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Wife hurt my feelings while 'role playing'?

my wife and i recently started playing domination and submissive role playing games. She is the dom.

while teasing and humiliating me, she began to mock and ridicule the size of my small peni3.

she was BRUTAL!!!! I know it was in role and part of the game, but it really hurt my feelings and self-esteem. Especially if maybe she thinks it's true.

Should I say something to her about it?

Thanks!







JRS
Let her know how you feel and next time set some rules ... she probably doesn't even know your feelings were hurt ... good luck ... !


CHUCK S
NO -yOU WERE ROLE playing -stop being sensitive-be a man- return to the man role and dominate her with your package.


Phaylynn
Of course! You have to be clear on what the lines are when you go into role playing. If she unknowingly crossed a line with you you have to tell her. It's not fair to keep it from her.


oh_jo123
LOL are you really that insecure OMG grow up and be a man if it did not do its job she wouldn't have married you


notyochic
if this is a joke thanks i lmao sorry if your seriouse! LOL


wingsgirl4ever
Tell her that you want to reverse the roles & you be dominator & say some nasty things to her, & then say look that is how you make me feel when you say things like that. Who wanted to play domination & submissive games you or her?
Or you could go buy her a 12 in toy & say here you go I hope this is big enough for you.....


Rein
you could do role reversal and tell her how big hers is.


joyceeleann
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They style of role playing is meant to break you down completely. To bring all your emotions to the surface. Its a personal journey, to make you stronger and shows you what is needed to improve you. What hurts your feelings is your own way you think about you. If you need to feel better about something certain, find a way to make that thing better or in your case...bigger. If you no longer feel weak about that one item, you mentally will be more confident in yourself.


Robert
It was a roll play. Deal.


Colleen O
Obviously you shouldn't be doing role playing games if you can't take it.


*♥Beauty is pain♥*
Definitely say something, i'm sure she didn't intend to hurt your feelings and wouldn't want to do it again in the future. If you don't say anything now you'll only be subjecting yourself to more humiliation in the future since she obviously doesn't realize that you are sensitive when it comes to this subject.


jslorri
Tell her you are sensative to that particular area of role playing and you just want to know if this is her way of telling you when she couldnt tell you in the "real world" . Tell her it worries you that she might really feel this way.


vaughnc5920
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Communication is the key to the success of any relationship. If you are the submissive, you need to realize what that means. It sounds to me like you weren't really "role playing" you were playing along....


kitty
How bout telling her that this game was really stupid and you should find a more wholesome adventure to do with each other.

If ya open the door to evil, then evil will walk in and do it's thing.

Your feelings got hurt and that's just what evil wants to see. Next it would like to see you two fight and even break up.

Get good back into your lives!


ladylady4470
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You should always be honest with your feelings. She is your wife and should be understanding of them.....


Kitty
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Tell her that she has saggy breasts.


Happy Girl
Rating
Tell her it's small cause your crotch is to big!lol!


Ms.DaSilva
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talk to her about it,


Sheree
ha ha I am so sorry dude


why ask
Rating
I think you should bring it up, otherwise, you are always going to be thinking about it. Marriage is about respect and communication, without them every marriage is in trouble. Let her know your feelings and that way you will be able to find out hers.


gypsy g
Role playing is so much fun, sometimes. But yet as with any role playing there must be limits. Otherwise it doesn't work. Yes, say something.


lady_phoenix39
You should NEVER roleplay without being specific about some of the rules first. yes, you should discuss it with her, calmly and rationally OUTSIDE the bedroom.


Jmarie
of course you should say something to her! communication is key. she may not even be aware that she hurt your feels, you need to let her know


Seung Hee
Uh. By being a sub that's what's supposed to happen. Regardless of your size. If you take so much offense to it maybe you shouldn't be RPing.







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