Why do women get so mad when you ask what's wrong?

Gracie	because we expect that people know everything. but sometimes we just wanna be left alone.

davie	there are two things that man will never fully understand 1. chaotic systems, and 2. women.

maryannmccarthy2003	Because we expect our men to know everything. ;-) Mary in Camden, MI

stacy g	because men do things to make you mad or hurt your feelings then have the nerve to say whats wrong instead of just saying im sorry for what ever you did wrong

locogirl0381	Because we think that you should already know and by you asking show that you don't pay attention to us.

CupCake	Most women don't get mad when you ask them what is wrong...so maybe your asking the "wrong" women...

norvel.lewis	They get mad because at the time you are asking what's wrong, they feel that you should already know.

Kim a	Because they are women lol.. When theres something wrong.. if you ask them whats wrong they seem to think your havin a go at them :/ ..im a woman dont get me wrong.. but i dont get mad :D lol

mamamoon	depends could be it's so obvious that she feels you should already know could be you ask but you don't really want to know and she can tell or she could be out of her f'n mind

Jolly	You might have did something so wrong that she assume that you are making fun of her by asking.

*SAHM*	because you're already supposed to know whats wrong and be well on your way to fixing the problem! lol i know, us women are quite complex.

Phil	Because if you REALLY knew her, you'd KNOW what was wrong, especially since it's ALL YOUR FAULT!

â€¢ LeeYo â€¢	I think it's like when you keep asking someone if somethings wrong, and they keep telling you nothing. Women like to see that you care.

ChristieO	IDK, I would love for my husband to ask me whats wrong and really care about me. But he never asks, and when I tell him, he doesnt even want to know.

raishe alghool	becoz men r supposed to know why they're mad and everything else that's on their minds. for some foolish reason, some women think men r sensitive.

TOUCH MY PIGTAILS AND DIE!	Statistically speaking, most women suffer from insanity for most of their adult life.

pinkmangobaskets	because guys aren't really as emotional and sensitive as women are. You can always tell how a woman feels about something by her body language. Women wear their heart on their sleeve...At least I do :)

Lisa Marie	I think most woman like it when you ask what's wrong over and over until they feel you are truly interested in their feelings. When you show concern they'll open up as long as you don't give advice.

Skittles	it's because we expect men to know enough about us if you're in a relationship. and it hurts if you have to ask because it means you don't know them enough to know when something's wrong.

Hannah Cameron	Sometimes we find that men are ignorant and don't pay enough attention in the first place. Usually it's something obvious that you did or that happened in front of you. Or maybe it's because we just don't want to talk about it.

askme	Because she's pissed off at you....and you should know what you have done! And she gets mad when you pretend or act like you have no clue....possibly you do feel clueless...but again...I think it is a male trait to hear half of what the female says...that's why you truly have no clue.....hence why she is mad!!

Your dad thinks I'm hot	Because women expect you to magically know why everything is wrong.You're suppost to be psychic.C'mon!lol

Sweetpea has a pea in the pod!	to be honest, we expect you to read our minds. also, a lot of times, I feel upset that I am upset about what I'm upset about, and its confusing and since I can't voice it well, I just yell at people to figure or leave me alone. (If they figured it out, that would best)

Miss J	Some women want you to know how they are feeling. Asking what's wrong means you don't think or you didn't know anything was wrong.When in reality they want you to feel what they felt or just know. Yeah... Why don't we just say something. I don't know. lol.

Laura	Because you are supposed to be able to read the bodily hints, the moodiness, as something is obviously wrong. And think back onto what has happened between you two/her and others, during that day, or that week. You should be able to figure it out.

BRrrr Why Am I Soo Cold???	If we get mad its only because we feel like you should know. Its also a possibility that "whats wrong" is asked in a rude manor and not in a way that shows genuine concern. OR we may be menstruating in which case, it may not be your fault but just assume it is anyway, lol.

Laura	It depends in the situation, if you happened to be there when the incident ocured and the problem is obvious- it's a little annoying when you ask. If you were not there, and she gets mad, maybe you just need to give her some time to cool off until she is ready to talk about it.

Digz	It's true most of us expect men to know why we are upset..since the man is the reason we got upset in the first place...but we're not all the same, I learned that men are just dumb when it comes to reading women. I learned to tell my husband what i want him to do, and what i don't want him to do...When he does what i didn't want him to do (most of the time) he already knows why i am mad.

SwiPeR	9 times out of 10 it's a dumb question to ask @ that time. More than likely what ever is wrong is something that you did or you were around when it happened, so we feel that you should know what's already wrong.

Chris S	it is because they actually WANT to be mad or upset at that particular moment. Just leave them alone and they will get over whatever it is up their crawl. And if they don't ...... POOF be gone they think we should know what is wrong when in REALITY they don't even know what is wrong. Just walk away and do something else. They will get even more mad, then possibly cry then maybe sleep then they will be better. They like to think we should know, Try this. have a good day with your lady, then change tone start acting mad and stop talking to them, and if they ask what is wrong tell them to leave you alone. Then after they keep asking tell them it is because of they way they looked at a guy and they will freaking laugh. The same way we do inside when they say that stuff to us