Who here considers it wrong...?

atti_cat	Hello!! its wrong. If you think it....it is the same as doing it.

Whipper Snapper!	It depends, if it's your wife, then yes its wrong, if its just a fling, then who cares, just my opinion.

Robert C	Whether it is considered right or wrong, it is a fact of life... it all has to do if someone will really admit it to themselves. That's where the dishonesty occurs and that dishonesty is wrong.

Lydia	Yes, I think that is very wrong. It kinda means you are bored with them...you need to do something to re-spark the relationship

Marine Wife	um, I do. If my husband were thinking about another woman while being intimate with me I would be really upset. It would hurt a lot.

Lunaeclipz	Not me Johnny Depp where are you?

goldenhairedsurprise	I don't think that it is wrong if it is someone that you really never would have the possibility to ever be with. Like a celebrity or someone that you are just attracted to, but harmless. But if you are having a fantasy about someone that you know and it could threaten your marriage or girlfriend, then it might be a sign that something is wrong with your relationship. I think as long as it is kept a fantasy and is not acted on, then you are fine. I think that it is natural for some people to have these kinds of fantasies. I personally don't do that because I am really into my husband and so I don't need to. But I bet that most men like to fantasize about other women to spice things up. I also don't think that just because you might do this, that it makes you a bad person. It is "different strokes for different folks" kind of thing.

sarrr	yeah thats kinda wrongg..you should break up with the person your "using"(in a way) and get the girl your fantisissing about.

natasha	I do. Because I'd hate it if he did. I never actually even considered it.

babyyy M $$$	I can say I've never done that. But I don't think it's wrong.

Kristi T	What goes on in your own head shouldn't be conceived as wrong, as long as you don't act on it. I mean if you aren't quite in the mood and it helps you to think about Brad Pitt or Pamela Anderson, whatever gets your motor running.

pureTEXAN15	well its wrong but i bet most couples hav at least one of them fantasise about someone else. its just human nature as long as u dont let it take control of u.

sassy	i believe everyone has fantasys... it's how/if you act on them that is the issue.

.	not really wrong. But you may be with the wrong person for the long run.

Kitty?	It's harmless....fantasies are actually good and it's not cheating because look who your in bed with?It's not the fantasy. There's nothing wrong with spicing things up.Just keep fantasies to yourself. Remeber:Men are visual. You can look at the menu..just don't order anything.

Wolfsburgh	mick, The old saying "I don't care where you get your appetite as long as you come home to eat" comes to mind.

Lil	Whatever gets you through the moment....

LifeIsPeachy	Well its wrong and its not. Its human nature I think to every once in a while do that... But as long as its not all the time, and you are still very into what you are doing with the person you are doing it with.

Heather B	As long as it isn't someone that you know or would ever have the chance of being with I think that it is just fine.

?? yaddajean ??	I think it is rude, especially if your partner finds out. You should not have to fantisize about someone else while making love to your partner.

Sugar	I dont' know if it's wrong or right.. if it's wrong I'm guilty

*MoOnLiGhT**	whatever happens in your mind should stay there. kindda like Vegas. sometimes we cant control what we think. but it is hurtful if your partner finds out. so don't tell because it hurts. and if it happens all the time, maybe you're losing interest in your partner. but to me is wrong. specially if it's someone you know.

littlevivi	Occasionally, it isn't wrong, but if some one is fantasizing every single time they are intimate with their partner, why are they still with that person?

I pity the fool!	thats the nice things about a FANTASY, you can always experience it in your head without guilt

Julia D	Depends. If it's all the time, that's not too healthy for the relationship. Once in a while though, things pop into people's heads and that's ok.

The One, The Only Krandazzo!	Um yes thats wrong, how dare someone make love to their partner and think of someone else, thats mentaly cheating. Not to mention it will make your partner feel like s hit.