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Why dose my wife always want to shower with me?

My wife is pregnant with a baby boy YAY it will be our first child. And she is 32 weeks pregnant, well for the past 4 weeks she has been taking showers with me. She told me she is afraid to take them bye herself for some reason. She has become super clingy as well, my wife has never been like this. We are both 26 years old. Advice?







Master
Because she really needs you man! You make her feel secure. Enjoy being wanted and needed so much. Long may it last


Ciara
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maybe she feels like your acting distant so she is trying to reach out to you in the only way she knows how.. try doing things for her and making more of an effort.. she is pregnant she just wants to feel loved <3


ur a loser
all women are clingy during pregnancy


nojuicy
Dude just enjoy it. It is the last few weeks you will be alone for probably 20 years or so!!


Laugh
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Hormones


goodies make the boys jump on it
it sounds like she scared of her water breaking or that she may slip and fall but i would just ask her but don't be rude about it just ask her nicely


Linda
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She doesnt want her water to break when she's taking a shower.


plt1157
remember youre wife is probably going thru alot of emotions right now due to the imbalance of hormones. Hang in there bro i had to go thru the same thing.


melissakurtz04
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maybe she feels like she is only to fall down or something in the shower. is there something wrong with her taking a shower with you.


Caligirl
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Probably afraid she'll fall while showering alone and you won't be there to help her...she may be having anxiety about making sure the baby gets here okay. She'll be fine if you talk to her about it.


Candy B
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well i had 5 kids and i never felt that way, that's just her personality,
and i was younger that she is.
before the WORD 'hormonal' came about; nobody ever considered us to be like that.


jelesais2000
The way you describe it, she's a little insecure and nervous, so she wants you around. Be there for her, and later, she'll be there for you. As long as you're sharing the shower, why not wash each other's backs?


Ocimom
Enjoy it - and she's getting close to birth - its normal feelings. She wants to know you care for her and will protect and be there for you. And maybe she's a bit afraid of falling and hurting herself or your child.


Annie
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She is pregnant and now she is concerned for her safety. She may be afraid that she might fall in the shower when alone. Or, she may think you will stray when she get larger. Just be patient and loving, it is only for 9 mo.


SparkleNinja
She's probably nervous about being alone because she is paranoid that something will happen to her and your child. She doesn't want to slip in the shower and not have anyone there to help. She just wants to be around you so she feels protected.


Chris S
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She's bigger with the baby, and fears for the child.

She could slip or anything, and yes she's emotionally with the pregnancy.

Don't know if she's going over board, but you're about to be a dad, take care of the woman carrying your child.


in my opinion
uh shes pregnant thats your answer, her hormones are going all haywire. its just part of the pregnancy. also she might want to take showers with you cause she might be afraid of falling or slipping. just dea with it man, its part of the cycle, her next phase will be the nesting phase.


Common sense isn&#39;t anymore..
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She is hormonal right now, cut her some slack, her body is going nuts on her. Be sweet, wash her back for her, you won't have time alone like that after the baby is born for several months so take advantage of it now and enjoy it. :) Congrats on the new baby.


truly
Is she afraid she is going to fall...that someone will come and hurt her or the baby? Was she clingy before the pregnancy? Maybe she is afraid that you'll leave her? Does she leave the house? Whatever her fears are, just give her hugs as reassure her that you will always be there for her. Just keep making sure she is comfortable.


WhAteVeR
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Congratulations!
She is seeking reassurance from you, she may be feeling quite vunerable as her pregnancy progresses, suggest she does not lose perspective and she maintains her friendships with family and friends by going out for a coffee or visit them.

Try not to enforce her insecurities, just acknowledge them and move on, go with your wife to her pre natal visits, share the whole pregnancy with her.


Miss Jina
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Well she is going through lots of hormones and changes in her body...so maybe she feels nervous and scared ..and she wants you around. OR..the more logical..or reasonable answer might be she's afraid she might slip/fall...or have her waterbreak or some sort of emergency. Lots of falls happen in pregnant women....especially in the shower. Just be there for her.....when I was pregnant I was a complete different person...I went from independent and strong to insecure and clingy.....it's a crazy phase.


soandso
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well for one maybe she's a afraid she'll fall and hurt herself + the baby

and with all the hormonal changes its most likely normal

or maybe she's just taking the pregnancy for granted after having devised a plan to have you as her own and now that she's succeeded she will make your life hell showing what's she's really like lol


mcdonald1124
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With the due date being near she probably is getting more nervous about having the baby. Like other answerees have said, maybe she is nervous about her water breaking or being alone in general when it does happen. Also, this is your first kid together so maybe the idea that he/she is going to be born soon makes her want to be closer to you. Not to mention the hormones that go along with pregnancy are probably causing her to act a bit weird.


Miss Chris
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she might feel like she is all alone. and she kind of is. if you think about it she is the one handling the pregnancy, she is the one giving birth, she is the one responsible for her baby right now. you watch the whole time. she needs security and she will feel that way when the baby is born i think. she needs to know everything is and will be okay. let her be clingy. she may also feel like you dont care as much as you should which could cause her to be clinging to you for reassurement. inform her you love her and are always there for her. i bet that makes a difference. and just because you tell her something good one day doesnt mean youre done and you dont have to tell her again. tell her nice sweet things like everyday!


just wondering
she's just creepin all out cause labor is so close by. It doesn't matter, you two are married, you are allowed to do these things you know. Just let her shower with you, unless there's not enough room and it makes showering a pain in the behind. I find that fun, I haven't done that to my husband in a loooong time. I just might try that again soon, hahaha. But I'm pregnant too, my big belly will probably take up all the room in the shower, hahahaha. Well, that was an exageration, I'm only 19 weeks, but I'll get big eventually.


Lain
She may be worried about falling in the shower. As for her being super clingy, it could be just the change in hormones making her that way. Also could be that this is your first child and she is probably nervous and worried the further along she is getting. Good luck! Just be as supportive as you can while she is going through this.


Cruisin&#39;=^_^=Cat
She might just be afraid to be by herself in case like mentioned before she starts to go into labor. Also, most women get more clingy and emotional. You may notice her crying or yelling more easily too, depending on the type of person she is. Emotions get so much higher when pregnant, and everyone and everything just becomes more important and neccessary.

Congrats and good luck! My sister just had a baby boy two days ago. ^_^







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