When I talk to my husband about my feelings in anyway he leaves the room. What can I do?

Blondy	all man do that they donÂ´t feel themselves comfortable to talk about their feelings because they think it shows they are weak perhaps he feels himself more comfortable if he can start the talking let him talk about his feelings first if he doesÂ´t than donÂ´t try anymore some man just canÂ´t talk about their feelings

Highbeam	It all depends what kind of mood he is in. For example, Last night my wife wanted to tell me about her 6 month goal and 9 month goals( that had nothing to do with me by the way) when I had been up all night puking and sweating wondering if I was going to have a future with me feeling so ill. all I could do was leave the room.

Mr Blister	Call your mother and tell her. Don't bore him with those details unless you want to push him away.

Foolraving	I do this when my wife upsets me so that I don't blow up at her. If she is lecturing me or yelling at me, I can only take so much. I don't know if this is your situation, but if you are having a hard time communicating, see if he would be willing to go to counseling. Then, he will feel more obligated to talk it out.

Narcisist	You talk to him in the language that all men understand,,,,,,,Now let me seeeeee,,,,,,,,you take a hot bath and think what is it you want to say and about what,,,,then you get out of the bathroom completely naked and seat in front of him with your legs wide open,,,,,,just looking really lost you start playing with your self a little and when his eyes are on the point of your affection, you tell him what you want him to hear,,,,,,lololololo trust me from that day on he will always listen.

diva102288	stop talking about your feelings... he seems to have a problem with it...Men are dumb about feelings and get a little squeamish about it.. So talk to him about other things and add the feeling a little at a time...

Stephanie	Im not sure how you start the conversations about your feeling but maybe you can work on your approach. Do you start by nagging? Do you start with "we need to talk" ? Men are scared of that....

Happy-2	Use it to your advantage. Next time you want to watch something on TV that he doesn't want to watch, start talking about your feelings until he goes away. If you want the last serving of dessert and you're thinking he might reach for it, start talking about your feelings. If you want to vacuum the carpet and he's in the way, start talking about your feelings. If you want to make a private phone call but he's there, start talking about your feelings. There's got to be a million ways to use this!

oogabooga37	Please, I need more information. Is this a behavior change for him? How long have you been together? I would like to help, but you're going to have to elaborate.

NONAME	Follow him and continue annoying him OR quit bugging him with your feelings! Just kidding, my guess is that when you say "my feelings" what you are saying is how HE is making you feel by things HE is doing wrong? SO who wants to hear how bad of a person they are????? You need to be creative with your communication and attempt to communicate in a non-threatening way!

Just wonder!	Not me.I allways listen to my wife allways but sometimes she is the one who is not listening to me.what I can do then?I think this shouldn't be a big problem to spoiled your relationship or breaking it.We must develop our tolerance towards to small things and have to consider his/her other qualities.I am sure you also have something in you that he also doesn't like.We all do.No one is perfact.

mysterous.....	seems like he finds it hard to deal with his own problems and thats the reason he cant listen to yours, its not his fault tho u should try and see whats eating him, u love him remember, help him first with his feelings and THEN he will listen to urs. goodluck

Gangstaboy	tell him you"ll leave if he does not pay attention

Unsub29	That's terrible. Maybe find another way to get your point across that he would actually get. Or follow him and tell him that he's being really disrespectful to you and you don't appreciate it. How often do you do this though? Maybe you should consolidate if it's often or change how you do things? How important are they really? I don't know the situation.

SP	Marriage counseling.

Ash_Jx	get busy with other things, and dont forget to look good.

Uncle Tim	Leave the house, find yourself a sensitve man. They do exist.

Bean	No way! Not all men do that, gross. I would get some counceling together or consider moving on.

montrealmarco1	Try expressing your feelings to him during supper or in a restaurant where he can't walk away. If that doesn't work write him a letter.

joseph's brain	Let him know you are unhappy that you can't discuss your feelings with him and let him know what you would like him to do when you speak about them. Or go find a gay male friend.

siava101	Leave the room when he wants you to listen to what he has to say. Give him a taste of his own medicine.

bada_bing2k4	Bring it up the next time you're in an elevator.

lookmeup22	follow him out of the room and get an answer

Squadcar	My husband does that. I gave up trying to talk to him.

Colin G	lock the door before you start talking.

The White Guinea Pig	Divorce his sorry @$$ and get with someone who cares.