What scares you the most in married life?

mountainpeak	turning in to an Al Bundy

hanstar	That my husband will not find me attractive anymore. That is my worst fear, because my dad divorced my mom after 25 years of marriage because of that. I deal with it by dieting and hopefully me being 3 years younger then him will help too.

Michelle	Divorce does not scare me for the one and only simple fact that my husband comes from a family (in a different country) where he would be the first person in his entire family of more than 300 people to ever get a divorce in hundreds of years. What scares me is financially making it to where we can have a descent retirement. I am in pre-pharmacy science school at 32 years of age and wanting to be a pharmacist. I think I should go for only 4 years to assist a pharmacist for like 25 to 30 dollars an hour instead of going for 8 total years to be a pharmacist. The only thing that scares me is making enough money to make my husband and me financially set. We have one daughter that I want to go to college eventually also. That also scares me. We only have one child and it is going to stay that way! He says no. But I keep changing his mind about the downfalls of having 2 or more.

Many Interests	Greatest fear: Being tied to that person for the rest of my life with no way out. Biggest stress factor: same as above How to deal with it: Divorce and not getting married in the first place.

Lucy IS in	It's the fact that even though you're married, they could still leave. It's just that the divorce rate is so high and you wonder if you're going to be one of the lucky ones. It's scary because you look around and you see your friends who you thought were so happy but then they get divorced and you wonder if you're next. The way I deal with it is I try not to dwell on it. I try and be a good wife and hope that it's enough to keep him from wanting to leave. And I don't get clingy because no one likes someone who is so clingy!

A Good Woman	Lots of things are stressful. What scares me the most in not being able to control some situations. That people change sometimes for the good and sometimes for the best. Then I remember how much I love him and it gets better.

Say No 2 Marriage	It scares me that I could have made such a big mistake as getting married, but as long as a person learns from their mistakes and does NOT repeat them, then its ok. But yeah, the fact that I did it is what scares me the most.

samma	I think the most thing that scares most people about marriage is starting a whole new life with this new person. And the fear that something will go wrong between the two of you. But for me when you have found that someone who you love and they love you and you make them part of you family there is nothing to fear.

Khris	Greatest fear in my marriage is losing her...I deal with it by finding new ways to show her I love her and tell it as much as I can.

who_r_u101	That I may stop liking him. I will always love him, but interests change...

*Sco85ty D83osnt E#no*	questions about nothing making a mountain out of a mole hill for example. talking to a friend happens to be a girl, then ur wife will ask u bla bla bla.

infamousx229	mostly cheating and the fear that your partner would loose interest in you.

editbee	Eventually having to take care of a helpless, doddering old fart with no help.

jihan j	Death of my partner

wswwsw17	finding out they were born a guy .........i would murder them slowly alive>:)

Toothie	Being cast on Cheaters..

Vettel_09	Nothing. Why get married if your gonna have fears?

kristii<3	the comitment u have to give

Louis	what stresses me is the time we dnt interact with each other and its scary because they could leave when they want if they dnt fell loves

Ethan	I have lots of fears.....that's while I might stay single for a while. Both my uncles and my one aunt are still single and they are not looking....and they are both in their mid 30's and they have GREAT lives like it is.

â™¥Dezzys Mommyâ™¥	see, thats why im never getting married, so i dont have to worry about stuff like this.

Im not a stalker, Im your #1 fan	cheaters

Malesia	Cheating; i would deal with it by giving them another chance but the second time it bye-bye

Crystal LeeAnn	Loosing my husband to death.

Jason	THE NAGGING

Taylor	Cheating.

jbeyerstein	losing all my money in the eventual divorce