Why does my wife do this!?

Liz	Maybe a few hours of quality time with you would mean more to her than "all that stuff", have you thought about that? No, I can see you haven't.

MathisNotMySubject	she wants to spend time with you, love isnt about having everything in the world, love is about spending quality time with people you love, if I were u, id spend some good time with her, or she might end up cheating on u

Veronica.	she is satisfied. and she also appreciates it. but she does want the person she loves. not all the fancy stuff. just try and take at least ONE day off. and spend time with her. dont spend money on her.

charlesjerrell	you dont see the answer, its in your own words, no she doesnt have everything she wants, she wants time with you, and you are to busy, remember, what you dont do, someone else will

bbova22	She wants to spend time with you. Put yourself in her shoes. Your sitting at home alone all day.With nothing to do. She didn't marry you for your money.Its great that you can give her all those things...but did you maybe stop to think that all she wants is you?

von L	Money isn't everything. She married you because she loves you and wants to spend her lifetime with you NOT your money. (its a plus) Woman get lonely and too much time and money equals bad things could happen. Good luck

indulgeme	It can't hurt to take some vacation time off and spend it with your wife. Take a day or two. We want to spend time with our husbands and have all the nice things too. I'm sure you have vacation days you can use.

vettelse	I WANTED THAT FROM MY HUSBAND TOO..ALL THE STUFF IS NICE AND APPRECIATED BUT IT DOESNT HUG YOU, KISS YOU, TELL U THAT IT LOVES YOU!! GET IT!! IT IS NIC TO SHARE WITH THE ONE U LOVE..IF U CARE ENOUGH AND WANT HER TO BE TRUELY HAPPY,,TAKE SOME TIME OFF AND ENJOY LIFE..YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT IS AROUND THE CORNER..LIVE..LOVE BE HAPPY.. I MISS MY *** OF A HUSBAND FOR DOING WHAT U DID BUT LIFE GOES ON,..MAKE SURE IT'S WITH THE ONES U LOVE .MAKE SURE THET KNOW IT TOO,......CIAO

Momma Bear	My hubby is the same way. He buys me lots of nice stuff, but that still doesn't replace having him around. Does she seem like she needs all this stuff to keep her happy, or do you assume she does. It sounds to me like you guys need a nice 2 week vacation somewhere warm!! Good Luck!!

phattybiggums	Take a day off work and then after you do that the next time she wants something you tell you can't because you took a day off to please her and now the money is tight.

Sonix	She really dont have what she needs. She needs you. I could relate to her, when I was a child I lived with my grandmother because my mother left to another country to work and give me everything I needed (material). Thing is what I really needed was her by my side. think about that.

SS	She just wants to spend more time with you.. if you don't spend time with her, someone else will and you'll be left all alone.. it doesn't matter that you're the one who's providing for her now.. when you divorce, she'll get half your share and you'll be as poor as her

Nugget	First of all, don't ever think you're safe from cheating. Secondly, yes she has everything she wants, except YOU. Maybe she gets lonely and needs you to spend some time with her. life isn't just about having stuff, it's about having companionship.

Lila N	if you just got married for about nearly three years.its normal cause you are not with her so often anymore... give a child or a puppy to keep her company.... she is lonely.. and bet she was with you most of the time b4 u got married so,just understand that a puppy is seriously a good idea let her choose,then she will have someone to be with her at all times.. be happy... she wants you.. not your things :) if she asked you to quit ur job,and be with her she wants you.. not need you lucky man u are :) wish you happiness in ur marriage

GoodGuy53	For some reason she thinks you are what she needs. Better hope she doesn't find out she doesn't. Things or no things, she needs more than you are capable of giving. Any guy can give her things, only you can give her you. Better decide if you really care about her or not.

Don't be stupid	She is lonely, no amount of material things can cure her of the desire you be with you. Take some days off, you might find out that you miss her too. My wife nags on me to do the same thing and it is a delicate balance of work and family it has to be right or they both will suffer.

strew	She wants you, you twit! Do you think she is so shallow that she married you for the money and things. Ay idiot with a line of credit can keep their wife in things, its a real man and husband thast nurtures her soul. Your message is that she is no more than something that can be bought off with pretty things. She has a soul and a heart. Neglect these at your own peril buddy. Do you think poor people are miserable in their marriages cos they have no money. She couldnt risk leaving you - you sound like a real catch...NOT!!!

