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What do you think this IS?!?!? Help! I have a BAD feeling about this!!?

2 weekends ago, my longtime BF went to Austin to help his mom out with a trade show. I talked to him while he was there, and things seemed normal. He mentioned that he had gone out to see a show one night, and that the music was good, etc. etc. I didn't think anything of it. However, I just visited his myspace page, and there was a comment from a girl on there (a new person, who has not posted to his page before) who lives 20 mi. from Austin, saying, "Thanks for the pic comment, glad you liked it" - WTF? Who is this person? Is this some chick he met while he was out of town? I tried to link to her page, but it's private.

What do you think?

I posted this here, because people in this forum tend to be a little more adult than those in singles and dating - I don't need feedback from 13 year olds!







donna_marie226
You may just be over reacting it could be just someone he met or knew and they just caught up together on myspace. Don't over react to this just keep an open eye on it. If you do over react he might too. It really seems like a harmless comment though. If you feel you do need to say something be very casual about it and dont get upset and emotional. We as women sometimes make more of little stupid things than we need to. Good Luck but it sounds like you are fine


shelly
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It may or may not be something bad. Confront him before you jump to conclusions. Just don't fall for BS answers!! Also, do you know how to sign in as him? If so, do that and then link to her page. That should give you some answers. Hope everything works out for you!!!


Sandy
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Just ask him. Look him in the eye. Trust goes a long way. Possibly they were just talking while he was out.


doll//facee\\
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add her. you really need to do that. ask him about her too. if she adds you check out the pic. if she doesnt add you, something is up. you could message her telling her your his girlfriend. and dont be so judgemental of 13 year olds.


Marisol K
Well yes I am a fourteen year old but I can give you advice. There is certainly no reason to get all jelaous because your bf has sent a picture comment to a girl. But if you do suspect there is something going on simply add the girl but no no not from your account, create a new one or something. That way you will see if the pic comment is something to worry about.


Musiklova
Why don't you ask your BF to explain? is it because you know he is going to tell you a story about the whole thing?....you have doubts about that, ask the person that can best answer your questions.....and take it from there. You will know whether he is making things up or not. And, always trust your gut instinct, it's never wrong.


1080
I think you should ask him about it and not jump to conclusions. Hear his side of the story, check out what it was that he said on his comment and then make up your mind whether you trust him or not.


*
Ask him about it. Save yourself all the investagative trouble and call him NOW!


Needtoknow
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Sorry to be blunt, but if it walks and acts like a cheater it usually is a cheater!!!


rcthomas32
maybe you should ask him about it.


iceman
Find a new BF sounds like trouble. Don't wait too long.


Danielle
Keep your posture. If his not coming home yet then give him a call. Calmly ask him who the girl is and ask him to give out an honest answer with no lies or pretentions.

Men usually gives out an honest answer when they are being confronted in a nice way or not being shout at.

Be ready for his answer. Good or Bad, Atleast you know the real score..


Take care


cope_acetic
Since a Myspace page was available for you to see, he must not be worried about you finding it.
ASK him about it....there's probably a reasonable explanation.


free_angel
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He either did more at that concert than he's telling or he surfed the Internet and found her pic. You need to tell him that he needs to be completely honest with you and start talking now!


arrogant
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I wouldn't worry about it. Sounds like he liked her picture somewhere, it doesn't mean that he is cheating or has lied to you. Ask him about it. If you can't- you are in trouble. There has to be a trust in a relationship where you can ask and share anything with each other. Ask him.


do.drop
well, from what info you have given, it could be someone he came across on this trip alright. but, wait, see what else transpires on "his page"...that will tell you alot. and Good luck.


Kymira
ask him about it. relationship between two people is based on trust. if you don't believe his answer, then truly, the relationship itself is not stable.


crazyash
***** it be just that he saw this pic n reallly felt like making a comment n just did it............

wat if he reallly went to meet his mom......

neways just ask him to meet u..........talk softly n then just as if simply n with no sole reason tell him like " oh n btw i just visited ur myspace n read this females thanks for ur comment thing.....so wats that all abt"........just say that playfully.......so that if its not wat u were thinking it wudnt spoil ur relationship.......he wud plainly think u were being playfull..........

if he tells u a story u can beleive on then he's being true n honest......make sure his eyes tallly his words.....


Kathy R
Why don't you try asking him about it instead of jumping to conclusions? It could all be very innocent.


Aloha_Ann
I agree you need to just ask him so you can stop worrying about it.


Suzanne D
Check her comments and her pics to see what he wrote...then you can see if you should be mad or not.


kataklysmkamel
I would like to start by saying that it could just be a harmless comment. So I personally would not worry unless you notice that he started changing behavior and pushing himself away from you. And if that has not happened thus far I wouldn't worry.


K
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Honestly I would bring it up with him and ask directly "Hey, I saw this girl in your comments talking about a photo--who is she?"

Don't be argumentive because you want to get as much of the story as possible and that will only cause him to be defensive.

Only you truly know him and know if he's telling the truth. It may just be a girl he knew growing up.
And if he says it's nothing then say "well if it's nothing, can I see her page?"


N love wit a Ranger!
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Play it cool.. and just calmly ask him bout it... have a conversation and just casually bring it up... chances are if he get all upset and blows up then that's a BIG red flag.... If they're just friends then he has no reason to blow up and try to pick a fight... Just don't let Ur guard down....


THE DAWG.
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Go To Her Profile send Her A Message And Ask Her


casw1
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Ask him to logon to myspace and show you her sight and what he said. Would he do the same if it was you? I bet so.


littleman
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Why not ask, outright? As someone who has, unfortunately, cheated, I can tell You that the best thing for You to do is have a conversation with him. Trust me, You can tell a lot about the truth from how he says something and not what he says, but be inquisitive and explain Your feelings about the situation. It becomes more a topic of how he reacts to things and less about the topic...honestly.

When my Wife asked me, She didn't ACT hurt or mad, but genuinely wanted to know. I fessed up, instantly.

But then again, everyone is different...


arledgetd
Well, I doubt he'll be seeing her after he gets back, I would just get on his case a little, if he says it's nothing, then I'd believe him. Maybe he was just trying to be nice.







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