When your boyfriend leaves you and it's night time which is the worst and all you can do is cry what do u do?

Who Knew?	Honestly sometimes you just have to let those emotions just flow...and I know it's cliche.. but in time , it will get easier.

nes	keep answering yahoo answers till you fall asleep. When the night is over, everythign will feel better. We all think we cant, but we all live through the first night and the others too. So smile and cheer up :)

NoNameForYou	sometimes crying is the way to relief the pain sweety

jude	it is hard to be alone when your use to being with someone and counting on them to be there. but u have to face reality. if your afraid go to your parents home, or stay with a friend until u see if this is going to be a permanent thing or not. pain and hurt are sometimes a necessary thing in finding out how to cope. u will feel as if u have fallen apart, its normal. go stay with a friend for now, or family don't be alone when going through something like this.

Mr. Question	I don't cry

leona8522	if you have any friends, call them up and have them come over and keep you company or take you out somewhere. sometimes just calling a friend to talk about it can help. do anything to get your mind off it. ex: yahoo answers, reading, watching tv, go rent movies and watch some, play with your pet if you have one, anything. you could just go to bed too if you can sleep. i went through a lot of nights like this with my ex so i empathize with you. i know what you're feeling and i know how bad the pain kills right now but the best thing to do is anything to keep your mind off it. otherwise, you'll just cry and cry all night and make yourself sick. p.s., dump your boyfriend unless he's got one hell of a good reason for doing this to you.

brown_eyes	i had the same problem about 2years ago. the first night is going to hard. theres no way to get around it, but its helps to talk to friends and family. its also a good time to do some self reflecting.

PlainandSimple	Keep yourself busy with something you enjoy. Call a friend, go shopping, have them over, try your hardest not to think about him. If he left without giving you an explanation, I am so sure he is not worth your tears. Wish you the best

â˜…SoCalMamiâ˜…	Go to the club.

California Kush	Do you have any friends you can call? You should definately call a friend and go to their house or have them come over, that way you don't have to be alone. I know this is easier said then done, but stay positive, i know it seems like you'll never get over this, but trust me you will.

Liz	Pull yourself together. What does he mean to you now that he's left you? A piece a crap; that's all he should mean to you. Better yourself. Get out there and get back in the game. Or be single for a while. But you're strong, remember that.

adnyuk	Get a hankie... Then a life.

bopdoobie	You keep crying until you can't cry anymore. You pray, you get angry, you find everything that he left put it in a bag and burn it, and then you move on with your life, And when ever you see him pretend that you are having a good time. It's okay to cry, it releases all that junk.

Bee	It's happened to me before...It's actually better that it happened at night, cus u can sleep it off...If it happened any earlier...you would be cryin til you fell asleep.... Just try to call and talk to him...try to find out why he just up and left you like that....or give it some time...Dont try to think about it too much. Let him talk to you when he's ready...Maybe it's his way of endin it with you without makin u any worse off than u are right now...

Drea	First of all, find something to do that will keep you busy. Anything at all. Then since you will be there alone, try to get a friend or family member to come stay with you. Also, have a movie marathon(funny ones) so that you have something to divert your mind off of your situation.

TwinkaTee	Breakups are painful and my advice is to let yourself cry the first night. The sooner you deal with the pain, the faster you will heal. And, try to keep yourself busy. Don't focus on the relationship, focus on yourself - get strong and move on.

Yvonne B	if he just disappeared and didn't return he is a missing person

Pineapple Octopus	i get gas and i fart all night. it's a stomach thing.. rolaids do not help and i tried pepto and that doesnt work wither. i have blood in my stool and i am scared.

chrome	go out and run as fast as you can till you forget about it

Cowsonthefarm	Sing "Big Girls Don't Cry"

Evieve	Call your girls get them to come over with all their advice and papmering. That way you don't have to face the first night alone. I'm sorry hun, hugs from me. It's a horrible thing

masterxarai	he isnt worth it, just go hang out with friends. I'm sure they can all tell you he was a p.o.s

Scott R	Here's the key. Being upset comes from collapsing "what happened" with your "story" about it. It's not that you're apart that's upsetting, it's that you're making it MEAN things that probably aren't even true. Such as that you can't be happy without this person. Or he doesn't love you enough to stick around, etc. It's all made up. Be conscious of the fact that you're mixing up what's happening with the drama you're creating about it. Once you can separate those things, you may miss him, but it won't be to the point of extreme upset. Promise.

chadab	yes, this is very tough. my husband left me 2 months ago, and i had to deal with the first night alone. it's hard, and honestly, i still cry some, even though he really isn't worth it, but i do love him and miss him. good friends come in handy at times like this. call a good friend, and cry.

.	go out to see a movie with yours friends or go to the mall. If you have to stay at home... Watch tv, talk to you mom ( she actually has sensible advice!) or get some ice cream and just cry it all out You'll feel much better! He probably didn't give you an explanation because he was afraid to break up -i think?

that hot chick	I drink wine until I pass out , and have company around the next day so that Im not alone

Dan	Hey girl, sorry you are hurting, and everyone Willl tell you that with time it wil get easier, although that not What you want to hear. Call some friends do a sleep over, i know its a week night, so what. Get that half gallon of ice cream and enjoy. Do something special just for you...just do not be silly, and sit and cry all night. Girl cry some, get it out, heck it releases poisons from your body so get after it. I am sorry, i know it hurts, and in time it will ease, one day at a time. If i could give a hug i would.