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Why is it that a woman can hit a guy and do whatever they want and it's okay but if a guys hits back?

he's an abuser?

But yet women want equality.







Isaac
Men are typically much stronger than women, and the physical difference makes it one sided fight. It's the same as bullying when the 6th grader hits the 4th grader (it just isn't a fair fight).

Now, that doesn't make it right for a woman to hit a man. But, if it does happen, most men would have minimal hurt, and should be able to walk away.

By the way, a woman can be charged with spousal abuse.


Kathleen312
That's domestic abuse, and it applies to both male and female. However, most guy don't want to lay a hand on a female, because some believe it is rude too, or not polite, but if anyone is abusing you or hitting you, call the cops.


David J
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Abuse goes both ways. I have seen women arrested for putting marks on a woman, be it not as often. The problem is how do you teach two grown people that hitting isn't the right thing to do? Good Luck


vlc ash bot
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its not ok for women to hit men.
now its the law dont abuse your child ,wife ,companion ........ the list goes on by the way we [women] are not drums thats what gets beatings.


snuffles
FINALLY, people who see it the same way as myself.

the debates I have had about this with friends....hours and hours of trying to explain this viewpoint.

Women seem to only want equal rights when it suits them!! I wouldn't like to be hit by a guy (or a girl) but I'm sure he wouldn't like to be hit by me either!!


owc
because guys are usually stronger, and if you get beat by a girl well then you're just a wimp lol


ymyyujyjy y
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Do unto others, right? Kick her in the face. It's self-defense, not abuse.


tiger1943
Women should be locked up for abuse the same as men.!!


Ashley
I'll tell you my opinion is if its good for the goose its good for the gander!!! I believe if a woman hits a man that man has just as much right to hit back. I have seen more and more women getting arrested for domestic abuse and I think that's a good thing!!


Basketballbest23 Tav
ya they love to kicky my nuts


ayesha zahid
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well women want equality in other things............... a woman only hits with a motive a man can do it for revenge or in anger.................. women want equality in the way the society treats them men and women are most deffinetly different in the biological way men have more strength...... they are powerful.


spider
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i don't think its okay to hit anyone and don't believe in it


jessi
it's not right for anyone to lay their hands on anyone


Rayray
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Well i actually think it's wrong for anyone to hit...

Like me and my bf made it clear if i hit him ill get hit in return and if he hits me i'd hit him in return cause we both believe if u hit someone u deserve to get hit back...Unless it's like play fighting then i guess it's okay to mess around..

A lot of people think it's wrong cause men are physically stronger and can hurt women and women sometimes dont hit hard so its not gonna effect the guy if she hits him..


Miss Ladybug
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No one should hit anyone. Children hit because they can't communicate. As adults we should express our feelings and emotions with words. We teach our children not to use violence, why would it ever be acceptable for an adult to use it? If a woman hits she is an abuser too.


Jess
This is absolutely true. It's just the way it is because there's such a huge increase of feminists - and the meaning gets lost because it doesn't mean equality anymore, just more power. Men in general are just seen as a more powerful figure than women - which makes it seem like abuse. But what most people would generally think is that women can't cause harm to men. You could still probably take that person to court though, whether it's a male or female.


KC
It's not OK.

You sound like a bitter woman hater. Get some therapy.

Seriously. I'm sick of guys getting on here and making generalizations about women.

Go hate somewhere else.


Rosie_0801
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Those of us who consider ourselves to be ladies don't do that.
Anyway, domestic abuse and assault are still crimes even when a woman is the aggressor. My guess is that men don't report it. If they don't report it, there will be no consequences for her.


asmaa
i mean if she slaps u .u can t slap her back.but if she does anything hustful u should just call the cops.i mean u r not gonna hit her because she is a women and u are stronger than her.that s why.i know it sounds not fair but that s the way it is.if she slap u and u punsh her back u go to jail even if she s the one who attacked u.


purple playdoh
well guys usually hit with more force then a woman would, and it's all about gentleman thing and stuff, you just don't hit women.women are weaker, if u hit her , it would hurt her way more than it would to u .
but personaly i think that if a girl hits a guy than the guy can hit her back , same goes if a guy hits a girl....


fade_this_rally
standard meet double

double standard


Const. King
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I agree women get away with almost anything. They can smack guys and it's OK, but if a guy retuns the smack he's
going to jail. If you think that's bad, you could not even begin to think what they get away with in divorce courts.


darbygirl
Naughty naughty you're saying something against females .The feminist police will come after you and slap you silly and the world will turn a blind eye because they're all afraid of them.


doomonyou!
i don't believe in hitting. But, let's think about this for a moment. What is better: a 6 foot 4 inch, 300 pound man slugs a 5 foot tall, 98 pound woman? Some people have a problem with it for the same reason they do not support hitting kids. It's not fair. They are smaller.
However, some women are huge and muscular, and some guys are weak and small. It really depends on how fair the fight is. Though the best idea would be to not hit anyone at all!


milkywaygurl123
cuz dudes r stronger dumba**


Damian S
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Your momma should have taught you never to hit a women. Just call the cops they get the same punishment as a male would. Never lay your hands on a female -_-


shanaycain2000
I don't like the idea of women hitting men or vis-versa.....
But in my case(as a woman) if a man hit me:
I would beat his A**
have my MAMA beat his A**,
have all of my FAMILY beat his A**
have him put in jail,
get a restraing order,
and sue his A**

If I were a man and a woman hit me.......I would honestly want to beat her A**........and im sure if thats happened to a man he will feel the same way because he might feel like HIS MANHOOD is being challgenged or something......BUT: even though you feel that way you have to restrain yourself and remove yourself from that situation quickly before you do something you'll regret latter.......

An Eye 4 an EYe leaves everyone Blind!!


Misty E
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I dont believe in that crap!
Im teaching my son if a female puts herself in that situation to knock her on her @ss!
Have you seen the mean little 2hits that are suppose to be our future??


thomaszabbott
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Welcome to the hypocritical 'have cake and eat it' society!

Good point-if women are equal to men, why can't they take a slap like one?!







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