Which affair is worse. An affair with a pastor or one that produces a child?

cobrasnake	An affair is an affair. Always the result of that is a disaster. An affair cause stress,depression,anger,suicide,desire to kill, destroy of marriages,etc.Does matter if is a normal person,president,pastor,or whatever is the person involved.Cheating always, is as a bomb, exploding in marriages, killing love.

dee42mark38	Is the pastor married and is the child by the pastor. this is one for Jerry Springer

Thomas	A pastor is a human being and an adult capable of making his own decisions. Creating an unwanted child in a pre-broken home is 100% worse no matter what religion you are in. And for a relationship a child would be much worse for obvious reasons. Also the pastor can disappear, the father will be in your life forever.

sxybrwneyedgrl29	cheating is cheating, .. u cant excuse it or make different levels or degrees of whats worse or whats better, cheating is cheating and there is always a consequence...

James S	HAHAHAHAHA!!! Oh shite. This one is good. Child all the way.

Ms. Lady	Well...I'm not going to tell you that one of or the other is right but in this case the pastor should be ashamed of himself, but to answer your question having a child b/c the child is permanent or you would have to worry about if you are going to keep the child or not and that's not easy to come by, but if you do the nasty with the pastor you can just block the memory out of your head and in time it will disappear!

Lady Dee	All affairs are bad. But an affair with a pastor is pretty shallow. Would ever be worse if you have a child with him.

jennifer_b1973	I would say an affair that produces a child would be far harder to deal with. If the affair produces a child it follows you your entire life. It is almost impossible to forget as it is directly in your face.

appleofmyeye	Wow, the way I see it all affairs are devastating. No matter what kind. The level of stress an affair brings to a person is off the Richter scale. It makes a person doubt everything about themselves and what they have believed to be true about their relationship. It will forever make them have some level of trust issues in future relationships. I don't think it matters who the affair is with or what comes of it. At the initial phase of discovering the affair, yes, it will make a difference but inevitably, when all is said and done it will not matter, it all hurts no matter how the affair happened or who it happened with.

nsrush83	the one that produces a child would be a little bit more stressfull. But they are both equally wrong.

middle aged and love it	One that produces a child because it is the child that suffers for other peoples actions.

tjw63_2004	I would have to say that the affair that produces a child would be more stressful since there would be a constant reminder of the event forever.