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Why won't people take us seriously?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 months now. We are really in love, and really want to have a future together. Nobody really takes us seriously though, they all say "you don't know what real love is!" But we REALLY do. Does anyone believe that we are in real love? I really love him and i wouldnt mind spending the rest of my life with this beautiful person.







jencaldwell1975
Well how old are you? are you too young? go with the flow but do not rush any issues! Love is Love but not allways the kind that lasts forever.


dionnejkthomas
then why wont you hint him to make a futher step just to test if he really is in love with you?


spriege
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first of all if you love him, you wouldnt care what other people think of your love. if both of you feel the same then go ahead and get married, but do think about the fact that you are going to be with this person for the rest of your life, also 8 months is a short period but love has to limit. so you do what your heart feels. :-)


crosstown64
LONG AS YOU AND HIM KNOW THATS ALL YOU NEED,BUT IF YOU WORRY WHAT PEOPLE SAY YOU AND HIM WILL NEVER BE HAPPY,ONLY TIME WILL TELL THE TRUTH NOT PEOPLES OPINIONS.


Claire
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Worried about the "beautiful" bit. That will change...
Why would you not love each other? You know what it is like to be in love after 8 months. That is what matter.
You do not know what it is to be in love after 15 years but how could you? No one can blame you for that.
Go for what you think is right and good luck to you.


jajajojikatt
SWEETIE YOU SAY "I DONT REALLY MIND" BEING W/HIM. THAT SHOULD TELL YOU SOMETHING.IF YOU ARE REALLY IN LOVE YOU DONT ASK STRANGERS FOR ACCEPTANCE ABOVE YOUR PARENTS.REALLY SHOWS A SIGN OF IMMATURITY. LOVE IS A FULL SPECTRUM. ITS YOU,HIM,YOUR FAMILY,HIS FAMILY AND OF COURSE GOD.
AND I DO BELIEVE YOU CAN LOVE IN EIGHT MO AND AT YOUR AGE. BUT IM JUST GOING BY WHAT YOU WROTE. AND YOU SAY "NOBODY", HOW MANY PEOPLE? SOUNDS LIKE MANY PEOPLE LOVE YOU. SOUNDS LIKE YOU TWO WILL HAVE A HEALTHY MARRIAGE WITH SO MANY PEOPLE CARING ABOUT YA'LL. ASK THEM "ALL" WHY?


lovebug0928
If you really are in love why do you care what other people think or say about it??


yenieversorto@verizon.net
do you forget everyone else


robmad
If you are so in love than what other people think shouldn't really matter. And if it does maybe your really not "in love"


disha2 back to yahoo ans........
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LOOK,ITS A MATTER OF TWO LIVES SO I ADVICE YOU BOTH TO HAVE A VERY SERIOUS AND AN OPEN CONVERSATIONS ABOUT YOUR LOVE WITH ALL THOSE WHOS OPINIONS MATTER TO YOU TELL EVERYTHING AND MAKE THEM REALIZE THAT YOUR LOVE IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE AND EVERLASTING.


belizeigram
Ms ,I luvyou, I believe you luv your boyfriend . I pray it works if thats what you both want!


UK Patrick
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I know you know what love is.
But the experience and wisdom of most older people is much greater than yours. Believe it or not, they usually know best.


uro levu
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Good for you girl follow your heart.Don't listen to anybody if your happy with him than his right one for you.


tessie35
It really don't matter what someone else think. All I can say just be careful.


i crave yours
i really don't mind about what other people thinks...
what matters most is me & my bf are happy with the love relationship we have with each other!

people will soon realize & accept on what kind of relationship i have with my bf...no explanation needed...


chrisSgrl
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grl all i can tell u is dunt listen 2 dem becuz me and ma bf have been 2gether for almost 5 months n we r in luv wit eachother but ma sista keeps tellin me dat we aint going 2 last becuz of ma other relationships i have had in da past but wut i can tell u is dat dunt listen 2 ne1 and if ur heart tells u dat u guys will b 2gether foreva den follow ur heart n dunt let ne1 tell u other wise.


Kimistry
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well how old are you?


tucksta_73
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What is love??? 8 months isn't a real long time is it...
do you own your own home ...have kids .. ???? would you kill for this man...if a hot nude chcik wanted to jump him when you wern't around ..would he say no???? at the bottom of your question it say" I wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with him " I think it should say "I'm going to spend the rest of my life with him".. doesn't sound like love to me????


MELISSA&ERIC
IF YOU LOVE THIS GUY AND HE LOVES YOU THEN COMPLETELY FORGET ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK...I'M GUESSING YOUR PROBABLY YOUNG AND MISUNDERSTOOD AND BELIEVE ME IF YOU LET EVERYONE ELSE TELL YOU WHAT YOU FEEL THEN IT WILL EVENTUALLY COME IN BETWEEN YOU GUYS AND YOU MAY LOSE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE!


AMAZING PERSON!
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You have to do something serious next to the people who don't think your really in love with him, like make out or do something or even say something that will prove your seriously totally inlove with him!!


dawnsdad
You left out how old you both are. That is a huge argument for if you should be taken seriously.


strawberry
This sounds like you guys are young, and people think it is just young love, and that you have a life time to experience real love. But you know just enjoy your boyfriend, and don't worry about it, If this is what you want most people around you will learn to accept it.


saved
HONEY,
ITS DOESNT MATTER WHAT PPL THINK OF YOU OR RELATIONSHIP ALL THAT MATTERS IS THATB YOU ARE IN LOVE AND THAT YOU LOVE HIM AND THAT HE LOVES YOU. FORGET THE WORLD AND THEIR THOUGHTS, THEY ARE JEALOUS AND WISH THEY HAD SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU GO GIRL ADN DONT EVERRRRR LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN. I WILL CERTAINLY PRAY FOR YOU AND HIM AND MUCH LOVE TO YOU. GOD BLESS YOU.:)


rain
because you're young. when you're young you don't know anything about the world or what love is. 8 months isn't a long time. but at any rate enjoy him and don't worry about what everyone says.


IM JUST ME
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maybe they are saying that if ur young...but if u REALLY know u love him and he does u then its possible to have a future together... dont listen to other ppl unless its for ur well being...


T-Bone
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You don't say, but I'm guessing it's because you are both very young and/or it's your first love. People always tell the very young that.


Sherry
Well from the way you are expressing yourself I am going to assume your young as in under 21. Why? well us old people say that partly because we have been there done that. I remember those very same feelings you speak of at no more than 15 yrs old. I was very much in love, and yes it is real love. If nothing else it is very real to you. The best thing to do is just smile, and wait them out. if it is meant to last it will. If not, you have a wonderful first love. There are many different types and levels of love. You are experiencing only one of them. As you grow older your views of it change a bit, experience does that. Enjoy it now, They dont have to understand it. You just love and go day by day.


Magic187
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That's really great!!!!!!!but its hard for most people to believe it because of the media.







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