Women only- would you do this to save your marriage?

Lady Hewitt	My husband would NEVER make me do something i was not comfortable with or did not like to do... Your husband was very selfish and self centered to want a divorce for this stupid reason. You will need marriage counseling to make this marriage work and neither of you can be selfish either.

up_all_night	If HE would hold your relationship back over something that petty and obviously degrading to you, I would raise the child on your own if I were you. You don't need him.

Jen G	Honestly do you think that even sounds reasonable. Tell him to get lost.

berry	No.

zether	wow, some of the stupid reasons people get divorced over

xxgq	Had to answer this. No man should put any conditions on a marriage. Let alone putting something as dumb as that. leave him,,,,,, He will leave you again.

ohiofirefighter42	Not a woman...but no...what the hell kind of ultimatum is that...tell him "sure honey, right after you let my stick this *%$#& up your a$$"

blaze23	That is the most shallow thing I have ever heard. What an a ss. Children are happier with parents that are apart and happy rather than together and miserable.

Kiki	i dunno what is your problems that lead to divorce .. for mine, my husband has an affair, and he expect me to SWALLOW for the children sake (7rs old and 4 yrs old). I did for three months, thinking that i might save the marriage .. now i come to realise that he just want to have the best of both worlds, he scared to let me go cos his new gf will not make a good wife, but he is reluntant to let the affair goes ...So after all the pains and struggle, i finally decided to file for divorce, cos no one deserve such treatment. why do i need to suffer, why don't i deserve better man. with or without man, we are independent woman, we shd have our own lives, we dun have to suffer. we dunhave to swallow ... if he really want the marriage to work, then it must be the same amount of commitment from both side, it take 2 to clap take care.. only you can help yourself remember, nly when a husband loves and care for the wife. then the wife will be able to pass the positive feelings to their kids, then then children can be happy. imagine, if your husband gives you all the crap, do you thing you can face the child positively with all your sadness and depression and unhappiness?

been_there_done_that	absolutely not....

Kristina A	Umm, i sorry to hear that , i hope you know how to communicate with him., try read http://savemymarriage.deals-guide.com/ , its a great book that will help you God be with you

val l	love means sometimes having to swallow!!! lol

dasani	no!he'll expect you to do other things you don't want to do

Ms Pollyanna	NO!

alexandria1_1999	this is not love, please just move along. this is a ridiculous request to save a marriage. please find someone who is worth your time.

ppv918	I would not do anything that makes me unhappy to keep my marriage going. I don't think you should do it either. Have you tried telling him that you don't like this?

t jefferson	He'll leave his kid without a father to get that? Why? To degrade and humiliate you, to ruin your pleasure, or just because he knows you'd say no?

tomimegi	If you feel that strongly about it absolutely not. If he really does love you ask yourself why he would want to make you do something you don't want to do? Do you really think something so small is going to save your marriage? You need to see the big picture. Go to counseling that may save your marriage.

Lu Lu â™¥	If thats what he is basing your marriage on then he certainly isnt worth it and he sadly will be missing out on who was probably the best spouse he will ever have. This marriage is not based on love it is based on his selfishness. Sounds like he is a narcissist and only cares about himself and what makes him happy. Honey you can do much better then this. Consider this a big red flag and know that you will never be happy with this man. I am with you girl, that is disgusting and certainly grounds for divorce.

Tasha	That is like saying, I don't want to be with you. He knows that you hate it and for him to say that tells me that he doesn't want to be the bad guy in this break up. He wants you to be the one to say that it's over for good.

Gisi	No. dont do it.

amber g	No and ur husband is an IDIOT lol