Lovely butterfly	All the stuff you give her doesn't matter to her, what matters more is you being there for her. Maybe she isn't a materialistic girl. I think you should make time for her at least once a week or something and spend time with her and relax at the same time. Explain to her your financial situation and come to an agreement so everyone can be happy. I'm sure you won't regret it.

vyxen	you cant buy her stuff to replace her husband. she misses you, the you she fell in love with and married. you work long hours don't you? 6 days a week, maybe 7? by the time you get home she is already in bed asleep? when you first started your job she would wait up for you but now she doesn't? she misses you and she is lonely.

blahfjaodjlf;	how much more oblivious can you get? you can't build a marriage off of just buying things for your wife! think about it, she has to sit in a house all day by herself, with what? a bunch of purses that you've probably bought her? cars? She's obviously lonely! take some time off work, you iddiot! missing that one day of work won't matter when your wife is signing those divorce papers...

Livin' On Love	She wants YOU! In your mind you think it's ok b/c you give her everything she asks for, you may even think that SHE is thinking 'ya I get what I want, I can get him to spend time with me' .. but I don't think that's the case. She may be feeling neglected, that your work is more important than her, etc. Just take a day or two off and spend time together. Plus, it'll stop her nagging! lol good luck =)

Gloâ˜…	Ok safe, not every women wants all the material items you can provide. She is desiring some of your time and attention, not just gifts and material items. I would not be so sure of yourself, I would suggest if you want to keep your marriage you spend sometime laying some logs in the fire, before someone else with less in the way of monetary and more in the way of time takes your place... And you end up looking very sad and smug.

North of 49	She doesn't have everything she wants. She wants time with you - she loves you! Material things are not the "be all & end all". Yes they are nice, but does not replace a human person to spend time with. I've also been there and yes, it's frustrating to be nagged like that when all you want to do is go to work, complete the items that are burning you out and be left alone. Sometime you have to wake up an smell the coffee (or roses). What I did was compromise: we sat down and selected some dates that I would take off and she left me alone (to over work my silly heart out) and did not nag after that. You shouldn't get mad/frustrated with someone who loves you.

Tinzy	Believe me. It gets boring sitting in the house alone all day while the hubby is at work. Especially when she loves you and wants to be with you. I would talk to her about this and explain why you can call off work. Maybe you can call off work just one day but tell her after that she needs to find a hobby whether it be a class or something else. Plus if she joins something she might be able to find some new friends that will take up her time during the day. Good luck

Happy Heart	Although you must be a wonderful provider, your wife apparently loves you and wants to spend time with you. She misses you when you're out working and there's only so much a woman can clean in a house each day. Every woman enjoys the nice things but those things doesn't replace the warmth and affection from her husband. If you knew you would die in one week, would you want to continue working or take time to spend with your wife? We're not guaranteed another day so try to find balance between your job and spending quality time with your wife.

x_thatscool	It's really, really obvious! Sure, she's got all the material possessions she wants, a big house, nice car, etc. But there are a lot of women out there, and I think she's one of them, who would trade any of that to be with their husbands. She just wants you to take a few days off of work, because she wants to be with you. That shouldn't bother you, moreover it should make you happy. It wouldn't hurt for you to at least take off a few days a month to be with her, after all -- What's a nice life without the spouse who helped build it with you?

MAGIE	Ok she wouldn't risk cheating on you because she will be on the streets. Fine, what if you can't spare a few hours or 1 day with her & all you do is to work your whole dame marriaged life out , what does that prove to materials then being loved by someone. What if she dies you have lost her for what you worked for, can you get back the same person in your life NO ?/ So take a break take her out where ever she wants to go with you do it will, make a lot of differences in life, Life is short make the best of it.

lcar1059	Money isn't everything. Sometimes she needs to feel like she matters enough for you to take 1 stinkin' day off of work for her. It doesn't matter if you do nothing but toil around the house - the point is that you would be showing her that she matters to you. No matter how much money you make or how many material things you are able to give her, it does NOT make up for being there for her emotionally and physically. For you to think that you can do whatever you chose and she doesn't count (which is what you are saying) simply because you are the breadwinner is horrible. You need to remember that she is NOT your employee, she is your WIFE and should be higher on your priority list than you have placed her.

Crazy H	This is the paradox of having a wife..... They are never satisfied..