What should I do? Only serious people please?

Pappa Poopy	Then don't. What's the big deal?

juzme	I would divorce a man that wouldn't care if I slept with another. (This is just a way for him to get his jollys.) You're married to a sick individual. Grow up...Be a woman...Tell him to go to hell and find a real life. You don't deserve this kind of pressure!!!!

Silver Snake	Whoa! That is messed up. Have you asked your husband why he wants to do this? Or does he change the subject and mutter? It's possible he's just trying to test you in some way and the best answer is the one you had in your question "I don't want to sleep with another man, you're all that I want." If he keeps persisting and won't live it down, tell him that you'd be upset if he did the reverse to you. (i.e. slept with another woman)

danielle_la_flor	Are you serious? Wow...your hubby needs prayer. That's not right.

watergirl	tell him NO...period.

Slippers	I think it was weird and wrong for him to ask you to do something like that. Don't compromise yourself and your morals for him. Sit him down and tell him you don't like the idea of this, and you don't approve of it in any way, shape, or form. Don't back down from this one, he SHOULD be the only one you want.

tinkerbelle_oceane	he probably hoping to do the same on is side....My rule you never bring someone else in your relation ship because it going to ruin what you have

bluez	Don't do it. No matter how much he says he wants you to do that, it will only ruin your marriage in the long run.

JLa	Don't do it. He will resent you forever, haven't you seen "indecent proposal"?!?!? Is he cheating on you and this will make him feel better about it? Or is this a test? Either way its Fugded up

jennifer c	You should probably find out exactly why he thinks you desire another man. What will happen if you don't decide to put your life in another mans hands? Does he not realize the diseases you could catch from this. To be honest, sounds like he is wanting an excuse to sleep around. If not, whatever his crazy reason is, you will both regret it if you do it. I would give him his freedom, that is obviously what he wants. You can't hold on to someone that doesn't want to be with you. Counseling? God bless you!

journeeluv	I know where you are coming from. I unfortuntaley did, my husband kept on and kept on, after 20 years of marriage, i finally got the nerve to leave him, all he wanted everytime we went to bed was to talk about me with other men, it eventually built up a wall between us. to this day he has no idea why i left him..........i say dont start it and it want become a problem because once you do it there aint no turning back.

laugh	When he took the wedding vows with you, that excluded anyone else. Remind him of that. Is he trying to cover for something he did or wants to do? Men seem to "need" so much more than women do and maybe that has been a fantasy for him for a long time, but he should have let you know before you got married. It might seem like you need to please him, but he backed you into this corner. Don't do anything you feel is wrong or you'll regret it yourself. Maybe when you are together he can "talk" about his fantasy and that would be as far as it goes. Otherwise tell him too bad, you didn't commit to that before you married.

Kayt	Let me guess....he wants to watch? Any man who even suggests this scenario has an ulterior motive.

the wonderer	first of all if he loves you then he wouldn't ask you that! i think you aether need to tell him hell no or divorce him because he's unfaithful to you or he just wanted to take you treasure and knew the only way to get it was to marry you.

Getoutalive	Talk to him first. Do you know why he wants you to sleep with other men? One possibility is that he might be getting a bit bored in bed and wants you to get experienced and learn some new things. Or he might be a voyuer and wants to watch or something (seriously, that happens). Talk to him first. ask him why, and dont let him go until you get a straight answer. He can't make you sleep with another man if you dont want to. if he tries pushing you into it, get help. Dont do anything you're not comfortable with. Hope that helps.

Roberts Baby	well hun, why is he asking u do to such a thing? i mean im all for fun and what not but not in the sense of breaking my sacred vow to my husband. i'd tell him that u are not comfortable having relations with another man and if that bothers him then too bad. marriage isnt something u take lightly. just let him know how u feel, dont do anything u dont wanna do for ull regret it later and life is too short for regrets! i wish u the best of luck!

sarahjaniepoo	I hope that he's not suggesting you sleep with someone else just so that he can sleep with someone else. If it's something you're not interested in doing, then just explain that to him. If you really feel cheated because he's the only guy you've slept with, then maybe it's an option to consider - but just know that there will likely be consequences. It's possible that he's suggested this also becasue he's insecure - and thinks that you might cheat to 'sew those oats', so this way he's beating you to the punch by suggesting it. I think you find out why he wants you to do this so badly, and then explain to him that he's the one you love and want to be with - and he's good enough.

Ashley Oasis	Why are you even asking for answers. You know the answer. You don't want to do it. SO DONT! That's horrible he would even ask you to do it. That's shows no respect to you. Maybe he got a disease and he wants you to sleep with another man so he can say that man gave you both the disease. Or maybe he wants to watch you with the other man. Or maybe he wants to sleep with another woman. But what I'm thinking is hes just a pervert and here's the the real answer DIVORCE because you don't want to be with a man that doesn't respect you and if he asked you to do this now. Hunny, he will never respect you.

Deaf wolf	my first thought is that he is feeling guilty for cheating on you. He must be nuts. You and he might consider talking to a priest, ect. Sounds weird. Is he able to perform? maybe he is depressed because of something. just talk to him.

1001Questions	he is sick. say no, period.

cuteredhead	Have you looked into swinging? It's a safe environment and your husband will be there with you.

Drey M	Just tell him straight up that he is the only one you want. End of discussion.

shoeboy	he is testing you if you agree he will always doubt you being a virgin