What should I do about my husband?

shells	I'm sorry but your husband sounds like an ***. This may sound childish but if I was you, I would play him at his own game and pick on his biggest physical fault and then he'll see how it feels. Remember honey you have just given birth and you have a beautiful baby don't let the idiot take the joy from you.

Lexi	I dont think he is a very good husband because my husband doesnt care about my weight and he loves me for who i am. i am 132pounds and im only 18.

annahannab	He should be giving you time to bond with your baby before you're forced to kill yourself losing weight. Some men are so insensitive!! How much weight did you put on?? If it's not that much than you can figure about 5 lbs a month? healthy weight loss anyway. If you haven't had a c section and had a natural birth then I guess you can slowly start doing a few sit ups a day.......but the important thing right now for at least the first 6 months is to relax and enjoy your new baby, but eat healthy and exercise when you can......walking is great, get the stroller out and hit the streets or mall and spend some of his money.

burtmature	It's common knowledge that lots of women never lose the weight once they have a child. It's a man's worst nightmare. He's just being paranoid. Just tell him how you feel. If he can't get over it then tell him he's free to leave.

Tony	I have a weight loss idea. You can lose up to 200 plus pounds by dropping this guy. I know it's hurtful and scary to go through divorce but let me tell you, your piece of mind is much more worth it than listening to him go on and on about your weight. Tell him to work another job as punishment. :) Seriously, you need to really stand your ground. tell him that you're not about to be talked down to and that you deserve to be treated well. if he can't do it, then he should leave. bottom line - you are more important than to listen to another person put you down. Resist him. Good luck.

ellinka	tell him that since he cares about your figure so much that you'll need a gym membership and he'll need to stay with the baby for two to three hours daily while you go work out and get back in shape. that should shut him up quick.

kelsey	tell him that after he has a freaking baby and gains all the weight then loses it in a short amount of time that he can be mean

JESSICA G	tell him when he carries a child for nine months and gives birth then wakes up the next day looking like he did before carrying the child, then he can give you grief about it. until then tell him it takes a while and he needs to be supportive. tell him how it makes you feel and if he truly cares he should be nicer and more understanding

Kristen	my boyfriends kind of like that and his cousin is really like that he tells his girlfriend her belly looks like mash potatoes and all that stuff if it was me i wouldn't put up with it when my boyfriend does it to me i say something back to insult him :)

Acerbitas	Got to counseling. He clearly does not take you seriously.

Daisyhill	What a freak! That's NOT normal! Tell him you'll get back to normal when he stops asking. And seriously...tell him to shut up!

Winter Glory	Tell him to knock it off!!! No way in hell would I have tolerated my husband talking to me like that. You have a baby....Guess what???? Your body might NEVER get back to the same....EVER!! Tell him to quit being a whiney little b*tch.

livi1212121	tell him that he's never gonna understand unless he gets pregnant. and that he's hurting your feelings, and you think he's being rude. assure him that you'll be back to your normal self eventually, and that he just needs to be patient. he's being rude to criticize you of your weight after you two just got such a wonderful gift. he's a father now! he should be so happy!

R & C N	how insensitive of him

TINA	ur husband doesnt seem to love u for who u r or very considerate of ur feeling if i were u id punch him and tel him that its gonna take some time and if he doesnt liek it then he can go jump off a cliff :]

PuppyMama	For some reason, this makes me feel so defensive for you! You can say, "a woman's body changes after a man impregnates her! It'll shrink when it shrinks! It just went through severe trauma, and now my self-image is, too, thanks!"

Sommer	Sit him down and explain that you grew a human in your body for 9 months and that all of your muscles were stretched out. It's going to take time, but you'll get your body back. Tell him that if he doesn't quit hassling you about your size, then you're going to stay the way you are now. :)

just browsin	Tell him he needs therapy.

blueegg90	Tell him what you said in this question.

free spirit	what a schmuck.......not real manly

whoopwhoop!!!!!	take a **** on him while he is sleeping

Mrs. S	Wow, if that were my husband he'd be getting a good swift kick in the nuts. How insensitive! Is he built like a movie star? If not tell him you just had a baby, then ask him what his excuse is.

Mr. Shpongadongle	tell him to f**k off and kick him in the balls. That is completely unacceptable.

<3mykity	he shouldn't care about your body and you should tell him that and tell him if you dont want me for me then i don't want you its really messed up for him to say that you have a lot on your plate and the last thing you should worry about it your weight is there anything bad about him you can nag at? like when are you gunna buy that wig im sick of looking at your bald spot

oddbutterfly1	Tell him how it makes you feel.