What would you do if you had a husband that did this?

mnwomen	Kick him to the curb!!!!!

nina113	honestly, quitting because of stress, was an excuse, why hasn't he found another job that isn't so stressful... Youmay want to reconsider your finances together, and what he is really going through... and if he isn't willingto work things out and it begins to weigh down onyou and your finances and your credit ... GET_ OUT ! If he really loved you , he woul dnot be putting you through this rough time...ask him, is this temporary ort is there a problem ..and go fromthere..but if that doesn't work...youmay want to really consider whether you should stay or go.. Good Luck, and Be Careful!

Blunt	Tell him that is tiime to get a JOB and pay his own bills.

simple_intelligent_female	DON'T WALK, RUN TO THE NEAREST AND BEST LAWYER!!

solitas777	I have a question. Is he manic depressive? I've seen them do stuff like this. Has he started hearing voices yet? Before you leave him, tell him to go see a psychiatrist and maybe find some good meds. I usually don't reccomend meds but this out of the norm behavior is indicative of a medical issue as opposed to a psychological one.

gozedown	Are you retarded ???? Pick a better husband who isn't a loser !! THAT'S what you do !

missingora	I can't believe you are still there! You need to protect the money you make. Don't put it in an account where he can get to it. And then LEAVE!!

themeathanger	You mean to say he went from productivity to non? unbelievable, what a looser. get out while you still can.

Kitty	Divorce his a**. That's what I would do. This kind of stuff was ok when we were in our teens, but at my age (30+) I couldn't stand or afford staying with such a loser. Can't see myself ever being THIS desperate.

Chunky Monkey	you need to leave and divorice. You should get a job to support u not him

Kayce	Get out

cna	Seriously. Why are you even asking what to do? You already know what to do! (You have my sympathy, btw.)

hello kitty	I would leave

Cherry26	Wow.. I would seriously get rid of this guy, It sounds like he is going through some kind of mid life crisis and is only dragging you down. It seems like he just wants to mooch off of you and go screw around. He is no good honey leave him and take your money and thingsd with you.. Good luck

superchick	DUMP HIM AND FIND A GUY THAT WILL TREAT YOU WITH RESPECT AND LOVE YOU KINDLY.

Donna	throw him out. If you left he couldn't pay the rent anyway.

badcat	Kick his butt out of my house.That is what I would do.He is your husband not you son.You need to kick that boy in the butt and make him do something.

Joe Prosnick	NO BRAINER...DIVORCE!

benjis.girl	Leave him. I'm sorry, I don't usually say or think that, but he's just using you. Tell him to get a job or you'll leave. Do NOT give him your paycheck! Open your own personal checking account and deposit your check there the moment you get it. Do NOT give him money, you are just enabling him to not work and not pay his bills.

?	tell him to hit the road!!!

Nicole	leave him. if he is going to be a free loader you need someone else the money you make is yours and yours alone. He has no right to it especially if he doesn't want to work. YOu need to find someone who has a job and will keep working not a free loader.

whisper001	get him a new cell , s.u.v of course!

smile	ask for a divorce because i believe that the man you married isn't the one who you are with now.

blonde_mama	Wow. he needs to learn how to manage money. Sounds like a mooch. i don't believe in just getting divorced. I think marriage is a commitment... you chose the person... and you have to try to work things out before going that route.... but his behavior is totally ridiculous. First, I would sit him down and tell him that his decisions have been irresponsible and have put the family in jeopardy. That he needs to learn to be financially responsible... and that he will not be spending the money if I'm bringing it home. Second, he needs to get a job yesterday. If he says he can't because of stress... he needs to go to counseling (hopefully insurance pays for it!) and he needs to go to the doctor to get on some anti-anxiety meds so that he CAN work. Third, marriage counseling... once a week. These issues will destroy a relationship if not addressed now. Best of luck. I would be FURIOUS.

Tia	Leave him. He is acting like a spolied brat and that's not cool. You have to explain to him the situation to him where he is going to realize that his actions is ruining not only his credit but yours too.

bear4141usa	You should never give him your paycheck, I know you love him or you would have already been gone. Try to get him to open up to you or try counseling and find out what's wrong. Something had to happen for this to be going on. If he is abusive, leave immediately.

Haiti Cherie	First of all, I'm sure you're kidding, cuz I don't think anyone would question what to do in this situation. But if I had a husband who did this, I'd kill (oops, I mean divorce) him!

Rosie	Who does he think he is demanding your paycheck, kick him out of the house whether he owns it or not. Rid yourself of that heavy burden.