Why do you think a married man go for Prono? Seriously?

answerman	I am sure he still loves you. maybe he just wants a little spice in the love life. take the camera and make a lillt feature staring yourself and leave it for him. or if your not so bold try some new and exciting things live and in person. Good luck and dont worry it will be fine

smtn	Pron is additive. Once anyone starts, he or she will go back for more and more. He may still loves me but unless he can stop from watching anymore of those soul poisoning stuff, I don't see how you can stay married. There's no excuse for him to continue to hurt you.

NATALIE P	Honey, i have the same thing, my hubby is slightly older than me and he tends to have a sneak. Its an emotional thing for me too but have learnt its nothing to do with me, that they don't connect them with us. sometimes they just like to watch an you never know you could say... you enjoy what your watching.... fancy trying some out (bearing in mind what it is. Just remember its not a comparison!!!

Mrs. Robinson	a keen eye. you said it right there. a mama keeps a keen eye on her child not a wife on her husband. its generally not a reflection of you. men like visual varity,that simple.. to make them sneak etc, is not an equal balance in a relashionship and just promtes him to hide things from you. as long as he brings it home to you everynite and is not excessive or crossing the line, web cams etc i wouldnt freak out about it

Beatngu	Hes looking for a reason... or a number of them. Men are visual. So, either it is something new... or different... could be variety of breasts, or maybe the color of their hair... could be that he has wild fantasies and is ashamed of what you may think... I would say talk to him. Don't raise your voice, and don't use any certain tone. I know it hurts, because you feel like he wants it over you.. it could be that he is simply in the mood and you're not home, or are already asleep and doesn't want to bother you? It could be a number of things. Just talk and explain how you feel about it. Then go from there.

Gary B	You have immediately assumed that the problem is with you. That is the WRONG approach. The problem is with him, and how his "habits" affect you. The only real answer to this problem is professional counseling. You BOTH must go. he has an addiction, bu you are going to have some forgiveness and trust issues that you will need to work through. You both need to see the SAME counselor so that he can coordinate your cases, seeing you individually and as a couple, as necessary. In the mean time, GET RID OF THE COMPUTER. Sell it to one of those "Computer Recycler" businesses. And be SURE to tell them that they might find something "interesting" on the hard disk, so be sure to ERASE IT! Remember you wedding vows, which probably had something like this in there: "to love . . .in sickness and in health". This IS a sickness, but yo';re both going to need to heal. And it is very difficult to do it alone. So make locating that counseling a priority, and in the mean time destroy the source -- get rid of the computer.

Michael T	This question comes up here all the time. I don't think of it as infidelity and I don't think most men do. He's not tired of you and I'm sure he finds you attractive and I seriously doubt you are about to lose him. Tell him it hurts you. Ask him why he watches it. Be non confrontational and supportive toward him. He'll be more likely to let you know why that way. I've watched it and still do sometimes. I don't really know why I like too. If my wife ever asked me to stop, I'd try to comply, but, I'm not sure I would fully.