Why would my husband cheat on me?

K_LOVE	Get back in the race before you two had kids.. this always happen when a woman have children.. just because a woman keeps the home well taken care of she has to keep the bedroom happening different ideals different adventures. maybe she is doing something you stop doing with your husband.

Tasha	Be more romantic , if he loves her tell him to go f hiself and kick him out of your apartment

mother of 4!	YOU NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF!!!! HE DOES'NT KNOW HOW. SORRY YOU ARE IN THIS MESS!!! GOOD LUCK

talkercatbiscuits	Oh! My Broken Hearted Sister! You can't make him love you if he doesn't. Why are you putting up with this? Kick him to the curb (he can go to her so he won't be 'homeless'); file for divorce, alimony and child support. Get a makeover (to make yourself feel good) and move on. God has better plans for you than living with a fornicator and adulterer!

lovin life	Hon, I hate to say this but you can't make him love you. Make a decision do love yourself? How long are you going to let him treat you this way?

Mon-chu'	you are dreaming if you think he is ever going to respect you and love only you. kick him to the curb and move on. get a good lawyer.

Amanda	Ultimatum. But be prepared that he might choose the other woman. But to be honest, why are you wasting time on this loser. Life is too short. Its not good for the kids either, its showing them that it is OK to be walked over. C'mon, stand up, tell him its her or me, give yourself 6 months if he stays to see how it goes, and if it isn't working, leave!!!

Rocky's Girl	Leave him for a while and if that doesn't make him straighten up then he will never change and you are better off with out him you deserve better

guardianangel	I don't even know why you are still with him.

jude	when a man does this to his wife and she has been nothing but good to him he jut doesn't love his wife anymore. this new woman makes him feel special and strokes his ego, he may be going through a mid life crisis, if he has been confronted and is still with her than he doesn't care about the consequences. sometimes others choices in life do hurt innocent people. his character is shown by his actions here. u can't get him t love u and only u, because this whole thing is not about u its within him.

anut76	you can not make him love you...

storm.shaker	Jeez, this guy is doing this to you and you're still with him? You must really love him alot. When I found out my wife was cheating on me I kicked her out. It hurt like hell for a while but I did get custody of my daughter and I'm better off now. Chances are that if you have confronted him and he says I'm sorry, blah, blah, blah he's still going to continue seeing her and there is nothing you can do about it. I wish you the best of luck in this matter.

I do 26.2	He is doing it because he can. Kick his @$$ out!!! File for a divorce. You can't make him love you, but you can get him out of your life.

California Kush	Oh hell no!!! How could you want anything to do with him after being deceived by him like that. That is some of the most scandalous sh*t i have ever heard!!!

Petunia	I don't think you can. If he loved only you, it would be only you he'd come home to. Your husband is playing both sides and enjoying himself doing it. You should file for a Divorce and get the hell away from him. He sounds like he is having to much fun with you and her. Get out!!!!!

julvrug	sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it as well, i would tell him either he starts being honest, at home on time to its over. You cannot make him love just you as he has proved to you, either you put up with his cheating and maybe bringing home something you didn't count on like an STD, or you stand up for yourself and tell him you will not live this way.

Kitty	You can't make him do anything. If he doesn't love you - he doesn't love you; there's nothing you can do about it. Who knows if he "loves" the other girl, or if he's just playing around; I'm sure for him it's just entertainment.

Shay	seems to me the only person he loves is himself, he is being very slefish to both of the women, however, both of you seem to be letting him get away with it, get out NOW! good luck

Kellie	You can't. If you're being kind and giving to him and he's still treating you like this, I don't think there's anything you can do. There just seems to be something wrong with his moral fiber.

Zyggy	You really can't. If he isn't willing to stop sleeping around, and having a completely seperate life that doesn't include you, he's obviously not ready to be married and you would be better off without him.

foosieboy1953	no one likes a doormat..and that is what you are being. you need to grab some self esteem.. your deserve better treatment.. you are allowing him to treat you badly. i would not care whether she cooked..banged or anything else.. he would have to leave my house..and he would take care of me and the kids no matter where he lived. you do not disrespect your true love. so he is a liar .. you cannot make him love you..and you only. HE IS A CHEAT. it is not your fault. he is wrong...

amy f	That's a question no one knows the answer to. If he loved you he would'nt cheat.He would have only been with you.From my own experience I think he wants his cake and eat it to.He has you to take care of the children ,home,etc.If you were his only true love he would be with you.You can,t make someone love you.You have to show him you are not going to put up with it anymore.If he truly loves you he will stop.If not you are better off.There is someone out there that will love you.

goodies make the boys jump on it	you should dump him i don't think he loves either of you