Why do most women try to change their men..?

Miss Casey	b/c men are stupid. Men are like pads we change them every day

Teenie	I can ask you the same thing .

mmurray001	First of all you are your own person and you dont have to change to fit someone elses idea of what a man should be. good luck

Alissa	I have never tried to change someone. In retrospect I should've but I didn't

prettygurl	cuase we havent found theht one

nvrrong	its what they do.

Moonshine Johnny	It happens when other people tell her what a mistake she is making by going with you. She becomes hell bent and determined to make a better person of you. I happens often.

f@ku	its not really we are changing guys. we just want our men to be a better person. at first when we met you guys, you're all nice,sweet and stuff....once you have us...you just ignore us, pay not too much attention as before...we women needs love and affection of our men, once we have it...we will do everything for our men. why dont you check yourself, why your S.O are trying to change you? My bf for 6 yrs now, isnt perfect there are things I hate about Him that he didnt show me when we were just starting...we had some fights over it...but after a long run I learned to accept it...and He also try to change when he realized that it is for him...

Kelli sue	when we first get together with you some things seem fun then as time passes we think you will grow up a little on your own eventually we get tired of waiting so we have to try and change you and then the real problems begin

oracleofohio	Because they "think" they know what they want. I think its a sign of insecurity. I also think many have no concept of what love is. Love is total acceptance. The good, bad and ugly. You just accept it. If you can't deal with it you move on. I think many women are afraid to move on once they find someone so they try to change them into the person they've been looking for. The cure for this is for everyone, women and men, to know who THEY are before they enter a serious relationship. How can you know what you want if you don't know who you are? If you "hardly know who you are" after dealing with all of this, you might be just as insecure as the women you've been dating. Don't let a woman change you! be who you are! Find out who you are and THEN find a woman who can relate. Good luck :)

Cecilia	no it is that a male tries to "be someone else" while trying to get the girl so once she falls for him he changes to his normal self and then she just wants to change him back to the person she first met

anita c	THEY SHOULD NOT AT ALL

not this way	actually i always asked the guys i am with why the want to change me. i never did that to any person, because its obviously what i wanted so why change it, but they could never accept me.

CicagoCubs07	Because there women and thats the way it's always been. They know that they can make us change so they do.

hotmomma	We women knows what is best!!! LOL. I like your question. Who knows. I know I do.

secret123	b/c most of us are looking for the 'right' guy...and if you miss the mark by a few points then we like to see if we can change ur mind on those few points.. OR maybe you don't act like urself when you first start dating someone and then sometime later you revert back...and who wants you to revert back? so there fore they try to get you to be the first guy they met...see??

Heide	yes. They think they are helping you be a better person.When in reality they are makeing you in to what they want you to be. If it feels right do it. If not just forget about it.

April	Maybe you date insecure women????

i_no_the_answer	i don't :)

Starla_C	I accept my husband for who and what he is. I would never try to "change" him. In fact, no one can change anyone who does not allow themselves to be changed. Don't blame someone else for something you are responsible for.

Sweet Suzy 777!	Same reason men try to change their women.

Summerly, loving life	Because woman like to control their men. They come fro home where their mom told them what to do then they want their girlfriend or wife to tell them what to do or they feel lost.

Hollynfaith	You'll be who we tell you to be and you are going to like it! And we wouldn't have to change so much if you men weren't so messed up.

fuma74	go figure it starts with the church we should know we are in trouble the whole thing starts off with isle alter hymn

Kemma	because we feel we can!

Aliz	Well, look at yourself emotionally, how you dress, your language; in other words anything an every thing about yourself. Then think back to what those girls wanted you to change. There must be a clue there. If you find things that you need to change then work on that. Good luck.

passionfruit2571	Because women were put on this earth as ur helper....we tell u the things about urself that...let's say ur mother wouldn't...and ur father couldn't. The power of a womans love is amazing ....next time don't fight it, just listen and believe what she tells u. BTW....if u come out of the relationship confused...you just need to listen more rebel less.

daisy	well i think this is our destiny to change u men we do that coz u men love that even if u deny it . Men try to be better just to teas some x gf or x wife or to attract a new g come on we r ur reason to change yourself

moonchild	They are trying to make them into their Ideal man. Their perfect man.