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Why am I attracted to my husband's brother, if I love my husband?
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Why am I attracted to my husband's brother, if I love my husband?

I love my husband, but, every time his brother gets close to me, I get chills all over my body, and I love the way he smells! Don't get me wrong my husband smells good too!

You are attracted to him because you are human and have human wants and desires. As long as you don't act on it....enjoy it.

If another man can get you this aroused, especially your husband brother, maybe you should reconsider your marriage or evaluate what is it about the brother that make you feel this way. It's something you are lacking in your marriage to make you feel this way about another man. I mean it's thousands of nice looking men that smell great that you will see throughout you life but it should be just that, eye candy. If you want to stay married, learn to control your temptations and remember that's its only a attraction what you and your husband have is love.You can't help what your catches your eye but you can control it.

Cocoa Butter Skin
I guess its a phase

Sounds like just a little crush and why wouldn't you think he is hot, especially since you married his brother. I am sure they have many similarities. I wouldn't worry about it.

That's one of the problems with marrying a twin.

Because you are human!! Unless you are thinking of acting on your attraction then I don't think you have anything to worry about!

Bob Stopleek
Just, you know, & get it over with!

I agree with Darcy - but there is a big difference from finding someone attractive and being attracted TO someone (which could involve feelings and be a bit more dangerous). Other than that honey, your married but ya aint dead! LOL - Id feel pretty lucky to be get to hang around so many hot guys - There's NO harm in looking - too bad he doesnt have more brothers eh? hahaha

Maybe he is just attractive and you cant help yourself. Just make sure if ever giving the opportunity you don't act on those feelings.

You may be attracted to him for the very same reasons you are attracted to your husband. Just do not act upon it because that would destroy your marriage. Love is built on trust, respect, and faith.

It is all to do with consideration for the word 'IF', in you question heading.

Maybe you married the wrong brother!

Buy you husband the scent you brother-in-law uses. Problem solved.

Because even though you are married, you are still a young, stupid girl at heart.

Tiny Dancer
Well considering he's the brother they probably have a lot in common and are very similar so I could see why you're attracted to him. Just make sure you don't act out on these feelings (which I doubt you would) and everything should be okay. You can look but you can't touch!

No Chance Without Squirtle
Because your husband's brother is attractive to you. Just being committed to your husband doesn't make all other men unattractive.

Give it up. Don't go there.

Well, you are a human female, right? Why wouldn't you be attracted to an attractive guy? That doesn't mean you have to act on it. You also don't have to worry about it, it is normal.

Just because you are married doesn't mean you will not find others attractive..you are human.. What you do and don't do with that attraction is the question...leave it as just an attraction and nothing more.

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