What would u guys think of a woman who stays with her husband knowing he is a cheater?

Bren	It is her life. It is not right but no one can change her mind, no matter what you tell her, to leaving that man. She might not also be financially able to leave and provide a home that she wants for her kids. Her husband probably loves her and him cheating is because he is a loser and needs learn to control himself and would probably be that way with any woman he is with. Good luck to your friend or boyfriends wife.

YUMMY1	That she was an insecure spineless douche bag

ppw1024	Um...he definately doesn't hate her, but he doesn't respect her and a child shouldn't be brought up in a household with no respect between the parents.

Mrs.G-unit	I think the woman needs to fast forward 20 years and ask herself how is she gonna feel when the child is in the same relationship.

HUGO M & GABY	/Bad , and in that way you need another man, yes at course tell him that don't be laying.. Ms. don't live inthat world of lie. tell that true. You too can meke an new life.

gnarlyness	dumb move. their choice though.

louie	im gonna assume this woman is you, but regardless, i think the husband may still love her but thats not why he comes back, he comes back cause he know he can, he knows you or she will take him back, this is his safe place to go when the other woman dont work out. I think this woman is scared to say no, i dont want you anymore, she is very insecure about herself and she needs to realize she is worth more and deserves better. This husband, this piece of ***, isnt IN love with the woman anymore, had he really truly loved her in the beginning, this woman would not be going through this now. She needs to move on with her child so she can start to be happy, truly happy.

wierd and wounderful world of me	Noas this is really a relationship going nowhere, why would he keep cheating returning is an insult, and the woman in his eyes is probably seen as insurance someone he can always go back to when things go pearshpe. if the woman accepts him this is allowing the man to think he has control, he will be able to wrap the woman around his finger, pretend he loves her, probably beat her up, abuse her but claims to love her so the women is then in a predicament as she is being beaten and abused and feels that she is still loved and finds it harder to leave him, and when she finally goes to leave thats when things can turn real nasty. (worst case scenorio, murder) relationshipos like this are best out of as soon as possible and whilst there are still strong social connections before the man breaks these

femalepit	What I personally think of a woman who stays with a man like this doesn't really matter. What she thinks of herself and her child is what really important. Boosting her self - esteem alone will help her make the right decision. You could also look up answers to resolved questions, I have answered several there resulting in best answers.

Chris Schock	ditto what foxy said - obviously no self esteem, no self confidence. that's really sad

Muschi	She shouldn't use the child as an excuse. She deserves alot better! He doesn't come back to her because he loves her, but because who ever he cheated with got rid of him and he doesn't have anywhere else to go! Why would she want to be door mat or always be 2nd? Get rid of him!

yowuzup	Id say hed better be rich to make it worth it

Mart	Well, going on what you've said. Firstly, if she's staying in the relationship because of their child, its very noble of her. But in my honest opinion, she's a fool. I really don't want to sound nasty or cruel, but she is. She's being treated like crap. The husband has no consideration for anyone else. She should start thinking of ways to get away, both her and the child and make sure the husband pays child maintenance. It's not gonna get any better, until he grows old and no other women wants him. Until then he's gonna keep doing it. Why not too? After all she's still with him now when she already knows he's had an affair. If the husband loves her so much, why would he sleep with anyone else? Would he like it if she slept with other men? I hope it all works out for her.

ani	she must be catholic.

Tif	get a backbone and walk out the door with the child

OzDonna	I'd think that was a heck of a strong woman to put up with that. Is that you Hilary Clinton?

Dani021	I think he wants her to believe he loves her...she needs to get out of that relationship...its not healthy for her or the child...he's making the words "once a cheater always a cheater" very true.

jazzylynne1991	I can understand the situation but She needs to leave him if he can't keep his hands to himself and contuines to have other affairs then she needs to leave him get a divorce and share custody with the kid/s

wizjp	We each stay in mariages for our own reasons. I don't presume to judge anyone else's

tiuliucci	My advice is that she dumps the cheater. As far as the cheater's love goes, he gives no real love. He does not respect her or women in general or he would not cheat. You cannot truly love anyone that you do not respect. What I think of the woman is that she has no self respect. I see her as a woman who needs to believe in herself and find a man who respects her. Take care, Troy

foxymoron	shes got low self esteem and uses him for her security no i dont think he loves her... he uses her as in between until he finds his next ego fix... he obviously has super low self esteem as well and constantly needs reassurance that hes a "man" you only live once if this is how she chooses to live her life and put up with him getting his cake and eating it too...its her own fault...

jazzy l	i would think that she has low self esteem and tends to believe his lies ...he will not change unfortunately my daughter has been dealing with the same thing for 20 years or more...her partner has 6 or 7 outside children...she knows how i feel so she does not tell me about him anymore....i just continue to give her my love and support and hope that he doesn't give her something that will kill her

Betty	I would look down on the woman. I would view her as being a weak individual with very low self esteem and zero self respect. I would be concerned for the child, as he/she is growing up in an environment where this behaviour is accepted... This is not love at all, and the poor child will be so messed up, continuing on with this vicious cycle. Advice: If he truly loved her, he would never cheat on her. Life can be so much better than what she is allowing. Someone out there will love both you and the child far better than this man can. You need to start loving yourself and the child and get out. The child is better off in a healthy environment where he/she is shown that self-respect and love rise above all evils. No matter how difficult this may seem, in the end the only regret you will have is not getting out sooner! Things will not change with this man, you have already shown him that his actions are okay and that it's okay to walk all over you and that no matter what he does, you'll always take him back out of weakness. Get tough, find support from friends, family, groups, etc. and move on with your life.

â€¢Â·.Â·Â´Â¯`Â·.Â·â€¢ xVIcTorIAx â€¢Â·.Â·Â´Â¯`Â·.	one day she will wake up and realize he isnt worth it, i no i did

Alana J	After having my now ex husband cheat on me and surprising myself by wanting to try and work things out - I do not judge women (or men) in these situations. You never truly know how they feel unless you walk in their shoes. Having said that...she deserves better. Hopefully she will come to see that soon. She may be staying for the child, she may be financially stable enough to go it on her own, she may believe she will never find another person. Who knows. Just be there for her and when she realizes this guy is not the best she can do - help her get through it.

Cookies & Cream	f*ck!ng STUPID!! the new word is DIVORCE!!!

womanofghostbear	there are many things that will make a relationship work or not work. the cheating is one element and although it hurts. there may be enough good parts to tolerate it. no one can tell someone what they wouldnt put up with. each sisuation is different. as long as he does something to show he cares i believe he loves her. if the relationship is not one sided he loves her.

Connie D	I was once that women, I think she is risking her life, hasn't she heard of AIDS? I left and you are right a man like that loves and thinks of no one else but himself.