Why do MEN do this to someone who loves them?

susu5	Probably out of their stupidity

Melissa	I say it because they are searching for something better but regrettably don't find it.. Women do it as well!!

Hamze	OK ** U NOT ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT-.- AND WHEN I SAY ** U (NO OFFENCE) I SAY IT CAUSE THAT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR TALKING ABOUT EVERY BOY

honey	i thought women are the ones who can't make up thier minds? this man is obviously weak.he can't decide so he will mess his lovelife completely.hope you will meet someone with strong conviction.

CJ	I do not recall this negative quality in men.

BunnyWuvy	Because men think with their "little men"...they don't care...they'll do whatever gets them what they want for the moment.

Locke	people do that sweetheart, not just men. its because some people don't know what they have until they don't have it anymore.

Angel2008	they forgot to wear their sign http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=upXayzBPuzM

Aryan K	becoz they do not realize the importance of that love make them realize by controlling the love you give here the law of scarcity will do the job

ly s	They want to see you cry. they thrive on that one little tear and do a happy dance. screw him up in the head with a tic-tac sized comment! Payback time.

Kara C	idk. im woman and to be honest i've done that. many times.....i hurt my ex husband a lot but he kept taking me back. quite frankly he deserves better than me. and you deserve better than the man your talking about. good luck!

Roy V	Because they think they have someone better lined up and it falls through or there significant other is getting close to finding him out and he goes back to you when the heats off or he feels the heats off.

invisible.manna	Because women allow it. Raise your dignity, and he can't succeed. There are gems waiting for you...BELIEVE IT. So, stop living in the rearview mirror... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pb_w4VsSyaQ

*â™¥â€ Ã‹rÃ¬cs wÃ¬fÃ«Ã¿ &* Ã‹thÃ£Ã±s MÃ¸mmÃ¿â€ â™¥**	some men only think about themselves and dont care about other girls feelings and some men want a break from there woman to have a little fun if ya know wat i mean and so they come back after the "fun" is over and need you back!

tazdvl_31	You act like WOMEN never do that! Ha! Don't stereotype us...some of us know exactly what we want and won't settle for anything less. If I were to break up with a woman, it would be for a reason and it would be a good one, and I wouldn't play the yo-yo game.

Tori Kae	Because alot of guys are matcho. Thinking their all that and that u cant get over them and that they cant get hurt and everyone is already in love with them. Or they could just be buttcicles. But not all guys. That actually happned to me and my boyfriend. Maybe they think gilrs are weak.

Chemique	Because most of them just can't change their behavior, its either just built into them, or they have no control over their actions. However if they are reallly realllly into you, they might make a difference in their life. xD And sometimes I just don't know. -peace and love

Princess Jasmine	I think its because they think after they break up with you they have the freedom to do whatever they want with whoever they want because they are single. And then once they leave you they realize exactly what you are and how much you mean. Its like the saying, "you don't know what you have until its gone." But yea, they're stupid for doing that.

Hayden K	I am sorry to say, but Im one of those guys. The reason why i had broke up with my ex is becacuse I have futher career ambitions which would mess up her career. So I broke it off before I got more attached. I know it hurt her but in the long run she will get over it. Yes I did go back to her one night saying that I missed her when I was drunk Then regreted it the next day because I knew what hassel it was going to cause. So there could be a reason why he does it.

Roberts Baby	i was told men like the chase and after they have you sometimes the feelings arent as strong as b4. its like you always want something you cant have but wheb you have it you realize it seemed better b4. i dont know if that makes much sense. second chances are ok but dont give more than 2 that just makes you look like a fool. some people are shy and have commitment issues.

keeakek jbk	Don't take it toooo seriously. This is about him, not you. Remember that. Some people just haven't found themselves yet and don't know what they want in life. Maybe you need to make a decision for him and tell him that you two need to lay off each other for a while and see what happens. There are other fish in the sea. Emotions are not all you need. Be realistic in this. What does your gut say? THINK about it. Don't let your emotions own you. If you know what to say to him, then say it. Sounds like he needs a safe friend who can help him talk it out. Maybe you need to be a friend but stay at a safe distance. You two can agree on this. But it's still okay to fall in love and marry if that is what's best, even after all that. Sorry if that's not clear, but it's hard to say just right.

hgm	Because it takes men psychologically/mentally 8 weeks to miss you and to record it as a "loss" in their brain. They always come back if they are going to, before or just after the 8 week mark. This is proven behaviour by the way. ;-) Then the same issues resurface sometimes and they leave again. If they do it again...well now, you shouldn't take him back a 2nd time. Men are so predictable if you know how their brain works.

Susan	Yes. But...they turn out to not be worth it. They are usually seeing more than one person at a time, and when one is wishy-washy, they turn to the other, and go back and forth. I dated a guy that I fell for 5 years ago, and every 6 months to a year, he'd come around and apologize. Sometimes I gave in and we hung out and stuff because I loved him. But..the smallest little thing, I wouldn't hear from him or anything. Finally, a couple weeks ago, now that I'm engaged with a man I've been with for 2 years straight, the guy calls again and begs me to marry him and is crying and telling me new reasons for why he was the way he was..blah blah blah. I told him no, and hung up. He called for twice an hour for 16 hours after wards and I still haven't heard from him. My advice...don't let him come back. He can't get his crap straight and can't figure out what he wants truly. Ok...there's a difference in the real needs than wants...he only wants you for a short time. Stay away from him. Good luck and I wish you the best.

readytorock	maybe not the best answer but men seem to have the need to feel over confident in themselves. If they are with someone that loves them, then they feel great. but if they break it off with the person, they seem to feel good about themselves knowing that theyve just broken somebody's heart. I've noticed this a lot in men. they urge the power of the relationship. :-(

Zee-ster	Because he is confused and possibly afraid of commitment. If you keep repeating this cycle though I don't believe it will end until you decide to end it. When I was in college I had such a relationship & the only way I got off the merry-go-round of now I want you now i don't was to end it myself and not leave the door open. Good luck finding your solution.

Ekove	Women do this too, it's not limited to men, don't be egocentric. Anyway, sometimes they're just lonely and want a quick, and if I may, stupid emotional resort. Sometimes they're just emotional unstable and want to keep all of their options on the table to go back and forth between them. Some people have commitment issue's, they want to be with someone, but at the same time they want to have the "freedom" of being single". I believe not everyone has the right personality to be in a long term relationship, we're just pressured by society and sometimes religion to think it's the natural thing to do. Maybe that guy is simply not the commitment type.