may not feel like it, but you don't have to be in a rebound relationship, just meet other woman, go on trips, join groups and just have experience in dealing with many different personalities. You'll find after awhile you'll know exactly who is right for you, thus avoiding your current confusion. In life, we can question why, but at times, it's best to just go on the best you can and you'll find later that you won't even care about the "why's".

Kelly	Be glad you only wasted 6 years on this relationship...I just wasted 18!

anita_corona	move on... when you decide you want a divorce.. you don't really need reasons.. if you don't love that person anymore you should not stay. eventually hurts more to be with someone you don't love or that doesn't love you anymore... it is better a friendly break that a bitter one

Kendrick	Don't get married again. Instead of buying a new pair of shoes every week, repainting the walls a different color every month, or rearranging the furniture every week, this time she decided she wants to not be with you(probably someone else). They're emotional, they can't help it, and recent times have opened pandora's box. Same thing happened to my 2 friends, and my ex-girlfriend of 3 years as well. Don't become another statistic twice.

hun	too late now. you should of being asking while you were in the marriage. sorry, but obviously you were not making her happy.

VAJETA1999	forget her and move on, she's probaly been cheating on you

Mystic	Sounds like you married too young and have maybe drifted apart. Maybe suggest marriage counseling to see if your marriage can be saved.

workit	Oh wow that is tough so sorry...I actually have a friend going through the same thing he came home one day and said he wants a divorce. I always thought they had the perfect marriage also. Have you tried asking her or both of you to go to counseling so you two can understand why this is taking place? She may have feelings for someone else who knows and if that is the case you cant make someone love you or stay in a relationship. Best of luck to you through this difficult time

dangit!	Pray man just pray... if she wants to find her self.. yeah ok.. its an add on.. to..i want someone else... if she wanted to find her self.. i think she would have done that before seh married you and settled down adn said i do.

charyl92678	It sounds like there is something wrong in your relationship that you have been blind to. She also may have gotten married too soon to you and is going through a twenty-something crisis (like a "mid-life" crisis). I would say to let her go her own way (especially before you two have any children) and let her find out whatever it is she is trying to find out. If you guilt her or insist she stays, things will only get worse and she will resent you. It may be hard to do, but if she comes back, you know it will be for good. :-)

Heinz M	Mine happened after 4. She got too curious how it would be with someone else. Today I think she did me a favor, since she wasn't all that good in bed.

jackbutler5555	Thank God you have not wasted your life with her. Get on with your life. Hopefully, the next time you'll find someone a little more steadfast.

Lionel M	start thinking about moving on

Sadbuttrue	Go buy a futon.

christina3661@yahoo.com	She wants to be with someone else , get a lawer , if you have kids , make sure you get all your rights as a father , sorry !!

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Garacaius	You need to get on with your life without her in it.

JamaicaJoe	Change the locks! Party! Find yourself a hoe

olderbutwiser	There's another man in the picture.....you can BET the farm on that one! That's the ONLY reasonable explanation for her behavior. If she does have one, divorce her! Good Luck!!

City slicker	give her time, but also keep a eye on the bank account...she may be planning on moving on with another guy she met somewhere.

veritas459a	Did you OR someone with your EXACT story appear on another board? Thanks, RR

Neil h	go to the bar

biteme	get counselling first

trovanhawk	Re-marry. Someone else this time.